Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 4

Originally posted by: The_Imane

Maybe Leo

Cvs anyways transform one character from normal to devil, from devil to cartoon, and from cartoon to Saint so its also possible...

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Hey Leo ... welcome back

Not sure what to say about today's episode...

Why haven't Raman and Ishita taken their relationship to the next level yet ? Forget what Ishita told the doctor, forget what she mumbled when she was reacting to Shagun's taunt. I dont want to focus on the character butchering or selective amnesia everyone has.

But I would honestly like to know what Ishita thinks? or rather what the CVs' thought process (if there is one) is?

So, let me just present the facts, as I see them, without any added emotions (or for that matter my own reactions either)

a) Ishita is insecure because of her fertility issues and rejection by someone she loved in the past

>As it stands today : She has become the best mother one could, to not one, but 2 children. A year ago, she thought she was a baanjh, now there MAY be hope that she could get pregnant. Her past relationship turned out to be a man who was not only weak, but also a mentally disturbed one. Not to mention a liar with murderous tendencies.

b) Ishita and Raman don't have a 'physical' sorta relationship

> There have been quite intimate and 'sensual' moments between them. The 2 that I can personally testify to are the scene where they almost kiss before Romi interrupts them to say that Adi is ill or something... The second is the Holi scene. I do not see anything other than burning desire in at least 2 situations. There may be more scenes I haven't watched.

c) Ishita thinks Raman doesn't want her or isn't attracted to her

> He's said things (with hidden double meaning) on multiple occasions, and if I am not wrong, also hinted at how attracted he is to her. If that is something that is not clear, then Please see my examples in point b. There was no room for misinterpretation of Raman's gestures.

d) No matter how much they plan, they have haddis

> Where there is a will there is a way. There are examples (reel and real) where people living in one-room chawls in a joint family having children. So, I don't think that should be a big hurdle

e) There is no 'love' in their relationship

> I would have bought this, had it not been the various scenes where they have directly (and indirectly) conveyed their love to each other.

Am I missing any other reason there is to avoid intimacy?

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The CVs are waiting for (what they think) is an opportune moment for telecasting the consummation scene which will garner them record viewership... I also think, they want to 'PUSH' Ishita and Raman into a consummation scene that will appear explosive and intense (simply because of the events preceding it). This is a well-known tactic in the show business (not just daily soaps but also movies)... but I cannot recall any situation where the (previously villainous) ex-wife applies reverse psychology on the current wife to play cupid and make them get together physically. I don't understand which kind of audience would accept such a push

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Done 😎 If you would have posted your thread on time, this wasn't going to be my post... this theme of intimacy came to me only in the last few minutes (consider yourself lucky or unlucky to have a chance to read my thoughts, your choice😆)

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

excellent post lucky

hence the gist of matter is that both writers and ishita are ending up contradicting themselves

they are acting opposite to what they said earlier

it can also be understood

cvs after wandering halfway through the baby sirf ruhi ke liye

they realised it would be gross

hence are now wanting to show their first time as a sudden event out of passion

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

that's an interesting (and acceptable) way of looking at it Leo...

but it really isnt passion if you are pushed to do it because someone thinks you are lacking something if you don't do it. That's the part I have difficulty understanding.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

This show and it's character has lost it long time ago😆

Each and every character are ruined and butchered very badly including ruhi adi also excluding shravan and ananya and Mutthu partially neelu

I don't feel that ishita is having low self esteem because self esteem are not like that They are always right instead doubt on themselves but she is suffering from multiple disorder disease and it affected other members too

Trp ki lalach aur melodrama ke dimak ne pure show or character ko khokhla kar diya hain😛

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Hey Leo ... welcome back

a) Ishita is insecure because of her fertility issues and rejection by someone she loved in the past

>As it stands today : She has become the best mother one could, to not one, but 2 children. A year ago, she thought she was a baanjh, now there MAY be hope that she could get pregnant. Her past relationship turned out to be a man who was not only weak, but also a mentally disturbed one. Not to mention a liar with murderous tendencies.

Ishita was rejected by her former lover because of her infertility issue, NOT because of her looks. Assuming they didn't share any physical intimacy as it is stated/hinted by Ishita, her former lover not desiring her at that time isn't even a valid point. Ishita's insecurity regarding not being a mother is understandable, at the same it's been dealt with utmost care. She's been appreciated as the best mother for her children many times and even if it still exists, it can't be the reason to pull her back to take the next step in her marriage. Other than this, I don't see any other insecurities from her past that can logically exist in her mind now.

Interestingly, some months ago I thought that would be the case for Raman, he would assume he wouldn't be physically desired by Ishita. And, he would have had solid reasons behind his assumption. Shagun left him over luxury, it's true. At the same time she chose smart, handsome, suave Ashok over geeky, overweight, plain-looking Raman. Raman's physical appearance is changed altogether for best now but the insecurity from his past experience isn't healed yet.
(Couldn't refrain myself from using the famous word "healing" 😆)

c) Ishita thinks Raman doesn't want her or isn't attracted to her

> He's said things (with hidden double meaning) on multiple occasions, and if I am not wrong, also hinted at how attracted he is to her. If that is something that is not clear, then Please see my examples in point b. There was no room for misinterpretation of Raman's gestures.

In the initial months of their marriage, they both sarcastically commented about each others looks. It wasn't a one-way traffic which is the common notion now. Nonetheless, they both have successfully moved on from that phase, especially Raman. Whenever he gets an opportunity in recent times, he didn't forget a single time to convey it to Ishita that how much he's attracted to her and Ishita knows that as you've clearly mentioned.

In short, I don't find/see any insecurities in Ishita that can hold her back from taking the much needed next step in their relationship.

The CVs are waiting for (what they think) is an opportune moment for telecasting the consummation scene which will garner them record viewership... I also think, they want to 'PUSH' Ishita and Raman into a consummation scene that will appear explosive and intense (simply because of the events preceding it). This is a well-known tactic in the show business (not just daily soaps but also movies)... but I cannot recall any situation where the (previously villainous) ex-wife applies reverse psychology on the current wife to play cupid and make them get together physically. I don't understand which kind of audience would accept such a push.

Maybe the phrase "beggars must not be choosers" is applicable here. It's comparatively far more acceptable that Ishita taking the step because she's offended by Shagun's words rather than she's going to do it for giving Ruhi a baby sibling. Though I had to admit both the ideas are gross but TRP audience would love the sauten angle. 🤢