Software Symphonies 19 'To step on' on 137 - Page 66

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Thank you Pritee

Hello Prati

Shilpa papam me pillalu

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hershey

I found your post, yes I read it too, I wouldnt be so harsh on II. But feel free to be if you like I like it if readers hate the characters or their behavior instead of hating ME😆

You cannot expect her to jump in and start spending his money, I might not be able to put it well like some of you girls do, but, because he is wealthy how you can you expect II to fawn and swoon and immediately accept everything with open arms?

That would be too artificial. Sorry!! Happens only in movies. The female lead is dirt poor the day after the marriage she is wearing enough jewelry to put Aishwarya's Kalyan Jewelers I LOVE racism and SLAVERY ad to shame. 👏

Why should she allow R&B to transfer money? Why cant II's stance be considered "modern and liberal"? Pre marital sex is not modern or liberal for Iyers, but THIS could be right? Why should we slot II within the box of what WE consider modern liberal and progressive?

WHAT is wrong for a grown educated, successful woman NOT to want her husband's money?
Does that make her LESS invested in a marriage? That is plain wrong and I totally disagree. Spending husband's money makes her appear "in love" and "faithful" and "emotionally invested"

WHY?

This post seems so random and completely out of place amidst the ongoing discussion. But I seriously need help here!

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hershey

She is not refreshing her bank page every hour yaar when the charge was declined she wasnt anywhere near her phone

By 3 PM next afternoon, Sunday is when she sees the credit of Rs. 49, 500
There are "right" occasions and "Wrong" occasions to fight in a marriage. Some dont fight if there is infidelity, some fight if husband wears a yellow shirt. Some fight every day the first couple years, some fight every day after the 20th year of marriage. Some fight once a year... BIG ones

She feels a sense of rejection, so she was hurt when she provoked him in the kitchen on Sunday before golf. He is not expressive, she is very expressive. He has fears and so does she. Give her a chance.

She is able to be kind, caring AND EMPATHETIC. She WILL BE about his Ma. I am deliberately steering away from crafting her like a soap bahu. Soap bahus are Ms Know it Alls. they know what their husband feels like when he is in Japan for a year.
They fix problems every before the problems occur

I could have easily written lines where II was normal and understanding on Sunday and sent them off to golf with a cheerful smile and hummed a tune as she made the "idalee ka ghol".

Just like he used Ved to do the transaction anonymously and impulsively. She chooses to sulk when she feels hurt. I would urge readers not to believe she is retarded, unable to make good decisions, and moronic like a female lead of a successful soap from a few years ago
SHE IS NOT

If THATS how she appears then I have done a terrible job of crafting her😭

Originally posted by: nividances

This post seems so random and completely out of place amidst the ongoing discussion. But I seriously need help here!

Punjabi kadhi mein tamatar dalte hain ya nahi? 😕

I have always seen my mom make it without tomatoes, but I ran a quick Google search to get actual measurements for the ingredients and a few recipes called for tomatoes, which left me extremely confused. And now two flatmates are also saying that I should put tomatoes, but I have personally always eaten kadhi sans tomatoes.

Koi mere duvidha solve kar do please...tamatar daaloon ya nahi? 😕

Originally posted by: nividances

This post seems so random and completely out of place amidst the ongoing discussion. But I seriously need help here!

Punjabi kadhi mein tamatar dalte hain ya nahi? 😕

I have always seen my mom make it without tomatoes, but I ran a quick Google search to get actual measurements for the ingredients and a few recipes called for tomatoes, which left me extremely confused. And now two flatmates are also saying that I should put tomatoes, but I have personally always eaten kadhi sans tomatoes.

Koi mere duvidha solve kar do please...tamatar daaloon ya nahi? 😕

my bff riend a punjabi makes the best kadhi and no she doesnt put tamatar in her kadhi
http://www.vegrecipesofindia.com/punjabi-kadhi-recipe-punjabi-kadhi-pakora/

Originally posted by: harshita27

Tumko hate kyu karungi? Wo bhi ek fiction ke liye?!? Am not II... No big eyes no R&B n no Sosy life ki tumse maar karu n miss this amazing story.. I know mujhe tumhari female lead ki kuch harkatein gadbad lag rahi hain... But mujhe R&B ki bhi kuch harkatein gadbad lagi thi! Am back to supporting him now... Toh I think I'll patch up with II as well...AGM coming... Dekhte hain Ranjan lives it or not!!😆

To your point, I think I made a jumbo comment about some 10-15 updates... N I gave a summary of my final emotions n didnt bring each point so clearly in my first comment this afternoon, so maybe you think that I am having a problem with II just coz she refuses R&B's money... Instead my issue is with her not thinking Bhalla n Batra their very own... Usko ladayi karni hai, toh DII jana hai...haq se daantnahai toh bas shravu ko daantna hai... R&B ko pipe karna hai ki kar lo jo karoge I wont execise my rights on your kin! N then below the belt barbs ki ab middle class iyer pasand nahi... Matlab kya chahti hai ye bandi?!?

THESE are FANTASTIC points
I fully agree, she scolded Shravu harshly basically to provoke R&B that Sunday, she actually loves Sam and her kids too much. That day she wanted to distance herself from him so she did that, many people do that when they are angry. Shaadi ke shuru mein its natural not to feel a sense of belonging

I mean one month into teh marriage she she cant been shown threatening Nandu "I will chop ur head off" nahi? That would be a lil too artificial, haq comes with time. She is adamant about not being seen as greedy and materialistic. Just when she was beginning to relax her shoulders Sam's in laws have arrived


When a person is angry they tend to say things they regret when the anger subsides. II and R&B are no different, when he was pissed he said to her "Oh! bring that couch let me lay on it and confess u can be my shrink"

He asked her "HOW she paid the Mexican food guy and Pizza guy"

Originally posted by: nividances

This post seems so random and completely out of place amidst the ongoing discussion. But I seriously need help here!

Punjabi kadhi mein tamatar dalte hain ya nahi? 😕

I have always seen my mom make it without tomatoes, but I ran a quick Google search to get actual measurements for the ingredients and a few recipes called for tomatoes, which left me extremely confused. And now two flatmates are also saying that I should put tomatoes, but I have personally always eaten kadhi sans tomatoes.

Koi mere duvidha solve kar do please...tamatar daaloon ya nahi? 😕

HEY SUNDAR HAATHON WAALI DULHAN

NAHIII KARHI MEIN BILKUL nahi

Nivi sourness comes from dahi, tamatarva ki kauno zaroorat na hai

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Nivi sourness comes from dahi, tamatarva ki kauno zaroorat na hai