vyas today i ACTUALLY WAITED for ur post lik 11pm days coz aaj ka epi ws BANG ON to the FULLEST..🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Raman DID SPEAK...whts the BRUTAL TRUTH(most of them NOT ALL)..!! n yes i knw Ishima na hi kuch samjhegi n i knw Raman maybe back to sorry mode tomorrow..!! but puttin all tht aside...i am PROUD of Raman for finally speakin wht is truth..!! it ws a long long long overdue..!!
But before goin to todays epi,i HAVE TO mention past(u see jst followin my fav char-Raman😆)
i genuinely LOVED Ishima-Ruhi bonding in 11pm days..!! nothin ws over neither nothin ws less b/w them..!! a pure heartfelt bonding n i SO MUCH RESPECTED LOVED tht..!! infact its for a Ishita-Ruhi scene i evn made my first topic in this forum last year when Ruhi called Ishita as Ishima for first time..!! tht scene is STILL A CLASSIC scene which symbolises the VINTAGE GOLDEN 11pm days wali ISHIMA n definitely NOT the over protective obsessed 7.30pm days wali Ishima..!!
With slot change evrything changed jahan Ishita char butchering topped the charts..🥱🥱🥱...I could hardly connect to her post slot change..!!
There hv been many many times where used to behave as if Ruhi ka fikr SIRF Ishita ko hai n no one else..!! She evn had told same many times..sayin MERI BETI..MERI RUHI(countless times)..!! Her love for Ruhi(which ws relatable n beautiful in 11pm days)turned to UNBEARABLE OBSESSION(which ws irritatin in peak of 7.30pm days) n best example hw she ran away with Ruhi WITHOUT THINKING ANYTHING..!! n till date she dnt regret abt it...🥱🥱...!! i still cant forget the morgue scene n the immense trauma Raman had undergone jst coz of the drastic step of Ishima in Ishita then..!!
Now comin to Adi..!! Agree Adi ne jo kaam kiya ws wrong..!! But lik Raman said-there IS a way to treat teen child.!! Installing CCTV cam ws HEIGHTS n evn more HEIGHTS ws she still has the audacity to treat her decision as "good for Adi"..lik really..😕😕..!! Also how many times Raman tryied to put sense into her head tht NOT TO THINK TOO MUCH regarding Adi matter..!! But usne Raman ki ek nahi suni..!! So the outcome tonite ws INEVITABLE.!!
Instead of understanding the idiocracy of the kaand she did today-she turned the ENTIRE MATTER to WOMAN vs MAN..😲🥱...!! And am so glad...hell glad tht Raman SPOKE wht ws NEEDED..!! Her pointin out tht it ws a woman who once spoiled Adi's life..it ws a woman who left Ruhi when she ws 6 months old..!!
She got offended when Raman said "mera beta"...so wht abt those innumerable times when she talked behaved as if Ruhi SIRF Ishita ki lagti hai aur kisika nahi?😕😕...
I agree tht Ishita did help in sudhrofyin the rishta of RuMan in earlier days..!! But the Ishita then would NEVER behave lik today ki Ruhi ko upbringing properly sirf Ishita ne kiya aur koi nahi..!! So i loved hw Raman said...he sambhalofied Ruhi evn when Ishita ws not in their life n he would evn if Ishita wsnt there..!! Though the GAP b/w RuMan ko break hone mein time lagta if Ishita wsnt there(which i STILL agree)..bt aisa nahi hai ki agar Ishita nahi hoti toh RuMan relation forever ke liye bigde hote..!!
And my MOST FAV part..ANY LOVE which is beyond a limit is nothing but obsession n it literally creates to SUFFOCATION..!! loved how Raman pointed tht out her obessions hv bcome her kids to feel SUFFOCATED coz of her love n tht shouldn be case..!!
A kid's perfect upbringing ke liye BOTH MOM n DAD's contributions ARE NEEDED in a balanced manner..!! And Raman do understands tht n thtsy respected Ishima in Ishita first evn durin their mutual hatred days n he ws sure while marriyin her-whtevr mayb their personal eqns he knew Ishita is the ONE who can be the REAL MOM to his children..!! And he still values it too..!!
But when mistake happens,one has to point out n Raman never did in a serious manner..!! And today when he finally did-unfortunately it seems it wnt change ny thought process in Ishita to REDUCE her obsession n turn to GOOD OLD SENSIBLE ISHIMA..!!
phew...i also got peace nw...😆😆😆...thnx to Raman,i also could finally speak on Ishima..!!
Like i miss the 11pm days wali realistic Ishita,i so miss the 11pm days wali sensible Ishima..!!
Edited by Nikki_Titli - 10 years ago