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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good to read ur thoughts & see the other side of the coin. I agree with u on many points. Life is neither black or white nor is there a perfect hus - wife relationship or a perfect parent-child relationship. V in the forum get all hyper but Raman's anger has never affected Isitha, correct or not is not the point. Each couple hav their own way of handling issues. And each parent learns through a trial & error method as u said. After all the parents r also individuals with flaws.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
Awesome post...Welcome back meri jaan🤗
little busy yar...house maid has not come😭...imagine me doing all work😭😭

I dont know who is right wrong...

but for me a 12 yr old need a freind as well as strictness too...If u dont have freind and protective mother u will become rebel...

So thats it...
For sure my mom strict and dad ohhh he is super cool...

About analysing why so much fuss over Ishita vs Raman...I never get that...

p.s. In my whole family women never says sorry😆🤣...so i will not mind if ishita too do the same...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Annthew

Good to read ur thoughts & see the other side of the coin. I agree with u on many points. Life is neither black or white nor is there a perfect hus - wife relationship or a perfect parent-child relationship. V in the forum get all hyper but Raman's anger has never affected Isitha, correct or not is not the point. Each couple hav their own way of handling issues. And each parent learns through a trial & error method as u said. After all the parents r also individuals with flaws.



Exactly... Each and every single individual differ...Each and every relationship is unique. I don't think we can compare a couple's relationship using some benchmark. Let us let cv's bring it on.


Thanks for liking the post😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --abha--

Awesome post...Welcome back meri jaan🤗

little busy yar...house maid has not come😭...imagine me doing all work😭😭

I dont know who is right wrong...

but for me a 12 yr old need a freind as well as strictness too...If u dont have freind and protective mother u will become rebel...

So thats it...
For sure my mom strict and dad ohhh he is super cool...

About analysing why so much fuss over Ishita vs Raman...I never get that...

p.s. In my whole family women never says sorry😆🤣...so i will not mind if ishita too do the same...


Thank you Abha...Even i missed IF and my lovely friends a lot. Oh no...Maid ne chutti liya. Neelu ko appoint kar Abha. I love You tak sun legi bina protest kiye😉


Exactly, there is no right or wrong here. Its just a exploration process.

Even in my house, mom is strict but dad is cool😆

Ishita vs Raman...No way Abha. In all the episodes, i never saw Ishita or Raman, it was just mom and dad.

Sorry ke baare mein no comments...😆 Khud ki bezzati nahi karoongi mein😉

Lovely comment Abha...👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -kri-


Thank you Abha...Even i missed IF and my lovely friends a lot. Oh no...Maid ne chutti liya. Neelu ko appoint kar Abha. I love You tak sun legi bina protest kiye😉


Exactly, there is no right or wrong here. Its just a exploration process.

Even in my house, mom is strict but dad is cool😆

Ishita vs Raman...No way Abha. In all the episodes, i never saw Ishita or Raman, it was just mom and dad.

Sorry ke baare mein no comments...😆 Khud ki bezzati nahi karoongi mein😉

Lovely comment Abha...👏

neelu ko appoint na baba na...hamari wali bahut achi h...
sare kaam kar deti...main thak gyi re...

bold🤣
i know kri...sab mane ge nhi but yeh common h...😆
deejagi thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Nichuss


kicha i bet u...

this 2 never will change... even in thr 80s or 90s

same fight can happen 🤣

Hi, Very true he will not change even when he is in his 7 's or 80's. For a simple reason I have dealt with, sorry dealing with one in my real life who cares a hell for his family (me, my daughter and the whole lot of my maternal family and his maternal family) but no one can stand his anger and some time it will be for a silly reason and still it is difficult to convince him about his fault. The best thing for that is to not to speak to him at that moment and leave the place. he will grumble for some time about that but eventually will cool himself. and later don't open the same topic and nag him . You will get a chance to show him he was wrong the other day. That is what Ishita and Santhishi Ji did in yesterday's episode by walking away from them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: --abha--

neelu ko appoint na baba na...hamari wali bahut achi h...
sare kaam kar deti...main thak gyi re...

bold🤣
i know kri...sab mane ge nhi but yeh common h...😆


Don't under estimate the power of Neelu Abha...😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
#18
Did ishitha get any clue about vinni's character? Any use of cctv? Even biological mom gets hurt in real life saying like"jus giving birth to a child is not a mom, u should be smart and efficient enough to deal things with kids" 'useless lady'. It's not only raman ever father will utter the same dialogue.
Edited by iffanvidz - 10 years ago
deejagi thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: iffanvidz

Did ishitha get any clue about vinni's character? Any use of cctv?

It has nothing to do with Vinni's character or Adi's character, Ishitha was worried after reading the news paper article where in 2 15 years kids were commited suicide after a MMS scandal. She was worried for Adi because she was told by Raman that Adi had once thought about suicide thinking he is not wanted by any. Such thoughts on teen is dangerous and so she didn't want her son to fall prey to such things. Thatw as the only reason she kept the CCTV so that she can hear what they really discuss and be assured that nothing serious is happening in her son's life which may cause damage to him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: deejagi

Hi, Very true he will not change even when he is in his 7 's or 80's. For a simple reason I have dealt with, sorry dealing with one in my real life who cares a hell for his family (me, my daughter and the whole lot of my maternal family and his maternal family) but no one can stand his anger and some time it will be for a silly reason and still it is difficult to convince him about his fault. The best thing for that is to not to speak to him at that moment and leave the place. he will grumble for some time about that but eventually will cool himself. and later don't open the same topic and nag him . You will get a chance to show him he was wrong the other day. That is what Ishita and Santhishi Ji did in yesterday's episode by walking away from them.


My personal experience has been different in this case. I have seen changes in the character trait of a person over passage of time

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