YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #68 - Page 8

Originally posted by: Nichuss

more than confession

i was so touched n felt by the farewell dialogues btwn ishra...

ishu started missing... lets seee how much this missing drama hooks up

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

i liked that sugar part it so cute...

i felt so big big drama going to happen teh way raman's farewell is shown...

when he will return everything will be at toss

Originally posted by: Nichuss

one guesss to cme true s... ishu to avoid wheel chair... h h h h...

gd nyt tanu

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Copy pasting the same thing I posted in Gan' thread 😳

Had some guests over and well it was unexpected - guests usually are unexpected as well as tiring, you get the drift right?

So let's get this show on the road now.

I'll be honest here because that's the only way I know how to write things that I need to pen down.

I have been very vocal about being disappointed with the get out of my house drama that came up and last night when the confession scene started on the heels of that drama it didn't sit well with me. I couldn't digest two characters that I love and adore becoming so...so ...jaded. It was disappointing to me and I spoke about it in the LU, A LOT.

Then tonight happened and well there' only so much a girl can rant especially about the things that she doesn't have the power to change, and so with as much patience and tolerance I could summon within me I sat down to watch tonight' episode. Skipping over the minutes in between wasted on the annoyance plaguing us found that I actually quite liked it. Yes, I had to put the latest drama behind me but the sentiments, the words penned by Ritu Deora were spot on and all I could think of was why, why was the you leave my home drama even necessary, because had it not been for THAT one particular thing this would have been so PERFECT.

Why did they add that really, because she isn't even being mad, the confession happened DESPITE that and so it still makes no sense to me why was this stupid thing even written in the script.

If it hadn't been written this would have been everything that could have and would have been APT for IshRa, and so I decided to just let the things I can't have any control over aside.

And as soon as I made that decision I came on the forum and reserved a spot on your thread, the very first one too by some weird co-incidence.

Therefore, I will write about the scene disregarding the things that make me want to shake someone in the Balaji and SP camp badly, if only I could do that, but alas, I am moving on.

After lots of talking in circles, we arrived at the moment most awaited and there was a goof-up, or so it seems.

Raman' first confession that he really intended and meant had him mouth "I Love You Ishimaa".

It ruined things for her and for a second there stumped him, he immediately reverted to mention Ruhi and spoke of his kids, their kids...said that they impressed the word upon his mind...

But in his heart, that's how Ishita began to make a place for herself, she started out as the woman he saw as the mother of his child, his daughter - the little girl who so longed for the love of a mother, who eventually became the mother of both his children. In my opinion, Raman Kumar Bhalla started getting attracted to Ishita Iyer a long time before he even admitted it to himself; the seeds were sown on one rainy night where they found themselves stranded together for that attraction to take root. But he fell in love with her, the moment, his daughter called her Ishimaa for the very first time; the instant he saw them hug he knew the pure joy, the unadulterated happiness on his child' face is courtesy of this woman who he had just married and hard as he tried to ignore Raman Bhalla was a goner.

I have always adored the scene, the stumped look Raman has there, then the way he schools his features just in time for no one to take notice how the little moment affected him, but the truth is it does. The magic stays on forever with him, which just gets more potent over time as he falls more and more in love with her how could he not after all?

I always believed that after Shagun Raman locked up his heart, so tightly at that that even he had no idea how to escape the confines he restricted around himself, even though, as is the case with the finest of armory too, his armor had a chink - his children. Though he tried to not let it be known; this woman went ahead and tackled that very chink - she let him see how easy was it to love and be loved in return - all he had to do was, allow himself the chance and hope for that.

He saw the joy his daughter found in the love of a mother and in loving that mother.

So while Raman saying I love you Ishimaa is a blunder of sorts, it's the way their journey began, it's how he started to fall in love with this woman - as the mother of his child to begin with.

His next words were a simple "I love you to her" - twice over.

For the times that he lied or made it seem the words he spoke earlier were a pack of lies. Earlier when he said them they had been true too, only one he wasn't willing to acknowledge to even himself, hell he was fighting himself back then too, to not surrender to his growing affection for this woman. The first time he said those words, he made up the excuse that Ruhi was looking at them, true she was, but even his daughter couldn't possibly have heard them all the way to the third storey even if he yelled over the downpour of the rain. The other time was made to appear as a means to distract her attention enough to help her through a moment of pain.

Slowly however, the walls began to give away, she chipped away his defenses just by being who she was, is, this woman he got to know her as not just as a mother, a daughter, sister or DIL/SIL but just Ishita. Little things about her that made her strong or weak, silly or wise, the way she infuriated him to the point of madness as well as made him smile despite the very madness that drove him up a wall.

He fell for Ishita - for being the child-woman that she is, the woman who knew how to bring out the best in him even if he showed her his worst, more often than not.

She made his dark life lighter by her smiles and the laughter she infused in it. She made him want to be a man who couldn't help himself when it came to her. Teasing her, annoying her, doing things that made her roll her eyes or drive her to the point where she would positively be seething. Because whenever he did that, whenever he managed to ruffle that cool exterior - he got under her skin and as he did so, he didn't even realize he allowed her the same. In enjoying ruffling her feathers, he started making room for her in his heart, bringing down bricks one at a time that would one day fell the wall.

He resisted with all his might but in the end, he came to love Ishita justifying his - "I love you Ishita."

Now was there any point in denying, in resisting, in fighting a lost cause,? She was the mother he wanted for his children, the woman he came to adore, the woman he loved to annoy - she was the woman he saw himself growing old with - the woman who he accepted in his heart of hearts as his soul mate, his lover, his wife.

This woman became Ishita Raman Bhalla for the world the day he tied the knot with her, but who in his heart became the wife he fell in love with over time. This time he didn't surrender his heart easily but surrender he did at last and not because he HAD to love her, no, there was no compulsion that made him do it now, like the last time. A relationship that is supposed to be a bond of love wasn't stifling him, on the contrary it was loosening him up - this time his heart was conquered and he yielded, but in that, he won, in losing his heart he found his victory - his freedom as he admits - he came to life.

Therefore, Raman Bhalla admitted he has come to love "Ishita Raman Bhalla", not because it was expected of him, rather because he simply had no choice in the matter this time around. Since this time a face hadn't bewitched him enough that made him ignore the person behind the beautiful mask, rather the heart drew him out of his shell, enough for him to recognize that this time around the woman he had come to care was beautiful inside and out - and most importantly, she made him feel the same way too.😳

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Lovely take Kri 👏👏👏