YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #75 - Page 112

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Posted: 10 years ago
Just saw the episode again today because I couldnt remember all the things Shagun said in the scene when I made the earlier posts and have to emphasis on one point - the Sati Savitri part...Sati savitri is basically a woman who is pure and holy and all we know that, but here it implied stop being a prude if that is the way you are behaving with your man...with your husband be a seductress, an enchantress, hold his attention and dont let his interest be diminished in you since that is potentially setting up your marriage for failure and doom...a man may stray if he is not satisfied by his wife and not all affairs can be physical but a lack in any aspect of marriage can spell catastrophe if not treated with immediately and handled with care which is true.

Not to mention that everyone assumes that since two people who are married to each other havent hit the sack there's something very wrong there and can try to take advantage of the same...the harassment situation is coming up again, a sorta recreation of the incident during Mani track, then the very same woman who wanted to motivate Ishita had said a few words about why Ishita landed at Ashok' party - she had called Ishita hungry for some male attention since she doesnt get any from her husband at home. In fact the words were used by Raman too on the night he was drunk and misbehaved with Ishita but they never took that anywhere, the upcoming recreation of the same thing might be a way to close to loop for the same.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Hi Aani, beautifully worded comments and such a rational explanation. Have not watched the episode nor do I know the details of the episode. Just read some comments about Ishita and was put off ! Thank you for bringing in sanity !😆



Thanks Becky and I hope to hear from you once you see the episode 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
Hey Aani,
Lovely take on the episode.. Absolutely loved it.. I too thought I might be the minority but I liked the episode tonight..The conversation about sex life and the ensuing reality check was much needed for Raman and Ishita to take their relationship forward..



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: --abha--

Amazing write up aani...I too noticed ishita beginning talk with vandu...u brilliantly put up ishita point of view with doctor...I liked the epi but all are just too upset and I am glad I am not alone..


thanks Abha 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: yakutamt

Aani...each wrd of ur describes the episode to perfection...I had all the same thoughts while seeing the epsidoe but cud nt put in pen as u hv done...its perfectly written and agree with u completely just loved the episode that jolt was needed...very very much needed

Gan pls do watch the episode...u are gng to love it


thanks Yaku 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ShvetaSankar

Hey Aani,

Lovely take on the episode.. Absolutely loved it.. I too thought I might be the minority but I liked the episode tonight..The conversation about sex life and the ensuing reality check was much needed for Raman and Ishita to take their relationship forward..





Thanks Shveta and for them to have this sex talk in this slot was something I didnt expect even though we had some OLVs of the scene by SBB and SBS, in a way I am so happy that they actually had this talk and it needed the kinda bluntness and frankness that perhaps would not have been possible with another pair of two characters.
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Posted: 10 years ago
What harassment situation is everyone talking about? 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Couldnt post this earlier since lappie was needed for some urgent mails.

There' a lof of discontent about the conversation Ishita had with the lady doc, mentioning friends and the fact that they have kinda skipped a part...but then just think about this from her POV for a moment.


The fact that the doctors had to know the marriage is not yet consummated is a no-brainer. When visiting for the purpose of a baby, doctors ask you questions like the frequency at which you have sex, any problems with the sex drive, any problem with the erection, the position and even if there are factors like stress, depression or some drugs that you take or any ailment you suffer from...so yeah Ishita had to reveal they have not yet consummated the marriage but what could she provide as an explaination for the same.


Could she tell the doctor the complicated family history, say how Raman and she married for a child and for the better part of the early months of their marriage they couldnt stand each other but as they started getting close, her husband' ex and his son came to live with them under the same roof. tell the doc they have a crazy family with never ending problems, that they are surrounded by fools who even invaded the trip to Mumbai, one they sent her on themselves to have some sexy times with her hubby 😳

Shagun' words about how Raman used to be all over her, added insult to the injury that she inflicted with her earlier words.

And while they were really not pleasant to hear - the words she spoke about maintaining interest in a marriage were absolutely true. Sex is a vital component of marriage and a couple has to move beyond the sphere of parents, children, siblings and xyz roles to don the role of lovers as man and wife, the mention of bedroom by her was also a good thing, when she said that they used to stay locked up in their bedroom...the one space where a couple can shed their inhibitions and just be themselves, where they should also shed the various hats they don in their personal and professional lives and just be with each other.

Last but not the least I am so happy that there was actually an explaination as to how did Shagun learn of their celibate status, she overheard the conversation and the whole thing wasnt just spurred on by a figment of her imagination or anything else 😆



Aani..I am still unable to see this conversation that she had with the doc in a positive light..
I haven't watched the epi..but went by the LU here..

Did Ishita say that she does not feel the need for anything more in their relationship?

I really don't understand this..and honestly the fact that Shagun showed her the mirror does not really shock me as much as this statement of hers.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SA1234

Aani..I am still unable to see this conversation that she had with the doc in a positive light..

I haven't watched the epi..but went by the LU here..

Did Ishita say that she does not feel the need for anything more in their relationship?

I really don't understand this..and honestly the fact that Shagun showed her the mirror does not really shock me as much as this statement of hers.


@bold - Nope, she did not say that. What she said, and probably meant was, that they were married in the most unusual circumstances. It took them time to reach where they are are today. Today they are best friends and have great understanding like any other husband and wife, but in all this, they skipped a few steps, which they didn't realize, nor felt the need at that time. Something to that tune.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

What harassment situation is everyone talking about? 😕


The party they are gonna attend, Ishita' gonna drink a spiked drink and faint, when Ashok will take her to a room and click some snaps with them in bed Shagun comes there slaps him and deletes the pics

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