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Posted: 10 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: geno0309



Now you see why Krish & I were doing the 'we don't know what our poor eyes will be witness to next' dance 😕


Damn!!🥱 And EK parallel leads have this uncanny knack of getting married with the lead at least once. If it was a year back- i would have said- Nah- YHM is different- But ever since it has become a TRP driven one (Where the writers are not even bothered about maintaining their USP)- I digress.

Just imagine all of that coupled with the fact that Raman has started playing "Ghar-Ghar" with his bitchy Ex- I sincerely fear where they are taking it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62
Gan Di... awesome colleges! Great edit effects!
Just saw the episode, thought to update my rant bfr I hit my bed!

Well, IshRa communication is the only thing lacking in their relationship. Their conversation has alwys been done through fights n today was one such argument. I liked it actually. Raman doesn't hv sense kya? He actually sat with Apshagun to watch that so called movie over a cup of coffee? Like really? Ishita again, if she heard his part as towhy hewent thr..but nahii thy strtd again.

Chalo issi bahana kamse kam yeh log baat toh ki. Lol

Ishita Ruhi moment was warm! Loved it.

Hum log sabse chek chek ke bol rhe the, ruhi cannot b taken away by shagun bcz ishita has the custody n she needs to sign it. Blahhh! Ab Anju ji has to enter to find the loopholes!?

Kuch bhi? I swear cvs r drunk at times! Showing bakwaas n thy r expecting us to watch nonsense! Haadd haii bae!

I felt disgusted with Toshiji act. Like really? Eww! Rinky is a mature lady and so is Mihir a mature man. Thy know how to handle their relationship. Its not evn 1 month of marriage n mother asking her to produce babies???

MataSree, apke ghar mei apke Bete aur Bahu ko bolo...ek saal se upar hogaya! wahi atkee hau unki gaadi! Lol ;-)
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Posted: 10 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: shadeslayer



Damn!!🥱And EK parallel leads have this uncanny knack of getting married with the lead at least once. If it was a year back- i would have said- Nah- YHM is different- But ever since it has become a TRP driven one (Where the writers are not even bothered about maintaining their USP)- I digress.

Just imagine all of that coupled with the fact that Raman has started playing "Ghar-Ghar" with his bitchy Ex- I sincerely fear where they are taking it.



Yikes! Really?? Gayee bhains paani mein
But I doubt they will go the whole nine yards of second marriage here(or they just might)- but after Mani track I even dread to think how this track might proceed-not to mention KP's other commitments might come in the way of RKB's screen presence
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Posted: 10 years ago
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U are right. Communication has been an issue between ishra. I feel it's more from raman's side. He has the habit of building up emotions, feelings, thoughts, words etc inside him instead of letting them out, talking about them. He has been like this. There are many examples--
Ruhi's paternity case- instead of talking it out, finding truth he sulked about not being her biological father. Whereas ishita straight away went fr the dna test.
ADi accident track-- instead of talking about it to ishita taking her into confidence, taking her support he jumped onto being adi saviour which actually made him look like shagun saviour.
Mani track--jealousy surrounded him from head to toe yet he didnt once tried to confront ishita about it. that forcing urself on ur wife is not confrontation.

his habit of hiding facts in adi's custody case made him loose ruhi.
Even today the wrAth he faced was because of his own lack of communication, half truths , half lies.

Here I want to mention m a divan, ishra fan n I admit I hv a soft corner fr KP n Raman still facts are facts.

Making ur injured wife wait, not informing her, watching dvd even when he is forced into watching it -- all these things wont make a wife happy. So I think this conversation was much needed.
Ishita was right to an extent. N she was completely right when she blamed raman for ruhi's separation. Moreover raman couldn't stop ruhi from doing the modelling thingy. He can't utter a word infront of shagun. On the other hand lashes out at his wife. This is not done!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ohhh yeahhh Gan Di... the last pic... Raman n he rubbing his forehead is the same thing I did after watching the episode! Lolll ;-)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shadeslayer



Damn!!🥱And EK parallel leads have this uncanny knack of getting married with the lead at least once. If it was a year back- i would have said- Nah- YHM is different- But ever since it has become a TRP driven one (Where the writers are not even bothered about maintaining their USP)- I digress.

Just imagine all of that coupled with the fact that Raman has started playing "Ghar-Ghar" with his bitchy Ex- I sincerely fear where they are taking it.



I'm not that worried about seeing them permanently split bc it won't happen (yet)...they still haven't had the C&C yet either and there's not any indication for a split. Plus they already split Mihir-Mihika, so I don't think they would risk it yet. 😆

Idk nothing can be speculated about the show anymore, and only the CVs know how they will weave Subbu into the story. With the Mani track many things came off forced, so that's more where my worry lies. When they bring in a 3rd angle into Ishita-Raman's life (Mani, Shagun)...they go overboard and over the last 6 months, don't give us a real sense of closure. Now that's more of a cause for annoyance.

From Feb 2014-Nov 2014 the theme was trust. From Nov 2014 - present the theme is communication. Now if this track marks the start of a new theme or continuation of the old one...time will tell!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: geno0309


Su:)) and here I am whiling away my time coz I don't feel like writing animal protocol!!!!while you work hard. Good going:)

I am very doubtful we'll see our old puttar back(Anu this is the time to jump in with your positivity & optimism:)
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We see the glimpses, he is there, he is...Don't you see him too? He will be back, he just needs the ultimate push... and nothing pushes RKB over the edge like the potential of loosing his Biwi.

Consider: If he acted that rashly during the Mani track, when he just realized his love- now that he knows she reciprocates the same feelings an d has had a taste of what life could be like... do you really think he's gonna sit back in the corner and cry when her ex walks in the door. Especially considering his feelings for Devayani and all the pain she and her son put Ishu through? No way.


He will be back and it will be glorious!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: shadeslayer

Ok guys- so Subbu (I am assuming) is suddenly being called the parallel lead???? I had assumed he would be a cameo. This is going for Bad to worse.😕






Where did this news come from?😕

PS: Sorry for GIF spamming, just think if it as me making up for not being able to GIF yesterday... if it's bothersome, please let me know.😳


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Posted: 10 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: mischief

You have captured the most perfect moments of today's episode!!👏👏 especially the Audience reaction collage of raman 😆

It was a hit and miss episode today
Let me start with the hits first
1. Ishita using all her sources for compiling Ruhi's lessons which she had missed n ensuring that she is well prepared for her forthcoming exams. Truly something which a real parent does for their child's future when they miss school.

2. The scene where Ishita sees that Ruhi is in a statue mode n taking advantage of that fact grabs the opportunity to hold her daughter close something she has missed doing from the time she had abandoned her in court. ISHRU moments are always heart touching and at the same time heart warming too.

3. Ruhi calling out to her Ishima and running behind her. This girl knows who loves n cares for her the most n she jus couldn't stop herself frm acknowledging her love for the same woman whom she detested the most in the last couple of weeks.

4. Ruhi and Ishita's phone scene. The Bond is still intact!!!

5. Today's episode did give an answer to all those people who say that Ishita doesn't love Raman as she doesn't feel jealous when Raman spends time with his Ex. The fight scene was an answer to Ishita's feeling towards Sharam!! But then I again wonder whether people will be able to understand the unsaid words over here and the shield which was used by Ishita to cover her insecurities about her relationship with Raman under shadow of 'Ruhi'. 😕
6. Ishita does bottle up things within her and I believe her insecurities are way more deeper than Raman and that's the reason y she is not able to share it wit Raman. After watching 2days episode I guess I know now to some extent y she is not opening up wit Raman.😊

Misses:
1. I'm surprise to see the comfort level which Raman shares wit Shagun even when his kids r not around. As it is always said that he does that for his kids sake! My question here to Raman ...how would u feel if u would hv found Ishita with Subbu in a similar situation #darkroom#sitting close to ur ex#watching a romantic movie#?

2. The tone wit which he talks to Shagun & to Ishita when he is angry?! I find wit the later it is more harsh n ruthless. I do understand that he has a right over Ishita and that she is his own and therefore he can remove his frustration on her. But this time I would have loved if Raman would hv stayed calmed and let Ishu open up herself as he knew that she was upset and was not sharing what she felt about the incident at Mihir's place with him. But here being a puttar fan also think that may be may be reacted this way so that Ishita removes her frustration on him and says all those things which she has bottled up within her 😳 Well being part of hubby-wife argument many a times😳, I can tell you when couple's fight it's raw feelings that come out open...it's never one sided ..both sides participate ...in all fairness Ishita was not talking, it was really Raman who got her to talk...if he didnt care, he wouldn't have nudged. And then both of them are dealing with a lot..so it came out...I feel this is a much balanced communication than the situations where one speaks, the other looks hurt/guilty. So no complaints about the fight. Also I feel Raman is more open to Ishita because he has a feeling of 'haq' on her...with Shagun he's tried to maintain a 'amicable' front I guess to ensure he's able to go to ruhi when he can. Having said that 'movie and coffee with ex' was a bad decision even if the video was Ruhi's modeling shoot's.

3. Shagun Shagun Shagun...For how long r the CVs trying to pull tracks after tracks keeping Shagun in mind. After Ruhi's custody case what else will be left to show relating to Shagun now.🤢 May be she is one to implant a doubt in Raman relating to Ishita and Subbu as the later is gonna make an entry soon in the show 🤢



lovely points raised about hits and misses. made a comment in one in blue 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RomComFan



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We see the glimpses, he is there, he is...Don't you see him too? He will be back, he just needs the ultimate push... and nothing pushes RKB over the edge like the potential of loosing his Biwi.

Consider: If he acted that rashly during the Mani track, when he just realized his love- now that he knows she reciprocates the same feelings an d has had a taste of what life could be like... do you really think he's gonna sit back in the corner and cry when her ex walks in the door. Especially considering his feelings for Devayani and all the pain she and her son put Ishu through? No way.


He will be back and it will be glorious!
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Aahhh whether puttar rises to the occasion or not, Anu darling you definitely do-huggs:)
Thanks for the pep talk! Fingers and toes crossed. Btw I had no idea Bala's mom's name is Devyani! I would fail miserably in that YHM quiz Shalini was mentioning yesterday-lol

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