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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

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Posted: 10 years ago

#251

Hey folks,had to get away for a couple of hours to address real life demands. It's a fun place to be and the updates and comments are a joy to read. I try to participate more and put words to my ramblings on reading them. There are a couple of instances may be, when as a reader you feel , it does not connect with the flow of the story .That's it about it.
I am not pitted against madam writer or her story and I do not wish to take myself seriously here in this virtual forum . It's a story she enjoys writing and it's a story which I love, love reading and more often than not, I read the chapter updates and end up leaving my ramkatha reviews.

TO MANY MORE HAPPY HOURS.

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#252

Originally posted by: taara113

So this was the one that kicked it all off...i try not associating patterns to human behavior but sometimes somethings naturally strike odd to u and some don't...
I found II not telling a behavior that should be questionable wen it comes to Bhallas but can she do it... Ya happens, she is not that attached, she has not been given such family responsibilities... So can she forget, ppl forget but Ranjan shld be angry that she forgot...
The 3 days sex...i think now is nt the time fr me to speak on that.. But its perfectly ohk for u too say wat u felt, wld hv been better if ud said it back den...

I signed on to IF long after their marraige and caught up on all the updates back to back. I was not around to comment on it then. I read today's update and for all the innocence and recklessness, she is sensitive too. So may be , I felt she should have casually checked with her FIL on chachu. Mafia threats are not a random casual occurrence for a girl like her to have not mentioned that.My expectation was based on that sensitivity that I have to come to understand and identify with her character. So it came to my mind that there are a couple of instances which when I reflected , couldn't put a finger on and put a word to those ramblings. There's nothing more to it than what I hv just said.It was not meant to rake up the past or whether how many agreed or disagreed, unfortunately .

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arshi21

@arshi21

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#253

I like how the story is progressing ...maybe ishra will soon have a baby? :")

Raman and ishita are slowly learning each other and their ways and nature...maybe they will soon be strong enough for a baby? awww...I an only gush thinking about that..

As far as samar and chacha is concerned ...I hope this track will lead to their unveiling of truth in font of ranjan..he just k ow what gems he has as Sam Raman and ishita and tanmay

.. :)

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taara113

@taara113

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#254

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

I signed on to IF long after their marraige and caught up on all the updates back to back. I was not around to comment on it then. I read today's update and for all the innocence and recklessness, she is sensitive too. So may be , I felt she should have casually checked with her FIL on chachu. Mafia threats are not a random casual occurrence for a girl like her to have not mentioned that.My expectation was based on that sensitivity that I have to come to understand and identify with her character. So it came to my mind that there are a couple of instances which when I reflected , couldn't put a finger on and put a word to those ramblings. There's nothing more to it than what I hv just said.It was not meant to rake up the past or whether how many agreed or disagreed, unfortunately .

Ooh acha...den dat fits...

As far as II goes maybe Chachu didn't make it dat clear and she was preoccupied and it didn't register...plus she hasn't experienced any family connect wid chachu so it just didn't matter to her, the sensitivity is towards ppl she loves, chachu's family just randomly exist in her world... It can be debated in eidr direction... Anyways she shld hv been more responsible but then who is always; sometimes everyone id a bit more reckless than is expected out of us...maybe one of those days

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#255

Originally posted by: taara113

Ooh acha...den dat fits...
As far as II goes maybe Chachu didn't make it dat clear and she was preoccupied and it didn't register...plus she hasn't experienced any family connect wid chachu so it just didn't matter to her, the sensitivity is towards ppl she loves, chachu's family just randomly exist in her world... It can be debated in eidr direction... Anyways she shld hv been more responsible but then who is always; sometimes everyone id a bit more reckless than is expected out of us...maybe one of those days

Soi nahi kya tum!! Its late, isn't it. Catch some sleep, bud.

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taramira

@taramira

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#256

all right so lots happening on this forum.. from discontent to confusion and to everything in between.

I know my writing a yet another post on this might exacerbate the issue but this is what I feel

One cant deny the fact that SOSY is something which connects us all in more ways than one.. for some its the characters and for others its the places, clothes, food, mannerism, instances etc

BUT One thing we always need to keep in mind is that NISHA is the Driver of this story. How the characters think, what they do and how the story will progress is IN HER HEAD not in ours.

in my opinion we can talk and discuss, rant and rave but we cant QUESTION the motives of the characters for the simple reason that they are not sketched by us.

Therefore when we begin to over analyze (and all of us have at some point) we are trying to sketch the characters according to what we feel without realizing that it is not our PLACE to do so.

many a times we have suggested some things to Nisha and she has graciously accepted and many times she hasnt, perhaps because it didnt fit within her character sketches.

Some have been disappointed but we have to understand that we aren't the ones writing this story SHE IS. So lets do what we are best at doing READING and giving POSITIVE CRITICISM.

and Nisha, understandably you might be upset with some of the comments but such strong reactions can only come when something is so dear to our lives. if we are indifferent we wouldnt bother.

so Please continue to light up our lives day, night , mid-mornings and late evenings too.. 😉

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Hsp.canada

@Hsp.canada

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Posted: 10 years ago

#257

Totally off topic, I took my 4 year old for a hircut, some radom sports haircut place (new for me). I was very dedicated to SoSy on the phone moreover he loves getting haircut, so I wasnt paying attention, I look up after 15 minutes or so he was getting his hair washed...I was taken aback...and he was relaxing and talking non-stop to the hair dresser. Next thing she asked him do u need a message? and this kid said yes! By then I was just fascinated

And he getting his shoulders and neck area message...like a grown up..

Should I be happy or concerned??? Cant make up my mind 😕

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Hsp.canada

@Hsp.canada

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#258

Originally posted by: taramira
all right so lots happening on this forum.. from discontent to confusion and to everything in between.
I know my writing a yet another post on this might exacerbate the issue but this is what I feel

One cant deny the fact that SOSY is something which connects us all in more ways than one.. for some its the characters and for others its the places, clothes, food, mannerism, instances etc

BUT One thing we always need to keep in mind is that NISHA is the Driver of this story. How the characters think, what they do and how the story will progress is IN HER HEAD not in ours.

in my opinion we can talk and discuss, rant and rave but we cant QUESTION the motives of the characters for the simple reason that they are not sketched by us.

Therefore when we begin to over analyze (and all of us have at some point) we are trying to sketch the characters according to what we feel without realizing that it is not our PLACE to do so.

many a times we have suggested some things to Nisha and she has graciously accepted and many times she hasnt, perhaps because it didnt fit within her character sketches.

Some have been disappointed but we have to understand that we aren't the ones writing this story SHE IS. So lets do what we are best at doing READING and giving POSITIVE CRITICISM.
and Nisha, understandably you might be upset with some of the comments but such strong reactions can only come when something is so dear to our lives. if we are indifferent we wouldnt bother.
so Please continue to light up our lives day, night , mid-mornings and late evenings too.. 😉

I totally concur!

Long live the SoSy Saga

Edited by Hsp.canada - 10 years ago

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harshita

@harshita27

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#259

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada
Totally off topic, I took my 4 year old for a hircut, some radom sports haircut place (new for me). I was very dedicated to SoSy on the phone moreover he loves getting haircut, so I wasnt paying attention, I look up after 15 minutes or so he was getting his hair washed...I was taken aback...and he was relaxing and talking non-stop to the hair dresser. Next thing she asked him do u need a message? and this kid said yes! By then I was just fascinated
And he getting his shoulders and neck area message...like a grown up..

Should I be happy or concerned??? Cant make up my mind 😕

😆 rofl!!

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#260

Errant,
Just as its people's choice to love K JO movies and Kekta shows unconditionally, shouldn't I have the choice of being hurt?

I write ONLY for pleasure. Tear up R&B, II, Ranjan, Mr Iyer, Mr Iyer, Minion, Chachu to shreds
Saying nasty things about ME HURTS ME. Maybe I should suck it up, but its "my choice" to be hurt.
Just as its people's choice to insult me, its my choice to be hurt. Pretty straight forward.

If I were to draw analogies I would say if you invited someone to your house fed them FOUR MEALS day after day after day for 5 months, cooking TWO HOURS EACH DAY NO reason except you love them, they insulted you with harsh words? Maybe you are a seasoned mature, Zen like Buddhist person that will use it to become a "better human being", thank them, send them off on a paid world tour holiday saying "their hurtful words made you a better person" etc .

Unfortunately I am extremely flawed and immature... I react the only way I know... GET HURT.
Its TOTALLY stunning to me that in fact makes me quite speechless when I think about it, that this Forum MANDATES Ishita Bhalla or Kekta Kapoor
should not be insulted but its OK to insult a Member. Wonder how lawyers defend an imaginary character like Ishita Bhalla.

I WRITE FOR PLEASURE ALONE, after a long day at the job, commute, taking care of family, kids and cooking.
I am not an author of any repute. I spend two hours a day MAINLY to hang out and suck up happy vibes and the rest to tell a story.
Me, the characters, or the story NONE of it is perfect, in fact it's as defective and flawed as can be.
I appreciate questions on "why I think II did a certain thing" OR "why R&B reacted a certain way"
I will passionately provide an argument for why I think so.
I love the 100s that ONLY say nice things. THAT'S ALL I want... Insult the characters with full gusto
Please don't insult me or my writing. If you have nothing nice to say, you can quit reading
I believe not only KJo and Kekta or Ishita Bhalla
BUT EVEN non celebrities aka mango people like me are entitled to not be insulted...
I FULLY understand its impractical to only receive bouquets, but I DON'T want brickbats. I get ENOUGH from life outside IF. More than enough... So I humbly request people that feel like insulting me to walk away and NOT read the story. I am too old to change myself. My family and friends love me the way I am... FULLY. It would be impossible to change, its impossible for me to handcraft a consummation to your liking.

To ALL others: I was deeply hurt, I wont pretend to be a celebrity and take in my stride etc.
But wont quit writing
Trash the characters as much as you like.
Spare me if you can... please
If you cant... let me know... I can wrap it all up in one chapter
My apologies...

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