Ishita cant live without Ruhi, but does Raman REALLY love Ruhi? - Page 4

Created

Last reply

Replies

94

Views

9.5k

Users

16

Likes

115

Frequent Posters

WhyAmIHereAgain thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#31
A, i understand ur depression about raman re... We all love Raman n ishita equally..atleast i do..😆
n I m sure raman does love both his children very much... as u pointed out, may be the desperation he has for Adi is more becoz he wasnt near him... n now that he finally has him...he loses out on sane thoughts...

I was watching old episodes during the ruhi dna track...i saw in a epi..toshi ji n mr bhalla had written the whole house in ruhi's name...n mrs bhalla is saying "ruhi is our jaan...n i want her secured...so this house is in her name..." there were no GKC rant, no mera vansh kese aage barega... no thinking abt romi n his progeny... it was sheer love for ruhi... n i believe it is just the same now also... it is that they thought adi is lost to them... but now that he isnt they got overt emotional n went overboard.. applies to both raman n mrs bhalla...

having said that... i m absolutely not liking it how cvs are trying to project raman's insensitivity towards ruhi n her sadness...i hope it gets addressed in future epis..n i m actually very tired to rant abt the same...

i noticed someone saying that you have become biased...i hope u will not mind if i request the member (cant seem to rem the name...) to post her views regarding raman's behaviour... i sincerely we can have a discussion...coz discussion becomes more interesting when u have varied opinions... coz may be we arent been able to see a perspective...

ofcourse i m hoping we will not have Mahabharat but just a healthy discussion..


PS: A, if you dont want or like the last part of my comment, i will edit it...plz do let me know.. coz its ur thread...

PPS: during ur mani track reviews...i didnt know u much, n hence even thou i wanted to comment, i didnt use to in fear of ensuing a mahabharat,...😆🤣
arshi21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 10 years ago
#32

There are times like these when i cant help but compare raman's love for his children. Its damn sad that CVs actually let us feel that he doesnt love ruhi as much as he loves adi. And this is the biggest failure of any parent. Ita disheartening to watch raman question ruhi's bitter behaviour when he understood and supported aditya's extreme hatred for so long. Ruhi has a valid reason too like adi to behave like this...why is he not understanding His own daughter?

Why the partiality? Its not acceptable. I hate this. I dont like this raman. well, cvs are being damn dense.

so much drama also tires out the audience...off late there has been NO balance in the script. Its like those light hearted beautiful moments can never come back.


WHAT does raman need to realize ruhi's pain? Her hating him like adi did? Cause surely, inspite of getting a lesson what happens when he hides stuff from ishita ..he is again hiding about ruhi's ad campaign thing. I dont know what will happen In future but I cannot relate to this YHM.
WhyAmIHereAgain thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Abhinaiscool

Hey guys this is goose cool here just changed my username finally...

Thankyou guys


balle balle (toshji ji istyle...) yeh to bery good news hain ji Abhina !!!!
gravshrav23 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Guguminti

was it Ishita who asked Mihir to bring Shagun in his house to ensure Ruhi's safety?? Didn't he speak softly to shagun so that she doesn't send ruhii to modelling. Adi and Ruhi r different cases. Adi never had someone who would he lean onto while ruhi has ishu so he is ensuring her safety. As I said before top CVS r making Raman a sidekick so they r happy its all about ishru seems like Raman even isnt a part >_<



I NEVER denied it was Raman who made that move...and I mentioned how glad I was about it, as wel...but his responsibility doesnt end there...I meant...I dont see the DESPERATION or uncertainty in his behaviour, as to Ruhi's affection...its like...he's only concerned about not letting ADI DOWN...He didnt speak to Shagun softly...he DICTATED to her to NOT send RUhi for that modelling assignment, knowing FULLY WELL Shagun is a vamp who'll resort to ANY means if she finds she doesnt have enuff money to fund her luxurious lifestyle...Shagun ke car ki EMI band kar di...aur ab order kar raha hai ki ruhi ko mat bhejo...Pre-emptive action can be really dangerous...Shagun ko to pata bhi nai tha...and I dont think Ashok would've immediately called Shagun to discuss it with her since he seems caught up witH Mihika...Why TO FEED such ideas in her empty head???

And why didnt he discuss the same with Ishita?? Only coz he's working for Ashok?? IS THAT 'SECRET' A BIGGER PRIORITY THAN HIS DAUGHTER'S WELL-BEING?? I clearly dont think so...He keeps making empty promises to Ishita...and doesnt share what is needed to be shared...aise mein, only MORE blunders can happen...

Im sorry to say but te way the CVs have sketched Adi...he seemed to hve taken a big car and a big sprawling bungalow and piles of money and all the riches of the world as a substitute for the 'attention' he wanted...which is why he easily fell bait to Shagun's tricks and even considered Ashok his dad...When a child is happy with superficial comforts and thinks he is entitled to everything, how do you say he had no one to lean into?? He never WANTED any leaning to do!!
The leaning only started much, much later...twards the end when Shagun got exposed...warna, initially he thought he had every right to his father's sole attention and love...irrespective of the fact that Raman now has a new entity in his family (ReaD: Ishita)...

Ruhi was no better off dear...All those years Raman was away from Adi...he was also mentally and emotionally distant with his daughter, who kept pining and craving for his love...which he just ignored...and Ruhi LEANED towards Ishita MAJORLY because Ishita filled those gaps Ruhi had in her love, as regards a true parental figure in her life, who loved her unconditionally...


Raman will become a non-entity, given the way they're sketching him...its totally THEIR prerogative...Even Im not liking it..but kya karen? Just coz its my fav character, I cannot like EVERYTHING about him...
WhyAmIHereAgain thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Guguminti

was it Ishita who asked Mihir to bring Shagun in his house to ensure Ruhi's safety?? Didn't he speak softly to shagun so that she doesn't send ruhii to modelling. Adi and Ruhi r different cases. Adi never had someone who would he lean onto while ruhi has ishu so he is ensuring her safety. As I said before top CVS r making Raman a sidekick so they r happy its all about ishru seems like Raman even isnt a part >_<


thtat the major complain we all have with cvs... thou i will not say it is abt ishru... it is about giving crap dialogues to raman... ofccourse it was raman who asked mihir to bring shagun so tht ruhi stays near by her dear ones... but that is temporary yaar... tell me one thing... if one lil girl is 'abondoned' by her parents...is she unfair to feel the hurt... She isnt supposed to be angry? she is naa? then y such dialogues like "kessa gussa"... m not comaoring adi n ruhi at this juncture..coz tht just hurts me... but what raman (or rather cvs need to) need to do is find a solution which will be good for long run...

@bold...do u really believe that Shagun listens to raman's request..like ever?


gravshrav23 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: shalz_123


i wish i cud suggest a good doc to u... if u were in Kolkata, i wud have...coz i do know a doc who literally brought back my dad from death... my dad had the rarest of the rare pnemonia with 75% chest blockage...with apparently 1% revival chance...

however, one home remedy is do gurgle... it helps... dont just drink warm water...do gurgle..with warm water, sprinkling salt in it...

commenting in the next post...


So sweet of you Shal...to suggest that u could've suggested a doc...I really want my asthma and related probs to be cured...sick and tired...I hate gurgling...I almost ALWAYS end up drinking ALL OF IT😆
WhyAmIHereAgain thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: gravity23


So sweet of you Shal...to suggest that u could've suggested a doc...I really want my asthma and related probs to be cured...sick and tired...I hate gurgling...I almost ALWAYS end up drinking ALL OF IT😆


I understand ur problem, coz i hate gurgling too..but trust me it helps...even if u are drinking most of it...😆 my didi has perenial tonsil problem like 365 days...n only way she can survive is by gurgling...

m very selfish... tum thik rahogi, to roj review likhogi... roj review likhogi, to hum discuss kar paeyege...fir gupshup mar payege...hain na...😛😉
gravshrav23 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: shalz_123

A, i understand ur depression about raman re... We all love Raman n ishita equally..atleast i do..😆 Same here..but Im going thru heartbreak now...Yeh kya kar diya Raman ka yaar???!


n I m sure raman does love both his children very much... as u pointed out, may be the desperation he has for Adi is more becoz he wasnt near him... n now that he finally has him...he loses out on sane thoughts... Ek baar chalta hai, do baar chalta hai, baar-baar bhi...chalo...maaf ho jayega...par HAMESHA...Kya Ruhi zindagi bhar wait karti rahegi ki uske Papa use wohi pyaar denge jo uske Adi bhaiyya ko milta hai? Dnt u think its unfair???

I was watching old episodes during the ruhi dna track...i saw in a epi..toshi ji n mr bhalla had written the whole house in ruhi's name...n mrs bhalla is saying "ruhi is our jaan...n i want her secured...so this house is in her name..." there were no GKC rant, no mera vansh kese aage barega... no thinking abt romi n his progeny... it was sheer love for ruhi... n i believe it is just the same now also... it is that they thought adi is lost to them... but now that he isnt they got overt emotional n went overboard.. applies to both raman n mrs bhalla... See, I have been pissed with Toshi for lng now...because SHE started this GKC shit...and Raman bit into this and invested all his clingy thoughts about Adi and did everything possible to secure Adi...forgetting he's dealing with a vengeful, ruthless ex-wife...Yeh Adi ke liye HAMESHA Raman Ruhi ko ignore karta hai toh bahut bura lagta hai...bas...yehi hai hai

having said that... i m absolutely not liking it how cvs are trying to project raman's insensitivity towards ruhi n her sadness...i hope it gets addressed in future epis..n i m actually very tired to rant abt the same... Its not KP Im blaming re...its Raman's characterisation...WHY DO THE CVs THINK ITS OKAY FOR A DAD TO PREFER HIS SON OVER HIS DAUGHTER?? WHY DO THEY PROJECT IT DAY IN AND DAY OUT??

i noticed someone saying that you have become biased...i hope u will not mind if i request the member (cant seem to rem the name...) to post her views regarding raman's behaviour... i sincerely we can have a discussion...coz discussion becomes more interesting when u have varied opinions... coz may be we arent been able to see a perspective... Hey, I felt a bit bad that that particular member thought Im biased...given that I ADORE Raman...and used to GUSH about him in almost EVERY review...But tum hi socho naa Shal...kaise bana diya Raman ko in dinon?? Usmein adore karne ko ab kya chhoda hai?? Ruined our fav lead... That's why I wrote a lengthy reply to the same (you can read it) ... I hope to have a discussion as well, coz its not polarizing views...no Raman vs. Iishita...instead, its more of WHY THIS RAMAN BHALLA WE CANT RELATE TO ANYMORE??

ofcourse i m hoping we will not have Mahabharat but just a healthy discussion...Arrey dnt worry about Mahabharat...mere saath aisa nai hoga...😆 Daro mat...jo mann mein aata hai likh lo..we'll discuss :)


PS: A, if you dont want or like the last part of my comment, i will edit it...plz do let me know.. coz its ur thread... Kya Shal...itne dinon mein itna hi samjha? Main bilkul mind nai karungi...Everybody has a diff POV re...just that, we shudnt get down to namecalling, insulting, abusing, downplaying, et al like so many members do😛 We are GCC members...we can discuss till the ends of the earth without warring😆

PPS: during ur mani track reviews...i didnt know u much, n hence even thou i wanted to comment, i didnt use to in fear of ensuing a mahabharat,...😆🤣 Hai raam...Aisa kyun??? Im SHOCKED..Did I look COMBUSTIBLE or something??🤣



CCR, Shal!!
gravshrav23 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: shalz_123


thtat the major complain we all have with cvs... thou i will not say it is abt ishru... it is about giving crap dialogues to raman... ofccourse it was raman who asked mihir to bring shagun so tht ruhi stays near by her dear ones... but that is temporary yaar... tell me one thing... if one lil girl is 'abondoned' by her parents...is she unfair to feel the hurt... She isnt supposed to be angry? she is naa? then y such dialogues like "kessa gussa"... m not comaoring adi n ruhi at this juncture..coz tht just hurts me... but what raman (or rather cvs need to) need to do is find a solution which will be good for long run...

@bold...do u really believe that Shagun listens to raman's request..like ever?



Exactly...all the good Raman does in the background gets negated when Raman is given lines like, "Kya gussa Maa"...waht does that mean?? That he's invalidating Ruhi's feelings?? Shud a parent behave like tht???

He, like a fool called Shagun and told her not to send Ruhi...WHAT BRAINS!! WHY THIS BLUNDER...Does Shagun listen t ANYBODY??
gravshrav23 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: shalz_123


I understand ur problem, coz i hate gurgling too..but trust me it helps...even if u are drinking most of it...😆 my didi has perenial tonsil problem like 365 days...n only way she can survive is by gurgling...

m very selfish... tum thik rahogi, to roj review likhogi... roj review likhogi, to hum discuss kar paeyege...fir gupshup mar payege...hain na...😛😉



LOL...I am a bad gurgler, you could say 😆

Hehehe...Sometimes when ppl are selfish just for you, it feels nice...🤗

BTW Shal..when's ur bday??

Related Topics

Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: Manan_Pani_fan

2 months ago

Shubhangi on KP: Really Look Forward To Work With Him Again

Why did Karan Patel tell Kasturi costar Shubhangi Atre, 'Tu khoob gaaliyan dena mujhe?' In an exclusive chat with India Forums, Shubhangi Atre,...

Expand ▼
Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".