22.6.15- IshRa stand tall & mad on 'Hum Bhi Kisise Kam Nahin' - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Megha--

I agree with U. As much as Ishita is wrong in placing CCTV cam, so is Raman too in not involving Ishita in his plans to parent Adi. N although I will hope that they talk n solve this mess, in reality I have no faith in CVs to handle this situation maturely. 😛 To be honest, I fear the same...since they have done this hundreds of times earlier...turned everything dramatic/serious into a frivolous non-issue in barely an episode or two...Ishu was wrong in placing the CCTV cam...Raman was wrong in not involving Ishita in his plan ...pehle toh the LEADS as SPOUSES need to trust each other, only then they can effectively parent Adi

On a serious note, Raman's words r too harsh sometimes. Mistakes r part f everyone's lives. I too hate it when CVs defend each n every action of Ishita's n spin it as motherly love. When in real life, I have seen families break when spouses have run off with kids scarring the family members for life. See..in this case Ishits WAS wrong and I want her to realise the same and admit it..on the other hand, Raman needs to admit his mistakes and change the way he speaks to his wife...extremely harsh...abs not done...I will HATE it if the CVs show Adi doing something gruesome/stupid/shocking/scandalising just to cater to the TRP audience and show their female lead in a brighter-than-the-sun light ...just to make one parent unidimensionally right, they dont need to desecrate Adi's newly formed character and brains...it will be v disappointing then...I wud rather have BOTH the leads be as human as possible and make mistakes and realize the same and HONESTLY accept it..

But that does not absolve Raman's harsh dialogues, if he doesnt consider Ishita as mother f Adi then y expect her to parent him? Y expect that Ishita will b Ishima to him? This makes Raman's character look weak. Absolutely...he doesnt mean what he says...even we know that...and yet...it sounds HORRIBLE...that's no way to speak to the mother of your children..."Bahut shauk hai naa Ishima banne ka" is ANOTHER line which I HATE listening to..the writers shud just scrap out these heart-breaking lines...makes Raman look very callous and insensitive😔

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Great write up! Thanks Krishy!!😛

In terms of the fight - I have no idea why they keep passing off these words as a "normal couple fight"...at first it was normal but it took a nose dive into the type of fight that breaks people. But then they brush it off as a girl's vs guy's thing? I just don't get it, and really I'm not a fan of the message it sends women who are infertile. Im not either...but the CVs ALWAYS make it seem trivial...ki yeh toh chalta hai types...I wish they didnt...coz it doesnt reflect real couples..Imagine if in real life a husband said that to his wife (someone like Ishita who prolly couldnt conceive), I dont think she would be chilling at the spa..she'd most likely leave the place and go somewhere...also, the CCTV camera issue is also quite grave...Kids this age wont stand for this nonsense...some even get mad to the point of destroying stuff in the house and pouting for ages

But que sera sera.

The characters don't take these fights & words seriously...so why are we banging our heads? My social conscious vehemently opposes the nature of the dialogues...but this show still manages to pull me in with the fabulous talent. LOL...Yes...I wrote pages and pages worth of review for this epi, and YET, I suspect, the CVs will take the familiar "chalta hai" route...so at the end of the day, it feels silly that we care more about the characters than THEY do...but honestly, I am a lil chilled out only coz the second half of the epi was HILARIOUS. Vandu-Raman scene was FAB! All the right punchlines, the stupidity of the men, Vandu's irritation and frustration...wonderful...I know the CVs GET TO US via these amusing tricks every time, and yet, I get pulled in EACH TIME😆 Kya karun...dil hai ki maanta nahin

The entire pregnancy bit sounds wonderful & it looks like KP had a blast with the one liners! 😆 Abs!! KP is just...MARVELLOUS! Such wonderful comic timing...right expressions...this one show is gonna make him HUGE-R than any of his earlier shows have

I loved your filmy bit about a father of 2's realization of what motherhood is. I want him to see forgiveness for his words, but that shouldn't make Ishita's actions correct. You did a fab job pointing out why the CCTV was too much, and I hope they allow Ishita to have that realization too. Hehehe...I hav abs no idea if its gonna be played out that way tomorrow..and the general trend has been to make Raman apologize to Ishita...so maybe, thru this episode...they would make Raman realize the sacrifices a mother makes and the pain she bears for her children..maybe then he would soften up or something...just guessing...very filmy, but quite possible😆 And EVEN if he realizes how mean he was with her sometime ago and apologises, I dont want Ishita to act high and mighty and think her CCTV cam wala move was a stroke of genius. I want her to APOLOGIZE as well...