Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita
So, I would have bought the whole kidnapping track better if Ishita had been as possessive about Ruhi with regards to anyone getting close to Ruhi right from the beginning. Although Ishita is in a very vulnerable state, kidnapping Ruhi and separating her from the family with no regards to the kids well-being is just something I cannot agree with.
It is clear that although Ruhi's Ishimaa plays a very important role in her life, Ruhi cannot live without her family - her father, her grandparent, Romi, etc. For Ishita however, there is clearly nothing beyond Ruhi and to her, nothing else matters.If handled properly, this track can be good but if the CV's end up glorifying Ishita's act by saying that "a mother can go to any extend for her children" - that will kill it for me, because although I agree with the saying, it should always be in the well-being of the child, not the selfishness of the mother.I can go on and on about this but I will end with this one question - How different is Ishita kidnapping Ruhi and Shagun taking Adi away all those years ago? Both Shagun and Ishita reacted based on their selfish notions of not wanting their child to be away from them, but does it justify Ishita's act just because she is good and Shagun is bad? In both instances, it's the child that suffers the most.On another note, I am glad that the CV's are showing how the family, both the Iyer's and Bhalla's as well as Raman are affected by this kidnapping act . I can only hope that the CV's will have Ishita face her actions rather than justify them.
I agree that they shud not show this kidnapping as act of motherly love.
Sorry to say I will not compare Shagun n Ishita.
Ishita's act now looks extremely selfish but even if Ruhi stays alone with Ishita she will have a gud upbringing.
With Adi Shagun just used him as a mohra. She used him to prove Raman a bad father so that she wud get an easy divorce n her cheating will not be discussed in the court n society. Then she put Adi in Hostel so that she can enjoy her life with Ashok.
So while comparing both the situations I can say that all Shagun did was for herself there was no concern for the child, but with Ishita although a selfish act she will parent Ruhi in a much better way compared to Shagun. 😳