Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 5

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Hey Leo ... welcome back

Not sure what to say about today's episode...

Why haven't Raman and Ishita taken their relationship to the next level yet ? Forget what Ishita told the doctor, forget what she mumbled when she was reacting to Shagun's taunt. I dont want to focus on the character butchering or selective amnesia everyone has.

But I would honestly like to know what Ishita thinks? or rather what the CVs' thought process (if there is one) is?

So, let me just present the facts, as I see them, without any added emotions (or for that matter my own reactions either)

a) Ishita is insecure because of her fertility issues and rejection by someone she loved in the past

>As it stands today : She has become the best mother one could, to not one, but 2 children. A year ago, she thought she was a baanjh, now there MAY be hope that she could get pregnant. Her past relationship turned out to be a man who was not only weak, but also a mentally disturbed one. Not to mention a liar with murderous tendencies.

b) Ishita and Raman don't have a 'physical' sorta relationship

> There have been quite intimate and 'sensual' moments between them. The 2 that I can personally testify to are the scene where they almost kiss before Romi interrupts them to say that Adi is ill or something... The second is the Holi scene. I do not see anything other than burning desire in at least 2 situations. There may be more scenes I haven't watched.

c) Ishita thinks Raman doesn't want her or isn't attracted to her

> He's said things (with hidden double meaning) on multiple occasions, and if I am not wrong, also hinted at how attracted he is to her. If that is something that is not clear, then Please see my examples in point b. There was no room for misinterpretation of Raman's gestures.

d) No matter how much they plan, they have haddis

> Where there is a will there is a way. There are examples (reel and real) where people living in one-room chawls in a joint family having children. So, I don't think that should be a big hurdle

e) There is no 'love' in their relationship

> I would have bought this, had it not been the various scenes where they have directly (and indirectly) conveyed their love to each other.

Am I missing any other reason there is to avoid intimacy?

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The CVs are waiting for (what they think) is an opportune moment for telecasting the consummation scene which will garner them record viewership... I also think, they want to 'PUSH' Ishita and Raman into a consummation scene that will appear explosive and intense (simply because of the events preceding it). This is a well-known tactic in the show business (not just daily soaps but also movies)... but I cannot recall any situation where the (previously villainous) ex-wife applies reverse psychology on the current wife to play cupid and make them get together physically. I don't understand which kind of audience would accept such a push

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Done 😎 If you would have posted your thread on time, this wasn't going to be my post... this theme of intimacy came to me only in the last few minutes (consider yourself lucky or unlucky to have a chance to read my thoughts, your choice😆)

Originally posted by: -MS-

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

MS, I didnt say the rejection was because of looks ( or are you just making a point)... If you are making a point, then yes, I agree. even with any emotions aside, on paper, the character sketch doesnt look as strong to me as it was early on in the show. Forget who's right and who's wrong, they characters are just being self-contradictory now

I was just making a point that's been rarely discussed--Raman's probable insecurity regarding physical intimacy. I've already requested you to pen down an OS on this. Yeah, they both of are non-relatable now, charter-wise. Even in this case, Ishita's supposed invisible insecurity and Raman's sudden enthusiasm for consummation both behave like an on-off switch.

Beggars must not be choosers 🤣 you must have missed my expert analysis (I was actually proud of myself for that theory) about the game CVs are playing with us... wait, if I can dig it up, I will PM you... that's what I basically said though. they scare us with the weirdest threats in terms of tracks, and when they finally deliver something, it seems acceptable because is more normal that what we were threatened with... but maybe that's what they wanted all along 😕

Perhaps I missed that post but glad that we're on same page. 😆

Originally posted by: serious

Ishita aaj misaal khadi kardi .. ***Happy Friendship Day*** special episode tha aaj... Shagun ne apne friend ko Ashok naamak purane boy "friend" se bachayegi..

Shagun aur Raman friends nehin tha.. isiliye Raman ke liye ya against kuch nehin kiya

Originally posted by: sweety_10

welcome back leo..

nice review..

Lucky and MS awesome replies..

nothing to add.. Ishita has been butchered badly yet again..

Ruhikeliye angle is better than sautenkeliye, though both are absurd..

most ridiculous part was ishita conversation with doctor, wait..even doctor said ruhi ke liye 😆