YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #67 - Page 56

Originally posted by: krishy13

Anku - I agree with you about how beautiful it is to see Raman come full circle. But it brings me to my next point - he's come full circle but since he has acknowledged his love for her - how has he grown?

He definitely has grown Krishy, by leaps. But his impulse and ego are a part of him and THIS is not a justification but they are what make his character. At the end of the day he's the same RKB but some traits don't change forever.

I saw Kri posted that it's good to see Raman make mistakes, and I agree in the sense Raman's mistakes make him him. Plus someone needs to take the brunt to progress the track. But all we appear to see is Raman making major mistakes over the last 6 months and it's tiring bc with the closure of the tracks it always comes off that Ishita continues to bear most of the burden. Raman is indearing because he is real, he does lose his temper, & he attempts to own up to it. However so much of the plot relies solely on the fascet of Raman.

ABOUT THAT. Nothing can really be done now. Somehow I've come to accept that if I watch this show I'll have to accept an always making mistakes male lead and a completely right female lead. It takes away a lot from the show we came to love. But its something not in our control. I think not even in the hands of the writers. This comes from the channel. At least if nothing, I hope that if they make him commit mistakes, they will conclude it well too because it is the conclusion where they really ruin it all.

Overall no one is fully right or wrong with the current situation. I, like you, want there to be a catch to Ishita being "kicked out."

Somewhere I even now think that the kicking out is a plan. They could be involved in it or something else. Because their attitude in the competition wasn't like they had a very serious separation. Everyone else looked really happy too 😕

Yes we say it's special to Ishita & Raman that no matter the fight it ends in nok-jok, but objectively looking - this relationship unbalanced. They love each other no doubt, but love shouldn't be a justification for constant forgiveness of Raman's anger or major mistakes.

Totally. Love does not justify being mean and angry at the drop of the hat. But as far as their relation is concerned. I've always believed they're a different couple. Their relation's base was difference of opinions. They are strong individuals first and a couple later. Their individuality brings a lot of ego too. Which is obviously more in the male lead because he is a male 😆 And that brings about their issues and then their bond that's grown stronger because they accept and love each other the way they are makes them overcome those issues and differences. I know there's not a balance. And if the female lead made mistakes too it wouldn't seem like its unbalanced. But like I said earlier. It's not something we can do much about. It's going to be that way and will have to be ignored.

Thus far this track has been beautiful, and it looks like they will continue this method of story telling. I don't mean to be a Debby Downer or anything...it's just a general feeling I've had.

Hopefully I didn't offend everyone or say anything meh or illogical. 😃

Also I don't mean to side with any one character. I find all the characters right and wrong both.. at some point they are right and at other wrong. I speak from all the pov's
Also Paramji is actually back!! 🥳

Originally posted by: krishy13

That's my concern - anger is fine. Yelling is tolerable.

It's the dialogs spewed that are hard to watch. I mentioned it before but it's like Ishita's off hand remark about Raman wearing bangles during the child swap or Raman saying "Ishima bane ka..."

In anger we vent our frustration, but the dialogs I've heard in the past are very low blows that rip into the very core of the character. That's not anger...that's cruel.


Even before Raman would get angry & yell but did we hear such low blows so often? That's where my confusion about what they hope to accomplish stems from. Now that they are in love, why such cruel fights?

Both Ishita & Raman have now done this but Raman does it more often.

Just the way these fights take shape discredit Raman's POV to some degree because he may not be 100% right but in his POV he is justified at being frustrated just like Ishita.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Exactly, its just the way he goes about it, its wrong. His ego interferes with the reasoning and he can't see that he agreed with the marriage by not arguing then. He is worried from DAY 1 that Mihir might not be able to love Rinki like he loved Mihika and might never be over the latter. It was evident .. and he wanted to trust Ishita's instincts but if anything back fired he was always going to remove his frustration ( I get him there) she didn't ask anyone before making a decision and MAYBE JUST MAYBE the Bhalla's supported her because they didn't want to create a further issue when things were resolving. And somewhere she was kinda wrong. And Raman is right in saying that she can't always be justified. But then that's it. The argument should end there. It shouldn't cross limits in the use of language and tone to an extent that even if he's right.. he'll end up looking like the wrong one here.

Ishita does it too, but her tone is not always so bad, and she's done it lesser compared to him. So it goes unnoticed😆

Originally posted by: krishy13

I'm happy I'm not the only one who feels this way, but I sort of figured we'd be on the same page! 😆

I'm not looking at it right now from characters' POV...but overall the effect of these fights is always the same - Raman has problems and Ishita bears the brunt of it. It's not about right and wrong because both characters, like you've stated, are right in their own stance.

But because of how these fights/mistakes are portrayed...we see such a strong divide.

Like you mentioned earlier - things aren't going to change, and I've come to terms with it. I just wonder about the type of marriage that is being conveyed. Love shouldn't cripple and I'm happy if Ishita leaves bc maybe it will finally put an end to these low blows.

Let the fights & anger continue bc they are real...but limit the low blows to the villians. 😃

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Am I the only one who's a little less enthusiastic about watching the episode today?

Originally posted by: -Ishita-

Count me in

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Story is getting repetitive