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Originally posted by: swathi1990

Now waiting for Eiffel 😊

Originally posted by: harshita27

Abhi shower se toh nikalne do!! 😆

Looongg HOT shower in cold paris... Long n Hot being the operative words

Originally posted by: swathi1990

hehe... 😆 udo math...How much BESHARAM we are????...I dont think we are going to get detailed shower descriptions... 😆

We shud better get married I think 😉

Originally posted by: harshita27

And thats why I said not Vandu or Sam.. But a friend.. Maybe Naina... Since I think Naina isnt rich either n Mihir is doing decently for himself. So it'll be like comparing notes about handling the status disparity in the relationship ... Its not so much about questioning her relationship but to talk about whether she is doing it even close to right about handling relationship. Mihir as far as I can see doesnt judge. He has been R&B's sole "friend"...not forcing him or blackmailing him like his family. If she talks to mihir, she'll get a 3rd person's perspective as well as from someone who knows how the quiet one functions mostly. But I could be wrong. If I were her, n had decided on marrying him inspite of family's doubts, I'd still go to my bestie n talk it... Its about the fact that friend is not so biased as family as well as almost same age group as us to get advice.

Originally posted by: harshita27

I never said Iwanted shower ka update😆🤣

Tara
You stole my thoughts I was at the intersection next to my house and formulating a response for Swathi I happened to read yours

VERY WELL WRITTEN

Its not about who is a virgin and who is not, its about R&B is a COMPLETE antithesis of everything Iyer (whatever she did with Subbu IS AS WELL)
R&B was not only sexually active, he was sexually acrive for 12 years with over a dozen women

THATS extremely hard for a middle class Iyer to get over, at least however I see my female protagonist... She had/has no support from family while making this choice, the sense of self doubt is tremendous


His swearing undying love for her is also not going to take it away in one stroke. It will only diminish if she spends 5, 10, or 20 years with him as a married woman.

Just like her Subbu or Sree could have had a fling too I am not denying that either, but neither would have been a serial cohabitant like R&B. He hasn't gone to bed alone in 12 years😲
(the last 4 months notwithstanding)


In that R&B is extremely unique...

In II being a middle class Iyer who had ONE botched sexual encounter marrying him also is extremely unique

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Tara
You stole my thoughts I was at the intersection next to my house and formulating a response for Swathi I happened to read yours

VERY WELL WRITTEN

Its not about who is a virgin and who is not, its about R&B is a COMPLETE antithesis of everything Iyer (whatever she did with Subbu IS AS WELL)
R&B was not only sexually active, he was sexually acrive for 12 years with over a dozen women

THATS extremely hard for a middle class Iyer to get over, at least however I see my female protagonist... She had/has no support from family while making this choice, the sense of self doubt is tremendous


His swearing undying love for her is also not going to take it away in one stroke. It will only diminish if she spends 5, 10, or 20 years with him as a married woman.

Just like her Subbu or Sree could have had a fling too I am not denying that either, but neither would have been a serial cohabitant like R&B. He hasn't gone to bed alone in 12 years😲
(the last 4 months notwithstanding)


In that R&B is extremely unique...

In II being a middle class Iyer who had ONE botched sexual encounter marrying him also is extremely unique

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Tara
You stole my thoughts I was at the intersection next to my house and formulating a response for Swathi I happened to read yours

VERY WELL WRITTEN

Its not about who is a virgin and who is not, its about R&B is a COMPLETE antithesis of everything Iyer (whatever she did with Subbu IS AS WELL)
R&B was not only sexually active, he was sexually acrive for 12 years with over a dozen women

THATS extremely hard for a middle class Iyer to get over, at least however I see my female protagonist... She had/has no support from family while making this choice, the sense of self doubt is tremendous


His swearing undying love for her is also not going to take it away in one stroke. It will only diminish if she spends 5, 10, or 20 years with him as a married woman.

Just like her Subbu or Sree could have had a fling too I am not denying that either, but neither would have been a serial cohabitant like R&B. He hasn't gone to bed alone in 12 years😲
(the last 4 months notwithstanding)


In that R&B is extremely unique...

In II being a middle class Iyer who had ONE botched sexual encounter marrying him also is extremely unique

Nish,

Originally posted by: harshita27

If his past activity is the only thing that concerns her soo bad then whats with wont take your money, wont even take money from yur family's elders, you shouldn't buy anything for my family - not even the sweets n fruits that we'll take for them. How would shelike it if R&B had refused her family's gifts to him?? Even the gift ard that her Amma so lovingly gifted... What if R&B had refused that... Not like IIis seeing these gift giving in indian custom tiday... Its appears more like uncaring towards family's feelings more than the righteousness... We as readers know her thoughts but not the Bhalla family... So isnt it going to hurt them that whatever they give she refuses?