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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 10 years ago

Today Ruhi said that she hates Shagun mumma.

Now hate is a very strong word and one needs to do something really bad to gain somebody's hatred and I don't remember any action of Shagun which would have come to the fore of the child to make her hate her mother. (She did raise her hand twice, but that will instill fear not hate)(She wasn't given much attention during her stay with Shagun, that will instill indifference not hate) Other than these two instances, I can only recall Shagun giving in to the whims of Ruhi.

So why has Ruhi garnered these feelings. She doesn't like Shagun, I was fine but when she said she hated her, I was made to question myself as why would Ruhi have such thoughts in her heart, specially when the CV's are portraying that Ishita always tells good things about Shagun and even when Ruhi insults Shagun, she tries to rectify it.

So have I missed anything.

Edited by abhilasha_dream - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

Maybe coz of the fact that Shagun tried to break her relation with her father Raman during save girl child campaign.

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: appuss
R u serious???😲😲😲

Yes !! I am

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abhilasha_dream

@abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: --Megha--
Maybe coz of the fact that Shagun tried to break her relation with her father Raman during save girl child campaign.

But after that, she was happy to spend a complete night with Shagun (Remember the haldi function of Shagun)

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DipaRB6

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Posted: 10 years ago

Couldn't it just be a reaction to what was happening right then? She was claiming or feeling hate so she could prevent herself being taken away from her family.

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Aparna.A

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Posted: 10 years ago

She hates Shagun...bcoz that women left her when she was six months...shagun is like a stranger to her not mother

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Angel13

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ruhi confessing her hurt to Ishu saying why didn't she in Ishu's stomach was the biggest insult to any of mother ever...so the hate word really doesn't matter when it comes to shagun now does it?? she is small but understands things going around her ublike Adi...so during abortion fiasco about her and raman signing those papers...she actually had understood what games were shagun playing...she may not acknowledge it out but her psychologically her mind surely has done it...I think from that start of point she started hating shagun...also during her stay at BHALLA house...how during the lori she yelled hiw bad shagun is that she left her when she was six month old...now Kaunsa child hoga who can't feel hurt and abducted? just like Adi has in his mind that Raman left him and his mom so he hates him same way ruhi in her mind shagun left her which is true and she has seen worst of shagun yelling, raising hand on her and all...

Edited by Angel13 - 10 years ago

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jaya1867

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Posted: 10 years ago

shagun wants to take ishita place so and ruhi loves ishita very much and also ruhi know how was shagun

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DipaRB6

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel13
Ruhi confessing her hurt to Ishu saying why didn't she in Ishu's stomach was the biggest insult to any of mother ever...so the hate word really doesn't matter when it comes to shagun now does it?? she is small but understands things going around her ublike Adi...so during abortion fiasco about her and raman signing those papers...she actually had understood what games were shagun playing...she may not acknowledge it out but her psychologically her mind surely has done it...I think from that start of point she started hating shagun...also during her stay at BHALLA house...how during the lori she yelled hiw bad shagun is that she left her when she was six month old...now Kaunsa child hoga who can't feel hurt and abducted? just like Adi has in his mind that Raman left him and his mom so he hates him same way ruhi in her mind shagun left her which is true and she has seen worst of shagun yelling, raising hand on her and all...

Good points. Children absorb a lot more than we think and I don't think just because Ruhi has previously agreed to spend time with Shagun doesn't mean she had those feelings about her. When her permanance with her family is under attack, of course those things would all come out. 7 years is young but not that young that you don't know who loves you and who means you harm.