Spying on Adi: some forum members r defending it! SERIOUSLY?!!

I know it's a democratic country and in a public forum every one is entitled to express his/her opinion freely. But Ishita's spying act on Adi using the nanny cam is beyond any justification and some are "seeing" the reason behind it, hence defending it! Really! This forum never ceases to amaze me. Here everything can be justified by coining Ishita's "insecurities" or Raman's "anger issue". If insecurities of a woman/mother force her to engage in such disgusting work, then she needs to visit a psychiatrist as soon as possible and her husband needs to attend "anger management" classes.

Rather than these so called insecurities, I thought Ishita would understand Adi better... above all. Simply Because Ishita herself had a boy-friend when she was just 15. I thought she would understand Adi's teenage emotions perfectly. But she didn't want to, rather she tried to snatch away his freedom whereas she herself enjoyed full freedom from her parents when she dated Subbu in her teenage years!

P.S: Please bear in mind that it's not a post for Raman vs Ishita fan war and I don't want this thread to be locked down because of that...

Ishita doesn't follow what she preaches. She could have a boyfriend in teenage years but Adi can't have a female friend!She could enjoy absolute freedom from her parents but Adi can't. That's how she practices double standard.

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I am not going to mock the forum for having another opinion because like you also said, we're all entitled to it. BUT definitely agree that being a protective mother does not justify an act of spying on your child. Adi is a child whose lost faith on his birth mother. That is a huge setback mentally. And trust is the main factor for him as is for any relation even normally. He's been made to feel that he's not trusted and that will shake the foundation of his relation with the family that is just beginning to bloom.

Originally posted by: -MS-

Ishita doesn't follow what she preaches. She could have a boyfriend in teenage years but Adi can't have a female friend!She could enjoy absolute freedom from her parents but Adi can't. That's how she practices double standard.

Bash me Ishita lovers if you want but you can't change the facts. 😆

Don't say the truth like that...like so out open, say it more diplomatically...😉🤣

Adi not 15 his 12 years old...he is still young to have girl friend he should constrate on his studies first. And i don't agree Isita having spy cam, Isita should learn how trust Adi this just push Adi away she just got him.

Originally posted by: indian10

Adi not 15 his 12 years old...he is still young to have girl friend he should constrate on his studies first. And i don't agree Isita having spy cam, Isita should learn how trust Adi this just push Adi away she just got him.

Who said Adi wanted a girl friend? It's very common for a boy to have such innocent crush when he's going to be friends with a girl for the first time. Apart from that, Adi so far behaves like a friend/classmate with Vinni. Btw, even a girl of 14/15 years old should not have a boy friend but Ishita never regretted that. Then why is she objecting Adi-Vinni's friendship?

@Indian10..

I dont support ishita's action either i condemn it whole heartedly but she can still be given a benefit of doubt because she herself is feeling guilty about it!! Yes she has done a mistake but she will learn out of it for sure!! And installing a cctv camera was a sequencial action which followed from the events that occured before that and adi did have suicidal tendancies earlier though the reasons were different so she is terribly worried about him doing that again!! Adi is not emotionally stable child that we all will agree he can get easily influenced and go overboard!! And yes ishita will also learn from her mistakes and give him much needed space by trusting him!! I hope cvs cover that aspect till that time i will still give her a benefit of doubt because she is also not convinced for her actions!!

Ishita is all about preaches n that's the scenario from day one 😵 Raman has his anger issues but on most accounts its justified though I will say he can control it a bit. But Ishita is highly irritating. What makes her think she can have a say in everybody's lives, even if she claims she is doing it for good? Who is she to judge anybody? Who has given her the right to interfere in everybody's lives? Vinnie was right when she pointed out to Adi that his parents don't trust him one bit. Even after this I doubt if she will apologise to Vinnie. Agreed the kids made one mistake but instead of making them realise that they shouldn't make mistakes in future and instill trust in them she is doubting them pushing them to get reckless.

Originally posted by: FieryHeart

Ishita is all about preaches n that's the scenario from day one 😵 Raman has his anger issues but on most accounts its justified though I will say he can control it a bit. But Ishita is highly irritating. What makes her think she can have a say in everybody's lives, even if she claims she is doing it for good? Who is she to judge anybody? Who has given her the right to interfere in everybody's lives? Vinnie was right when she pointed out to Adi that his parents don't trust him one bit. Even after this I doubt if she will apologise to Vinnie. Agreed the kids made one mistake but instead of making them realise that they shouldn't make mistakes in future and instill trust in them she is doubting them pushing them to get reckless.

But heck one thing I realised in IF is that no matter what the female lead is never wrong 😆 And u will have countless people to defend her on all accounts n even come up with theories to do it coz everywhere the female lead is the princess, queen, doll or what not in the forum 😆 Anyone who opposes this view either becomes a basher or a fan of male lead.