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Posted: 10 years ago
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I liked Raman's approach of dealing with Adi.. He did not scold him, in fact he did not even have a very firm talk with him, he calmly listened to his son's thoughts and then explained him calmly that his mother was not wrong too, hence making a way for mother and son duo to patch up.

Adi himself accepted his mistake otherwise am sure, Raman would have made him realize his mistake too in the same way.


By doing this Raman has won his son's trust, hence making himself apprpachable. Now Adi will come around with all his problems to Raman and share stuff with him just how he did today about working on the project with Vinni only. This will help Raman to keep a check on his son 24*7 and stop him from going in wrong directions.


The only place where Raman went wrong today was, that instead of hatching a plan and sending away ladies to SPA so that Adi enjoys with his "good friend", he could have talked with Ishita and explained her things and ask her to take things lightly, as she has made an opinion on Vinnie just after listening to one sentence of her's. Ishita was never like this specially with kids. She would have happily complied with Vinnie coming over to their house for project, had Raman explained her. This step might give wrong ideas in Adi's head, so the approach is good but how he is executing should also be taken care of.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally agree with you
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vinni seems to have a hold on Adi. That seems bad, coz even though his instinct tells him not to, she kinda persuades him to do the opposite. Plus why is Raman coaxing Adi to go ahead with a crush at that age? Moreover, ishita is worried coz Vinni's father is Raman's investor and the Bhalla boys if not reigned in r famous for their kaands...Raman will be in trouble with her father.
What I didnoit understand was her father came over yest and lectured Raman and today how did Vinni get permission to go to Bhalla house with Adi? 😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123

Vinni seems to have a hold on Adi. That seems bad, coz even though his instinct tells him not to, she kinda persuades him to do the opposite. I wouldn't say that she has some hold on Adi, Adi has a crush on her and listens to her words which is common between lovers, good friends. Till now I do not see Vinni giving wrong advice to Adi. She getting excited for a party was natural, asking him to forgive those 2 guys also was fine, coz nothing has been shown so much that I term those 2 guys to be bad. So basing on just one party, we cannot form opinions and state that Adi is in bad company. In fact here Ishita is over- reacting to the situation. Plus why is Raman coaxing Adi to go ahead with a crush at that age? This definitely is a good point, coz Raman stopping Adi would be useless as definitely Adi would not listen to him, but hatching a plan to send Ishita out of the house instead of talking and convincing her to allow Vinni in the house was definitely a wrong step. This is leading to Raman again getting blinded by Adi's love. Moreover, ishita is worried coz Vinni's father is Raman's investor and the Bhalla boys if not reigned in r famous for their kaands...Raman will be in trouble with her father. Ishita is not thinking on these lines, she is only feeling that her son is again going in a wrong path. Adi definitely doesn't have a good track record but recently the mistakes done by him are the ones which every teenager does in his life. Ishita needs to understand that by blowing hot Adi will only revolt, she needs to tackle it tactfully but looking at the olv its clear that she has taken wrong steps.


What I didnoit understand was her father came over yest and lectured Raman and today how did Vinni get permission to go to Bhalla house with Adi? 😲 That's called creative liberty. 😉😆

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