Money Talks *Collages added* - Page 3

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Hi G, amazing collages as usual. So happy our pyare paramjee is back. Hope they utilize him and his talents better this time around. I so wish we have him back permanently !

Well, for my comment, I would like to play the devil's advocate. I know most people will find my comment unacceptable, but I do want to put forth another counter point of view.

There is a very fine line between Self Respect and Ego. I still maintain that Raman walking out of the Bhalla house was the right decision, whatsoever reason may have pushed him to do so. Did Puttar walk out because of Self respect or ego ? I have read so many comments chastising Ishita because she used the word ego. Did Raman walk out when Rinki went crazy and said all the BS about, Ishita, Raman and Mihir ? No. Did he walk out when Romi went ballistic and accused Ishita ? No. If he had walked out then it would have been self respect and fighting for his wife. When did he walk out ? When Bhallaji sided with Sarika. What were his words to Ishita ? He is siding with someone who is new but not listening to us who have been here longer. Somewhere, Raman's ego has come into play.

Ishita, tries to stop him. But he is hurt and so is his ego. There is so much he does for the family. He wants that acknowledgment and he is not getting it. When he walks out, he stops where his father is sitting. Why ? He wants him to stop him from leaving. This is where both egos come into play. Father as well as son.

We, as humans, only see what we want to see. We have a bias towards one character so even when he has this flaw we overlook it. And blame the character that we are not so partial towards.

This is just my pov. Most will disagree. But I still feel to some extent, Raman's decision was 75% self respect-25% ego.

As far as yesterday's episode, apparently again people are disgruntled with Ishita. Why ? Because she chose to inform Raman about Mihir n his new house. Was she right or wrong ? She informed him. As aren't we the ones who keep saying she should not keep things to herself ? So why this sudden turn when she shares what is happening ? It was Raman's decision not her's that the company sponsor the flat.

If she becomes selfish about Raman and his finances and stops helping Bhallas what is the difference between her and Shagun ? If Ishita tells Raman about not indulging his family's whims, isn't she widening the rift ?

It is for the Bhallas to realize that they are using Raman as their ATM. When Mrs. Bhalla was speaking about household expenses, she spoke about Raman taking care. They have yet not realized the hurt they have caused IshRa.

And last but not the least our pyare paramjee ! Ah I so love him ! Let's get rid of shaggy and get paramjee back !

Am now ready for brickbats !

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Hi G, amazing collages as usual. So happy our pyare paramjee is back. Hope they utilize him and his talents better this time around. I so wish we have him back permanently !

Well, for my comment, I would like to play the devil's advocate. I know most people will find my comment unacceptable, but I do want to put forth another counter point of view.

There is a very fine line between Self Respect and Ego. I still maintain that Raman walking out of the Bhalla house was the right decision, whatsoever reason may have pushed him to do so. Did Puttar walk out because of Self respect or ego ? I have read so many comments chastising Ishita because she used the word ego. Did Raman walk out when Rinki went crazy and said all the BS about, Ishita, Raman and Mihir ? No. Did he walk out when Romi went ballistic and accused Ishita ? No. If he had walked out then it would have been self respect and fighting for his wife. When did he walk out ? When Bhallaji sided with Sarika. What were his words to Ishita ? He is siding with someone who is new but not listening to us who have been here longer. Somewhere, Raman's ego has come into play.

Ishita, tries to stop him. But he is hurt and so is his ego. There is so much he does for the family. He wants that acknowledgment and he is not getting it. When he walks out, he stops where his father is sitting. Why ? He wants him to stop him from leaving. This is where both egos come into play. Father as well as son.

We, as humans, only see what we want to see. We have a bias towards one character so even when he has this flaw we overlook it. And blame the character that we are not so partial towards.

This is just my pov. Most will disagree. But I still feel to some extent, Raman's decision was 75% self respect-25% ego.

As far as yesterday's episode, apparently again people are disgruntled with Ishita. Why ? Because she chose to inform Raman about Mihir n his new house. Was she right or wrong ? She informed him. As aren't we the ones who keep saying she should not keep things to herself ? So why this sudden turn when she shares what is happening ? It was Raman's decision not her's that the company sponsor the flat.

If she becomes selfish about Raman and his finances and stops helping Bhallas what is the difference between her and Shagun ? If Ishita tells Raman about not indulging his family's whims, isn't she widening the rift ?

It is for the Bhallas to realize that they are using Raman as their ATM. When Mrs. Bhalla was speaking about household expenses, she spoke about Raman taking care. They have yet not realized the hurt they have caused IshRa.

And last but not the least our pyare paramjee ! Ah I so love him ! Let's get rid of shaggy and get paramjee back !

Am now ready for brickbats !