Spying on Adi: some forum members r defending it! SERIOUSLY?!! - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on. Very well said.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
There are sone ACTS whihc shoudl never be Defended...
1) Ishita Eloping away with Ruhi
2) Ishita Installing Cameras to spy on Adi's Activity...
3) Raman screaming at Ishita and Insulting her Motherhhood.

Simply because they give out wrong signals...moreover CV's dont care to give Justification...in 1st Case CV's did not did anything rather they made Ishita to justify it poorly...which clearly gives out message Its ok to elope with Kids by lying to Family...

SImilarly I have zero hopes from CV's in Adi's case...instead I wont be surprise If they make Adi's do some kaand just to justify this Act and end up giving message that If Parents carry out such Activity with Kids...is OK...

Hence forward People should Really stop complaining abt CV's and stop calling names to TRP Aunties...

TRP Aunties toh apne Forum mein hi Hain...
Ready to Defend Ishita at drop of Hat...Don't not matter If Their Defense make sense or not .
Whether they show Hypocricy or not...bas Defend karna hain...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


First of all ishita is Adi's mom. Dont think any woman would have gone thru hell on account of a step-son like Adi. What did Adi do to her till date? She can forgive him but cant forget. Moreover that girl is lying to her parents, after Adi lying to her father and Raman lying to Ishita. There is a Bhalla like Romi in the same house who was pampered and given privacy and see what he has done?

I dont see why a kid of 12 yrs needs privacy with a girl in his bedroom? I mean the Bhallas have not even given Ishra enough privacy!

That girl is the investor's daughter and it is obvious she has been telling lies to her parents and coming to Bhallas. If her father again finds out, the blame will be on Adi and Raman, who in turn will blame only Ishita.

Raman did exquisite planning with Adi and lied to ishita. So he is basically encouraging Adi to lie, plus he never pulled up Adi for making that fake call. Raman is cool now. But if the issue gets blown up due to her dad, then Ishita will be asked to get out again. I would have blamed Ishita if she had gone out and bought cctv camera etc. Since the camera was there her mind went towards it even though she felt guilty.

So Raman is playing games with Adi trying to keep Ishita in tha dark. Is that any less a crime than what Ishita has done? Next he will say mean things to her as he always does. He forgets just like the forum that he was never a father to Adi for last 7 yrs and it is due to ishita's so-called mistakes where the forum bashed her left right centre - of brining Shagun to Bhalla house, taking all shit from that mother-son and also Raman, which has brought Adi to Raman. Same is th case with Ruhi. And it has been Ishita's over-protectiveness and priority with the kids that have spolit all their romantic encounters thanks to Shagun and Adi. Its her same insticnt which got everyone to realize that Adi Ruhi were missing, Raman was least bothered, he is either blinded by SR or by Adi.
And it is the same woman who might have been dead saving the kids - even after all this he hits her below the belt with crass dialogues, mean stuff in front of everyone. That cant be forgiven, no matter what Ishita does with the kids- she definitely does not have harmful intentions. Raman is a reckless and careless father- he wud not have been a father itself if Ishita was not around, he hies stuff from his wife, signs legal papers without thnking, and then shouts and blames her for everything. High time he controls his temper and starts using his head and stops hurting a woman who has done so much for him.


Insecurity only drives a wedge in any relationship even if u have made countless sacrifices. I wouldn't call Ishita's decision of bringing Shagun and Adi a wise one. No married woman will bring her own sautan into her home. She could have instead asked Raman to support them in anyway whatsoever. Was it hard for Raman to find an apartment for Shagun and Adi nearby their own home? Sometimes she has gone so far in being a do gooder that she didn't realise she was creating troubles for herself. Being good to an extent of breaking one's home is what I would call stupidity and not nobility.

She always had the kids best interest at heart and she is a wonderful mother on those accounts. She is also a living example to prove that one need not give birth to be a mother n she did that when she saved Adi Ruhi risking her own life. But how does it justify what she is doing now? Adi is a teen n he is bound to make mistakes n he made one when he lied about the party n he admitted it. Teenage is a delicate phase and Adi is not a small kid like Ruhi who can chastised and made to learn things. Teens only rebel in that scenario. Teenage is the phase when parents have to be more of a friend than a parent to their kids. U shd trust ur kids and make them realise that u have faith in them. That is the only thing that will keep them on their toes. If u doubt every move they make and keep eyes on them, it will push any kid. No relationship thrives on suspicion and Adi has just now begun to accept her. Vinnie is his partner in science project and she is here to do her assignment. Kids can't do homework in hall where guests will be coming now n then. Where will they do it then? In their own rooms for God's sake 😵 Does she really think Adi and Vinnie will be fooling around? OK, they may have a casual chat now n then since they are friends too but Ishita's moves will only drive any kid crazy. Vinnie can tell her parents about her project and its upto them how they handle it. Why should Ishita do anything about it? If they have a problem with it they will take it up with their science teacher. Can't she trust Adi instead? If she does Adi will always have this in his mind and he will think twice before doing anything that will break it.

If keep Bhalla and Iyer family aside, u should realise u cannot fix anything and everything in this world and the world does not rest on ur shoulders. Its high time Ishita realised this. U have ur own mess to sort out then y bother about others? Everyone needs to learn from their own experiences and Ishita should give ppl their space. No one will deny all the good things or sacrifices she has done but one should not be overbearing.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


So Raman is playing games with Adi trying to keep Ishita in tha dark. Is that any less a crime than what Ishita has done?


Are you serious? 😲 Guess it just proves TM's premise.
By the way, Raman didn't inform it to Ishita because he knew what would be her reaction. And he was damn right. See, what she has done after she came to know about Adi-Vinnie's science project!

Edited by Pooja_Chavan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Moderators...can a new rule be created in india forums regarding this ..people here just wait to bash each other...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RollingStones

There are sone ACTS whihc shoudl never be Defended...

1) Ishita Eloping away with Ruhi
2) Ishita Installing Cameras to spy on Adi's Activity...
3) Raman screaming at Ishita and Insulting her Motherhhood.

Simply because they give out wrong signals...moreover CV's dont care to give Justification...in 1st Case CV's did not did anything rather they made Ishita to justify it poorly...which clearly gives out message Its ok to elope with Kids by lying to Family...

SImilarly I have zero hopes from CV's in Adi's case...instead I wont be surprise If they make Adi's do some kaand just to justify this Act and end up giving message that If Parents carry out such Activity with Kids...is OK...

Hence forward People should Really stop complaining abt CV's and stop calling names to TRP Aunties...

TRP Aunties toh apne Forum mein hi Hain...
Ready to Defend Ishita at drop of Hat...Don't not matter If Their Defense make sense or not .
Whether they show Hypocricy or not...bas Defend karna hain...

@bold: I can see dis coming...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This action of ishita is complitely disgusting
Adi already lost Shagun, he was broken, then when he started acceptinf her and trusting her, he started giving her respect and impirtant place in his life
And thats what she is doing???
I have NEVER ever heard or seen this before
Teenagers usually are like this and as i saw, we cant say indians teenagers are all criminals
Here the way teenagers are going, understand parents can have some insicurity..tought they mostly dont
But in india teenagers still seem to be kids...innocent and unware of many things...
Adi just wanted to have a female friend
What is wrong in that???
Why is ishita behaving as some 18th century mother
Who cant stand frienship of a two kids female male
Sorry but the little respect i had for her vanished complitely
At what point will they butcher her to makr her look like a devi??
They have already killed every character and the show itself, what do they want now???
Cvs are really disgusting!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just wanna say one should rspect other's opinion too...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree that Ishita went too far with the spycam

However, Ishita has just become a mom to a teenage kid...a kid that grew up in a house with Shagun and Ashok and saw many weird things occuring

Ishu cannot just automatically trust Adi, a child she has not raised herself who went through so much trauma and insecurity with his biological mom. Keep in mind that the turnaround they are showing in Adi is pretty unrealistic as well..most kids with that kind of messed upbringing act out in their teenage years...here we see Adi accepting Ishu in the blink of an eye and casting away his biological mom in a single frame.

I still stand by the fact that Raman acted like an ass...he acted like he is the only parent and made Ishu the outsider when they are BOTH the parents of the children.

The proper thing would be too have Ishu and Adi talk it out, with Raman being the mediator...of course its an Ekta show ...nuff said...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I love ishu, but what she did is wrong. Children at dis age r vry sensitive. She has to deal it vry patiently..

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