Let Them Grow Up... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

You made an individual thread! Yay!

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Wonderful post, Aani! I concur with everything you said.

What's happening in Bhalla family right now- I've seen it happen so closely, it feel personal. Raman and Ishita are cursed for life. Raman because he was the first born to such parents and Ishita because she's married to him. Everything is their responsibility. No matter how much they do- it's never gonna be enough. They can't satisfy anyone or be eligible to have some kind of gratitude shown towards them.

The rest of the Bhalla children are so damn lucky! Like, I said, I've seen this happening, so I can guarantee that they'd never change. They'd never learn from their mistakes because no one ever makes them pay! It was and still is very poor parenting from Mr. and Mrs. Bhalla but I blame Raman and Ishita too. How many times have they forgiven Romi? When will they let him finally pay for his mistakes, when he commits a murder? As of now, I don't have hope.


Rinki- I don't know who she is anymore! She looks like the old Rinki but everything about her screams Shagun! What kinda person can't stand her brother sitting and smiling with the family? Mr. Bhalla seems to be deaf to her cruel words.

Mr. Bhalla is showing a whole new side to him. I thought he was the most sensible one in the Bhalla clan. But since this track started- the way he's acting with Raman and Ishita it makes me wonder is this new change a result of the company ownership transfer?

Mrs. Bhalla- I get her intentions. They are good but her approach is so wrong! She's trying to show her husband and kids that Raman takes care of the family without ever mentioning it. But the thing is, what if Raman wasn't this rich guy who walks with a signed check? What if Raman was an average service holder? What if he only provided for his nuclear family like everyone else? Wouldn't there be anything in him and Ishita that still commanded respect?

I'm gonna be so disappointed if the family reunites. I know Raman and Ishita would be heart broken if that doesn't happen but some heart breaks are good. Some heart breaks can save you a life time of ill-treatment and regret. This is one of them.


P.S. I have to add how impress I am with Resha Konkar. It looks like she's been given Shagun's old scripts but she's playing the character how it should've been all along- with more than one expression!

Once again Wonderful post Aani ! Totally agree with what you said...

I am really not getting why Mrs bhalla brushing off Rinky's behavior her actions as immaturity and keep saying bacchi hai usko samaj nai wo kya kar rai hai.. her daughter creating rifts between family members.. she is joining hands with Ashok taking his help.. and still you are not ready to give her a good earful ? She slapped Raman without knowing entire matter but for Rinky no word despite of knowing all this drama happening because of her...Why Raman have to pay for Rinky's flat ? Toshiji knows mihir can't afford to buy such expensive flat then why can't she make Rinky understand that she should adjust with what she have .. she should adjust her needs as par her husband's income...why can't Toshiji talk to Rinky instead of tolerating her tantrums .. its really disappointing to see NO one saying anything to Rinky and all are listening her nonsense..

I am sure in future Rinky will create more drama the way she is hell bent of creating more rift between family especially the way she was talking about ishra in yesterday's Epi.. really this girl have completely lost it. Poor mihir trying his level best to keep her happy to fulfill her all needs but looks like Rinky's greed have no end.. i just hope all this don't effect mihir Raman relation..

Let's see how this track unfold further..

I second you on each and every single word that you have written here...wen day say bacchi h immature h, damn...koi bal vivah kiya h kya rinki ka jo keh rahe hn k bacchi h, badi ho jaegi...dey jz cant remain oblivious to the kartoots of rinki...Mr bhalla ji did not waste a second in zeroing on d decision f blaming raman...but yesterday wen Ishita revealed dat rinki accepted d flat as a gift from Ashok, dey did not give a single thought of reprimanding rinki...y such bias...everything jz cannot b put behind the loose reason of so called bachpana...she may b d youngest amongst her siblings, but she a grown up individual too...dey never forgave. Mihika kaands at least under d tag of bacchi h as she z also d youngest among her siblings...aur agar bacchi hi h to samjhao na...baccho ko galat baat par samjhaya jaata h, ni maane to daanta b jaata h aur punishment b milta h...yaha aisa kuch ni h...pity on bhalla family

I dnt undrstand the concept of " bacchi hai".. if she is such a bacchi, why was she married off? What was toshiji thinking at tht time? If she is old enuf to be married, she is old enugh to take responsibility of her atrocious actions..seriously, Bhallas need parenting lessons..romi and rinki have absolutely no qualms abt misbehaviour with their elders, utter cringeworthy language and neither of their parents seem to take them to task..if even teenagers behave this way, parents in real life put them to their place, but here these two have crossed limits, and toshiji is still brushing it under the carpet..

Thank you so much everyone who replied I am so glad to see that I am not the only one who feels this 'bachha hai' and 'bachhi hai' attitude sucks and at some point parents and older siblings have both got to stop indulging the baby of the house, no matter how much they love the person, because it is only hampering the growth of the said bachha and bachhi in the process and that could lead to severe trouble for the family in question as well as the person jeopardising the family in the first place.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Thank you so much everyone who replied I am so glad to see that I am not the only one who feels this 'bachha hai' and 'bachhi hai' attitude sucks and at some point parents and older siblings have both got to stop indulging the baby of the house, no matter how much they love the person, because it is only hampering the growth of the said bachha and bachhi in the process and that could lead to severe trouble for the family in question as well as the person jeopardising the family in the first place.

here in the show the Bhallas will reunite ultimately as we know is bound to happen even if it takes some time, which I hope it does and should...but in real life things cannot be simply forgotten even if they are forgiven to move on and let go of the grudge and pain, since you cannot cut off your family forever.The bad blood though cannot allow you to go back to the way things were or used to be before shit hit fan and you see a family split up in the middle with cracks that may fill with time but that leave marks forever in the hearts and minds of everyone.

Rinky' obsession with a stupid flat is making her blind to everything, sanity and logic included, not to mention love for her mother or her family...I really wishw that this drama doesnt end before Mihir is back, since somewhere he is right in the middle of things as it is using his name that Rinki is throwing the tantrums she is and making a mess of things, he is the dummy she is shoving in everyone' face to satisfy her own need to show off and brag about. I really, really want her to behave badly with Mr. Bhalla too when he scolds her for accepting the apartment from Ashok, he would know then why Raman lost his temper with her when he did and spoke and behaved with her when he saw the siblings fighting which started his own cold war with his son.

Ideally I would love for Rinki to be abandoned by the family but I doubt that happening, though I really, really wish once Mihir gets back he gives her a piece of his mind for sinking so low and accepting a gift from Ashok, her mooh-bola bhai. He should say it loud and clear in front of the Bhallas he cannot live with her anymore and she can happily live in that huge apartment of hers all alone and party to her heart' content with her friends about it but he wont step into a place, much less live in one that is bought with Ashok' money.

Sorry I am unable to make individual replies like always, life is a little too busy for me these days 😳