Wish the Cvs were more sensible *collage pg 7* - Page 2

Originally posted by: -II-

Thank you for the post, Gan. You've expressed it so well about what was missing in the scene from Ishita's side. Feels good to know I am not the only one feeling this way about IshRa. In fact I have been feeling this way ever since Raman's return from the US.

I can't quite place my finger on what exactly is amiss, whether its their chemistry, or the lackluster scenes being written. Both KP and DT are brilliant actors, and I love both Raman & Ishita equally, and always enjoyed their combustible chemistry..of course, to be completely honest, I am able to relate more to Raman than Ishita, but I blame it on the makers for portraying Ishita as a know-it-all, do-it-all super-bahu. Well she can be all that, along with showing some sense of priority towards Raman sometimes, can't she?

CVs need to be careful while writing scenes, and try to balance it well. Much as I hate to say it, but right now it appears as if only Raman is putting in all the efforts to progress their relationship to the next level, to spend some alone moments with wife..booking a hotel room, writing poems, decorating the room, etc.

By bringing in comedy in romantic scenes they are not only diluting the essence of IshRa, but are showing the couple as rather shallow and lackluster Where is the passion, the intimacy, the eagerness, the intensity in their relationship?

So on point Gan!! I for the first time did not like their dance!! There was no chamistry there!! I would have been ok if they wouldnt have shown it considering dt cant dance. raman could have danced alone if at all dance was required and Ishita could have been included for some concluding movements that would have been more sensible!!
Ishita is bit nervous though she is ready to take it forward. the water scene and her sweating scene was symbolic enough and raman did notice that!! She also was trying to say something like ha raman but...when he stopped her and mouthed some heavy duty dialogue and thats very natural for her to feel that way she needs time which was evident.. i guess now is not the right time; when they intend to show the consumation they will adress this issue hopefully in much more sensible way now cvs are more focusing on Adi's realisation track and i hope they handle it well!! Adi needs this jhatka which will shake him from inside and push him to think about his mom and accepting ishita as his mother!! The family has to complete if u observed yesterday adi called raman Papa which i guess was shown for the first time i m not sure though but this circle has to complete then only they will focus on her insecurities
Currently she is fighting within..she is not vocalising it bc she knows he is excited to take it forward and she doesnt want to disaapoint him by asking more time so she is just going with the flow may be she is thinking that his advances would help her in a positive way in order to shed her nervousness and probably when the actual thing happens she would give in to his desires which are currently overpowering so she is allowing him to do it for them both.. I think thats very human at times we allow others to decide for ourselves when we r not in position to do for our own and thats what ishita is doing currently i guess!! And she trusts raman more than herself and he is also the experienced one among the two so she is just leaning in and allowing him to take the lead!!
I dnt kno if that made any sense 😕

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Gan Ur not damper...when i saw yest SBB seq of the song i had samething in mind...even wrote about wished cv's would have realized this...IshRa dance sequences were always a highlight to watch out but today it wasnt as per the level which they had set for IshRa...

i so wish they had a slow song which would be easy to do & would looked better as dt wsnt able to dance due to her leg...

also it ws kind not well done apart from here & there some moments in the entire song...last song sequence it havnt went out of my head...

it ws that beautiful today it ws like haa bhai ho gaya khatam..looked more kind of forced performance...

some moments had to be there so it doesnt look totally vella types so they put down...

for Ishita's intimacy...the word inexperience & 3 I's as far i hardly see in the episode...they as u said is missing out...that thing which make & gives jittery feel is so missing in entire scene...

whole passion i want to see in Ishita after confession is just missing in the place...even if this IT has to be delayed that feeling of found love is missing it place from Ishita's side...its seen here & there occasionally

where its seen its pleasing to watch...

i agree that subtlety is what missing its not comedy has to be turned into as see if progress to be shown that emotions also need to be changed..in some parts.nok-jhok looked bit out of place today which wasnt needed in the scene looked bit forced in the sequence rest i would say i enjoyed it...

poem part did wonders today...

some part where they enter in the room ws beautiful to watch.

also say i didnt even expected this to be shown...after building up on maharaja suite so

as fans im happy with what was shown too...

i kind expecting nothing from cv's when they have this Ott drama in there minds to show of shagun...

I am highly disappointed too. 😭

Originally posted by: Dmug

So on point Gan!! I for the first time did not like their dance!! There was no chamistry there!! I would have been ok if they wouldnt have shown it considering dt cant dance. raman could have danced alone if at all dance was required and Ishita could have been included for some concluding movements that would have been more sensible!!
Ishita is bit nervous though she is ready to take it forward. the water scene and her sweating scene was symbolic enough and raman did notice that!! She also was trying to say something like ha raman but...when he stopped her and mouthed some heavy duty dialogue and thats very natural for her to feel that way she needs time which was evident.. i guess now is not the right time; when they intend to show the consumation they will adress this issue hopefully in much more sensible way now cvs are more focusing on Adi's realisation track and i hope they handle it well!! Adi needs this jhatka which will shake him from inside and push him to think about his mom and accepting ishita as his mother!! The family has to complete if u observed yesterday adi called raman Papa which i guess was shown for the first time i m not sure though but this circle has to complete then only they will focus on her insecurities
Currently she is fighting within..she is not vocalising it bc she knows he is excited to take it forward and she doesnt want to disaapoint him by asking more time so she is just going with the flow may be she is thinking that his advances would help her in a positive way in order to shed her nervousness and probably when the actual thing happens she would give in to his desires which are currently overpowering so she is allowing him to do it for them both.. I think thats very human at times we allow others to decide for ourselves when we r not in position to do for our own and thats what ishita is doing currently i guess!! And she trusts raman more than herself and he is also the experienced one among the two so she is just leaning in and allowing him to take the lead!!
I dnt kno if that made any sense 😕

Originally posted by: Dmug

So on point Gan!! I for the first time did not like their dance!! There was no chamistry there!! I would have been ok if they wouldnt have shown it considering dt cant dance. raman could have danced alone if at all dance was required and Ishita could have been included for some concluding movements that would have been more sensible!!
Ishita is bit nervous though she is ready to take it forward. the water scene and her sweating scene was symbolic enough and raman did notice that!! She also was trying to say something like ha raman but...when he stopped her and mouthed some heavy duty dialogue and thats very natural for her to feel that way she needs time which was evident.. i guess now is not the right time; when they intend to show the consumation they will adress this issue hopefully in much more sensible way now cvs are more focusing on Adi's realisation track and i hope they handle it well!! Adi needs this jhatka which will shake him from inside and push him to think about his mom and accepting ishita as his mother!! The family has to complete if u observed yesterday adi called raman Papa which i guess was shown for the first time i m not sure though but this circle has to complete then only they will focus on her insecurities
Currently she is fighting within..she is not vocalising it bc she knows he is excited to take it forward and she doesnt want to disaapoint him by asking more time

so she is just going with the flow may be she is thinking that his advances would help her in a positive way in order to shed her nervousness and probably when the actual thing happens she would give in to his desires which are currently overpowering so she is allowing him to do it for them both.. I think thats very human at times we allow others to decide for ourselves when we r not in position to do for our own and thats what ishita is doing currently i guess!! And she trusts raman more than herself and he is also the experienced one among the two so she is just leaning in and allowing him to take the lead!!
I dnt kno if that made any sense 😕

Originally posted by: krishy13

In school we learned that humor is a mature psychological defense mechanism, but after watching this show...I greatly beg to differ! 😆

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Any hopes for a meaningful scene are slowly fading given the impending nautanki. There is a small chance we get something nice tomorrow before the kidnapping bomb hits...but who knows!

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Lovely post !

@bold that is the crux of what's lacking in YHM for me .. I complained about this the other day too.. That the writing lacks a balance as far as the leads are concerned ... While they painstakingly took months to delve into Raman's past, his insecurities and his healing... Nothing was done as far as Ishita is concerned though she has been through some equally scarring past.. I could relate to more normal, impulsive and not so perfect Ishita than this super bahu they are trying to portray her as...

@red .. They are least in the creatives' mind these days.. It's all about crass comedy or crappy melodrama these days

Originally posted by: -Gan-

You made sense completely... But my qualm is the creatives need to show that part of her side..somehow..I want them to show her 'fighting within' .. Through monologues or sisters' heart to heart.. Right now everything is left upto viewer interpretation ... That's where lies my disconnect.. I. Really was anticipating a track dedicated to Ishita's insecurities... But somehow now am losing hope that we'll ever see that... Hence the disappointment

I agree with u that they need to focus on her insecurities through some meaningful scenes may be they are not doing it as they are planning to make it a proper track and focus on it in entirety so before that they are cleaning all the mess they have created till now!! That insecurity track will also lead to their baby just my thought not sure though!! And i seriously dnt feel ishita is insensetive towards his feelings she is just being indifferent bc she is not sure how to react she is afraid as well to take the lead what if she chickens out last moment that will leave both of them with sour taste so she is just going with the flow.. But i agree her internal conflict needs to reach the audiance else we are left to interprete on our own and that shows ishita in bad light!!