Raman's predicament.... *Note pg 4*

Page

Next Last

-Gan-

@-Gan-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Saw this on my Twitter NF ...

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CKYzH0GVEAASG7J.jpg

...felt it somewhat relates to Raman's plight today...

"in the end, everyone can understand themselves only. You are the only one to which you never have to explain what you mean. Everything else is misunderstanding."
Renate Dorrestein

Truly felt really bad for Raman today.. The guy who puts his family before everything to be accused of choosing his wife over his family, to be accused of being high handed as he bears the expenses of the whole family and ..While Rinki was being the new Arora in town ...Mr Bhalla was not wrong to begin with ... From his perspective it didn't look nice what Raman was doing ... But what followed next felt a bit manufactured .. Here is a guy who from beginning has been shown to be the realistic, resoanable guy.. For him to draw such dire conclusions about Raman's intention felt a bit odd. And the Pre-Cap was too much ... I can understand him being angry with Raman and Ishita, to rule even Ruhi and Adi out of 'his' family.. Was OTT for Mr Bhalla..it would have suited Toshijee to be so impulsive ...

Mihir is the only character remaining that has not fallen prey to the butchering block.. I truly hope they keep him intact... I loved how he kept on trying to defend Raman with Rinki...

And who cried like me seeing Shagun's golden heart? I couldn't prevent tears of reverence from spontaneously flowing down my cheek *sniff sniff*

Edited by -Gan- - 10 years ago

Quote

Frequent Posters

Maya

@mayasun

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

res

Hi Gan,

I was so waiting for your thread to open to gush over IshRa scene they were awesome today.

Raman is clean shaven I don't mind it is for NB because I get to see a damn hot and handsome RamanI just hope NB goes on forever so that we see this clean shaven Raman😉

Today it was like the old YHM dealing with emotions of the lead pair. This track seems to be interesting either it is going to show IshRa value to the family members or for IshRa to see that they have to prioritize their relationship first before the family.

I hope the cv trend this track beautifully and not butcher the track with unnecessary comedy or OTT drama.

I loved how Raman stood for Ishita and never allowed anybody to talk against her got the old wala 11 PM RKB back feel.

Rinky causing the mess I could understand because there was scene building up to it but the 360 degree turn of Bahllaji I could not understand. He supported Ishita throughout and today suddenly out of the blue he is angry with Ishita and thinks of her as outsider I don't understand this logic😡 I am wondering is this the same Bahallaji we have been seeing for the last 1.5 years.

Why were Simmi and Romi standing mute because they were there when Rinky was insulting their bhabi

I guess they are turning Rinky to be the new vamp. I guess it is destiny because Mihir sister ruined Raman life now Raman sister is ruining Mihir life. 😕

I don't understand this logic at all why should not Raman transfer his company to his wife he has responsibilities towards his wife, children and parents first.

Mihir is earning a salary he is not working for free in that company. If Mihir is still working for Mr. Malhotra as the CEO instead of joining Raman company would Rinky go and ask that person to make her husband as partner because he was working for him under Raman for the past 15 years. who(Raman) in turn was working for Mr. Malhotra for the last 15 years.

Raman has just started his company so literally speaking Mihir has not helped him build this company for 15 years. They are starting this company as a CEO he would have been awarded company shares and if Raman transfers that share to Ishita also then what Rinky asks may be valid but Raman transferred his personal shares so what is the trouble with that.😡

IshRa scene was cute. Raman explanation of why he transferred the company her name was good but felt bad because the person who think about their family first before their life being ostracized was to sad to watch.

Ishita saying to Raman that he would be fine and that she cannot deal without him showed how much they love each other.

Raman asking Ishita like a child that will everything turn out to be good was so damn cute to watch.

Gan please update your post with lovely collages once you watch the show so the gush fest can start.

Edited by mayasundar - 10 years ago

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Sunita

@avni_19

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Res

Editeddd...

Sorry Gan di for the late UnRes.. Caught up with some work.. Arghh! :(

Well about the episode, It was fine. I felt terrible for Raman... This scene yesterday was somewhat very close to real life.. "Tu tu Mei mei" factor is always present in any joint family. Its crazy I tell you.. Those who experience it, will know! Phewww!

I loved IshRa's conversation.. "I need u Raman, We can do it together".. Omg! Soo much love here... I soo muchh loved itt.. Nothing romantic but a lifetime promise to be together for anything and everything...

Raman's intention was not bad, the timing was wrong I believe...His prime responsibility will be his wife and kids... If anything happens to Raman, it will be Ishita who will handle.. but that doesnt mean Raman is or will be ignoring his parents...

Bhallaji... Shuckkss! the CVs thought this guy is simply a mute person, and thought of giving him some dialouges, but such dialouges.. Too muchh OTT drama! He was actually one sensible and sane person.. As Raman said.. Kahan se kahan tak leke jaa rahe ho?

Bhallaji just heard half and that one sentence by Raman made him do and say this much... Cant he question his daughter for once... Precap, even worse... Toshiji should be there in the picture. I hope she won't turn worse than Bhallaji...

Another MU between Ishita-Sarika.. Raman all sad about everyone ignoring him, Sarika refuses to acccept the gifts bought by Raman... Ufff!! Too much digest!

Rinki is simply stupid and idiot! Bas!🤢😡 Mihir, slap her for once... She has lost her brain from having so much drinks, she needs to be jolted so that she will get back to her senses!😡

Mihir.. Great job by supporting his pyaare Bhai aur Bhabhi.. I am still hoping the CV's don't butcher Miir's character too!

I don't get this.. Under kaam karte ya saath kaam karte.. What difference does it makes? He is still getting paid for whatever he is doing, Not free job... Cheee! Australia se padke aayi hai par akal toh bilkul bhi nahi hai...!

Gan Di... Beautiful Collage. All about Raman... Poor guy... He is getting 100% support from Biwi... I love that.. Puttar is seriously one sweetheart.. Thinks of everyone...!

Its so rightly said, you do something for family, they will never appreciate or will think twice to appreciate your work or not but when it comes to pointing fingers at good people they don't even think or look twice. Huhhh!! Sad and Bitter Truth of Life!🤢

Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago

Quote

-K.13-

@-K.13-

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

//Updated\\

So as a warning, this is the first time in a while I'm reviewing without watching the episode. But thanks to my current rotation...I'm way too emotionally labile to watch this because Raman's hurt & emotions are too real & I find myself empathizing too much with just the WU.

...while this track is exploring real human emotions & relationships, my heart hurts to see an individual who puts his family above even his own personal life be caught in such a web.

Maybe this track will help the Bhallas see how much Raman-Ishita have done for them or for Ishita-Raman to realize they need to prioritize each other? Idk...

I don't want to see Rinki fully convert to a Shagun type woman. Simmi & Romi both have faltered from their path, but they never fully went against their families. I don't want to see the Bhallas crumble because they as a family, with all their exaggerated flaws, are beautiful to me.

Also - I seriously love Mihir. If I'm this emotionally pained (more so thanks to my rotation probably) watching the Bhalla family struggle...I don't think I could watch a full blown Mihir-Raman break up. Even before Ishita-Raman existed...Mihir-Raman did. They are the original duo of the show & they already lived through so much hurt from Shagun. So I don't even want to think about Mihir being placed on the butcher's block 😭

#little sleep

#high stress

#feels are too much 😭

Edited by -K.13- - 10 years ago

Quote

Pasoori

@ChanChanMan

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

I was so waiting for your thread to open...

Quote

Aru.Divan

@Aru.Divan

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

Woes of a joint family 😕. Well that's how I prefer looking at it. I was born and brought up in a joint family for 25 long years and these kind of issues are pretty common. Well the precap was nasty but other than that everything felt so nostalgic. A clash between brother and sister and then father taking the sides of the daughter even though she is wrong. It all looked too similar.

Coming to Mr. Bhalla, he was the only sane person in the Bhalla household. One thing I loved was when Romi and Simmi stopping Rinki in the beginning when she was lashing out on Ishitha and Raman. Not sure if they would do the same in today's episode but definitely that was a good moment that CVs took care of. When it comes to Sr. Bhalla he made sure Raman was always treated the way he needs to be and even more than that he respected and cared for Ishitha. During the initial stages of their marriage, even during Param kaand once he knew his daughter in law was right he did not hesitate to apologize to her and bring her back. Well we can claim that CVs are forever hungry for drama. Rinki is just absurd with that stupid stupid new friend of hers. Sr. Bhalla will definitely come around. I just hope toshi gets back and slams both rinki and her pati dev. That will just be fun 😈 but CVs 🤢. They can only get dumb and more dumb.

The conversation in the bedroom 😭 . It made me cry. He took care of everyone and the way he described his siblings. So true. That idiot Rinki needs to be dragged out of the screen and slapped. If possible tape her mouth. he wanted his parents happy and even if anything happens he did not want anything happen to them. Just felt that Ishitha would be a responsible and right person. I don't blame puttar. Sab ke sab items hain. This conversation is still overwhelming and emotional. But loved the line Biwi spoke in the end "I will want you raman. I can't do this alone. We need to be together and solve this"... So beautiful. their love for each other and their love for the family was depicted so well.

Well, St is here. I want to see her charan and take blessings 😉. please help me someone.

Lovely collage 😳 and emotions as always 👏👏. your write up was just perfect.

P.S: Puttar is getting back to being hotwa (No amazon and the hair slowly trimming down) ❤️
#Puttarismine
#puttarwarswillbeginsoon

Edited by Aru.Divan - 10 years ago

Quote

Veeann

@Veeann

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

Dear Gan

I love your last comment.

Puttar - my heart cried for him. But how he loves Biwi.

#PuttarIsASweetheart

I guess a situation is being manufactured so some do gooder can fly into town and sort everything out. Otherwise I couldn't understand Mr Bhalla either. Although I guess from his perspective, Raman once told him off about using his car leading to 6 years of Raman and Mr B not talking. So now he sees Raman is again enamoured of his new wife, his own insecurities have come back.

Rinki is an idiot. Bas

Quote

Aarohi Talegoankar

@Albeli26

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

puttar seriously stole my heart today, his feelings was genuine today. I am wondering how can senior bhalla misjudge his own son. son who took responsibility of whole home, son who never complains to anyone about anything.

Raman is rite when he forgives romi, Raman is rite when he decides to support simmi and Raman is also rite when he decides to settle his so called sensible sister but why he is wrong now?

you now yesterday episode reminded me normal households banters and neverending fights which starts from one topic and remains continue

and yes our sensible and smart ashokwa again taking chance pe dance, I know his plans are going to flop again but yes I am waiting for the rkb in action mode again

Quote

-K.13-

@-K.13-

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

Overly senti update on page 1. ❤️

I love Puttar & Biwi's love, but it looks like both of them will be hitting rough waters in the family that they have sacrificed so much for.

At least they have each other to cherish & support, but for the way these two have been sketched, it won't be enough. Ishita & Raman have lived through their families, and while I hope this experiences encourages them to live through each other...I think they will always feel the hurt/guilt until things are sorted.

Edited by -K.13- - 10 years ago

Quote

mreshma

@mreshma

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#10

A brilliant episode that dealt with a very realistic situation that can happen in any family...A situation where nobody involved was fully right or wrong...I think I am gonna end up making an essay...😆

Rinky - the youngest of the Bhalla clan who was always pampered by everyone...She was flying high when her husband became a CEO and boasted to her friends...But when her Australia based friend, who was no less than a 'chugalkhor aunty', fed her mind with utter nonsense about her brother n husband's relationship, she just got carried away...and to add to it, she realized that her brother made his wife the owner of his company...Instead of waiting patiently to get things clarified from her brother calmly, she chose to go and shout at her bhabhi, when she have always seen how selfless the lady is...she then insulted her husband calling him spineless...above all, she shouted at and accused her elder brother, who,till yesterday, was no less than her father to her ...She was unknowingly asking her brother to put a price for her husband's years of dedication, hard work and sincerity whereas her brother already had big plans to give Mihir his share that is rightfully his, at the right time...

Sr.Bhalla - a very sensible man, was today totally misled by a few words from his dear son... He heard only that part of the convo where Raman said that he is the person taking care of the household n so his younger sister had no rights to shout n she should leave the house...He was hurt and jumped into the conclusion that, till then, his son was seeing his aged parents n younger siblings as a baggage full of responsibilities and he and his wife were faking their love n concern for them...He was wrong in not giving a single chance to his son to clear his side...

Raman - a selfless man, who always thinks n does only good for each n everyone in his family but ends being easily misunderstood n hurt by everyone...He came in seeing his younger sis shouting at his wife, for a decision he took all by himself...Rinky was also insulting her husband, who is more than a friend or brother to him...So, he first warned her to be in her limits but she kept accusing and shouting non-stop, which enraged him n made him order her to leave the house...As always here also he was only wrong in being angry uncontrollably n uttering words that was not from his heart...And he ended up being greatly misunderstood by his father n sis...

Ishita - Caught up in the whole mess in the most unexpected way, but doing her best to be a dutiful n supporting wife, at the same time also trying to clear the misunderstandings...

Mihir - In a very similar situation like Ishita, but trying his best to make Rinky understand the gravity of the mistake she is doing...

Romi, Simmi - Loved the point that, they knew both their father n brother were equally hurt but chose to console their father because bhabhi is there with Raman...

Yesterday, every actor was so convincing in their performances but for me, it was Karan Patel, who stole the show...I was so much engrossed in the IshRa bedroom scene where Raman was baring his heart to Ishita that it was only after the scene ended I realized I was teary eyed n had to hide it from my husband...😆...Only hope, the Cv's do not mess up with this very realistic track...

Edited by mreshma - 10 years ago

Quote

1 2 3 4

Raman's predicament.... Note pg 4

Related Topics

Explore Topics