I am here with another topic which has been widely discussed in the forum. Just that I am too late. My personal life finally gave me some freedom to peep into teleworld once again. After watching 10 episodes at a go, I have written this topic for this track.
To start with, i wasn't interested in watching 10 episodes at one go but when i started, couldn't stop myself without completing it. This is one of the best tracks with its ups and downs... Before studying the track, i think we should analyse these individual characters. cv's have given a realistic touch to this track except one place where i can justify that attempt. To err is human and cv's have played with it once again.
Parents are also human beings who fall in this net. Rather than Ishita vs Raman, its mother vs father here. Infact, much more complicated. A mother who is not a biological mother vs biological father who has been denied permission to fulfill his fatherly duties all these years. This is just about this small family, mother who is not one, father who has not been one and a son who has never been a son... Let us forget Ruhi for a while.
Here, there is one father who is way too lenient in his approach. Not that Raman can't see sense but he doesn't want to do that. Its not about Raman being the scapegoat here. He's not committing mistakes to make Ishita look great. He is just being himself. The ultimate truth remains that he has got Adi after almost 6 years. So, there is a small insecurity within Raman. He doesn't want that bad dad image once again. Also, he believes in Ishita's upbringing. She's being strict here. It is normally seen in families. When one parent becomes too strict, the other one stop tightening the noose. Raman is just doing the same. Giving space to Adi. Regarding Raman's outburst, we can only show redemption to one's mistakes. We can't change someone's character to justify the same. That is where most of the soaps lose the essence. I am a proud YHM-ian after seeing that impulsive Raman and that fight between Ishra. This is the character of anger. We react and then realise. Some people refuses to accept the mistakes even after realization. This is our Raman. Unknowingly, he pierced the same wound which is now healing slowly after Ishita's transformation into Ishima. Being short tempered doesn't make a man bad and the person on the receiving end a jagat mata. And I can see another reason why Raman is taking Adi and Vinni lightly even after having a childhood crush himself. Usually, it is mother who understands kids better, especially when there is a drastic change in their mannerism and behaviour. Its not mother over father but this is how the world is. Call me biased but I find father to be more innocent in this department.
Then, let us study the character of this mother. She has become the mother of two kids without giving birth to them. Giving birth doesn't change a thing but difficulty arises when this mother enters a kid's life years after its birth. This mother entered these kids life at a stage when these kids knew the difference between biological mom and step mom. Naturally, this made the task more difficult. Finally this mother got acceptance from her husband's kid who failed to respect her even as a outsider in their initial meetings. Even though its difficult to justify Ishita's actions when it came to fixing CCTV in Adi's room, I think this is how she has been in this journey. Right from Ruhi till Adi which includes Raman, all that Ishita has waited for is just acceptance. After that, same woman has stood against those persons who claim to have more rights on these persons. For example, She stood against Shagun in her mehendi when she raised her hand on Ruhi. She asked Shagun to be within her limits even when Shagun boasted her biological mom status. Ishita slapped Shagun for mocking at her marital life when she felt assured of Raman's love. I think history is repeating itself here...with Adi. Also, according to Ishita, Adi's past has not been impressive. This kid has seen more than what he should see. Ishita's entry into his life as his Ishima can't bring back his innocence which this kid lost long back.
This is the main reason behind Ishita's over protective nature. After her fight with Raman, it is natural for Ishita to get hurt but that doesn't stop her from seeing the impulsive nature of Raman. So, she will get convinced when Raman tries to convince her or if he doesn't, Ishita is not going to create a mess. While many want a closure for fights, I appreciate cv's for leaving it then and there. Personally, I have never seen a logical closure in a fight between a couple.
I couldn't convince myself when Adi crossed the line by shouting at Ishita at the science class but later, when I realised that Adi called Ishima just a week ago, I thought that cv's made a smart move. This relationship is still in budding stage. Adi can't be Ruhi. Shagun's side effects are not going to leave Adi in a week's time. Adi doesn't understand what he is going through. I want to see how they deal with it when Adi gets a inkling of this liking. I don't know what in there in store for the viewers in the future but as of now, this track has been impressive. Leaving aside our disappointments just as a Ishra lover who wants to see them just as a couple, cv's are building this beautifully. Sadly, there is no rulebook to be a perfect parent. Its just a trial and error process. I want to see how far cv's explore this sensibly.
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