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Originally posted by: swathi1990

But I love the jealous R&B 😆

I want her to play a return prank in front of his friends...Not pour something on him...But something only he can understand ???

During this weekends visit to my public library I chanced upon this book Which is titled, "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain.
One of the reviews for the book goes like this
"Every Introvert should read this book, and every extravert who has a significant introvert in their lives should as well."

Did not pick it up for reading but came home and googled on the book and I am cursing myself now as to why did I not pick it up. Koi Na, I will pick it up today.
One of the transcripts (I am copy pasting here )talks about the "need to understand what introversion is and that it's different from being shy. Shyness is about fear of social judgment. Introversion is more about, how do you respond to stimulation, including social stimulation. So extroverts really crave large amounts of stimulation, whereas introverts feel at their most alive and their most switched-on and their most capable when they're in quieter, more low-key environments. Not all the time -- these things aren't absolute -- but a lot of the time. So the key then to maximizing our talents is for us all to put ourselves in the zone of stimulation that is right for us.Because when it comes to creativity and to leadership, we need introverts doing what they do best. "
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I read this transcript and madam writers last update, which detailed about how II and R&B went about their cooking, their styles so different, II , the extrovert all clutter and noise, R&B , the introvert more organized and couldn't help but compare this similarity of characterization of our lead couple , each maximizing their talent by putting themselves in the zone of stimulation that is right for the them.

Reading madam writers software symphonies , the fondness that these has developed in me is making me appreciate Susan cains book better. I am seeing and reading this transcript through the combined eyes of R&B and II

That's my thought for now. Already a long one but before I can't help myself but close this with a quote dedicated to the Cooker

"Laughter is the valve on the pressure cooker of life. Either you laugh and suffer, or you got your beans or brains on the ceiling."

R&B is laughing more and loud at that. True that 'Men and salmon, in this case' veal 'tare hard to understand .

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

During this weekends visit to my public library I chanced upon this book Which is titled, "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain.
One of the reviews for the book goes like this
"Every Introvert should read this book, and every extravert who has a significant introvert in their lives should as well."

Did not pick it up for reading but came home and googled on the book and I am cursing myself now as to why did I not pick it up. Koi Na, I will pick it up today.
One of the transcripts (I am copy pasting here )talks about the "need to understand what introversion is and that it's different from being shy. Shyness is about fear of social judgment. Introversion is more about, how do you respond to stimulation, including social stimulation. So extroverts really crave large amounts of stimulation, whereas introverts feel at their most alive and their most switched-on and their most capable when they're in quieter, more low-key environments. Not all the time -- these things aren't absolute -- but a lot of the time. So the key then to maximizing our talents is for us all to put ourselves in the zone of stimulation that is right for us.Because when it comes to creativity and to leadership, we need introverts doing what they do best. "
.
I read this transcript and madam writers last update, which detailed about how II and R&B went about their cooking, their styles so different, II , the extrovert all clutter and noise, R&B , the introvert more organized and couldn't help but compare this similarity of characterization of our lead couple , each maximizing their talent by putting themselves in the zone of stimulation that is right for the them.

Reading madam writers software symphonies , the fondness that these has developed in me is making me appreciate Susan cains book better. I am seeing and reading this transcript through the combined eyes of R&B and II

That's my thought for now. Already a long one but before I can't help myself but close this with a quote dedicated to the Cooker

"Laughter is the valve on the pressure cooker of life. Either you laugh and suffer, or you got your beans or brains on the ceiling."

R&B is laughing more and loud at that. True that 'Men and salmon, in this case' veal 'tare hard to understand .

Originally posted by: modernfamily

Then he can hug her and cuddle her and she can tell him what she was saying when was asleep. That he is hers

sudhi i didnt want subbu/M during the wedding but post that i think its ok cause i know these are going to be together for life. i have been saying this for a couple of updates too need M there :-)

@swathi may be it wont spoil her mood may be actually it will make her more confident sometimes u imagine more and when the person comes in front u are like gosh it wasnt so bad after all, she may be jealous but i think on seeing she will feel she is not that bad kind and also realize that if R&B wanted he could have married M but he wanted II so why should she worry 😳
i have had multiple cases of imagining things about folks when i was younger thinking they are so "hep" out of league etc only for that person to open their mouth and talk english for me to feel OMG what was i thinking 😆😆😆

My woes with IF continues. It wouldn't let me post this 12 hrs back. So sent a pm to madam writer , but as IF has decided to show a little mercy now, I am posting my pm in the forum pages here.

A prayer for prayer

Personally speaking I feel In the larger scheme of things, interests and difference in personalities aren't that big a deal unless one of them has a fetish the other person doesn't care for, Tongue in cheek ! No please.

For me much bigger questions are
is this person building me up or breaking me down in general?
do I feel happy when I'm around him/ her and can I expect this to continue?
If both were to answer these questions honestly, the answer would only be in the affirmative.
Marliese to R&B and subbu to II would be pale comparisons. The respective exes exist more in the mind for each other than physically.

R&B is emotionally reserved and II is emotionally giving. They can balance out each other's emotionalism or rather the lack of it . Also, they are both a big pain in the ass, funny, hotheaded, passionate, and ridiculous.My two delectable morons.
They are as different as chalk and cheese but they compliment each others' crazy. With every passing day, they are getting attuned to each other emotionally. He is intuitive enough to know that she ponders deep in silence and she is intuitive enough to know that he will not open up enough with her on certain issues, atleast not yet.
Madam writer, the unmistakable tug that is happening in the most unlikeliest of partnerships of any kind the world has seen isn't a cruel cosmic joke after all.

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

sudhi i didnt want subbu/M during the wedding but post that i think its ok cause i know these are going to be together for life. i have been saying this for a couple of updates too need M there :-)

@swathi may be it wont spoil her mood may be actually it will make her more confident sometimes u imagine more and when the person comes in front u are like gosh it wasnt so bad after all, she may be jealous but i think on seeing she will feel she is not that bad kind and also realize that if R&B wanted he could have married M but he wanted II so why should she worry 😳
i have had multiple cases of imagining things about folks when i was younger thinking they are so "hep" out of league etc only for that person to open their mouth and talk english for me to feel OMG what was i thinking 😆😆😆

whipping cream of all the stuff haha thats awesome

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

sudhi i didnt want subbu/M during the wedding but post that i think its ok cause i know these are going to be together for life. i have been saying this for a couple of updates too need M there :-)

@swathi may be it wont spoil her mood may be actually it will make her more confident sometimes u imagine more and when the person comes in front u are like gosh it wasnt so bad after all, she may be jealous but i think on seeing she will feel she is not that bad kind and also realize that if R&B wanted he could have married M but he wanted II so why should she worry 😳
i have had multiple cases of imagining things about folks when i was younger thinking they are so "hep" out of league etc only for that person to open their mouth and talk english for me to feel OMG what was i thinking 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: swathi1990

If you think that is how it will turnout great...I have no problem...I just dont want her to go in a shell...She already feels sooo out of place there...I just want her to come out of that...feel that she can be a part of that group...not fully...but managable types..

naah people like II dont go into a shell .. she will be perfectly fine with his friends arre she is a double masters/CPA infact they will be awestruck by her..
when u are educated u are not scared of anyone, looks, money ,clothes jewellery nothing seems to matter ..
Her only insecurities are with R&B she fights/cries everything with him cause he is him 😳
kya out of place now the Paris home is already resembling DII 😆 she is now a typical wife and he is a typical husband only she doesnt know it.. 😳
i think she may be jealous and R&B will enjoy that a lot ..

Just wanted to say thanks to Harshita, Ashu, Nisha and others who let me know about 'White Collar'...