How are Ishita and Shagun different ?

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.Ranju.

@.Ranju.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: anjs

exactly...everyone here has just assumed that she has a plan n she has run away for two days n will be back on monday to present her case to the court...

Then how did you assume that she is taking Ruhi forever?

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: anjs

exactly...everyone here has just assumed that she has a plan n she has run away for two days n will be back on monday to present her case to the court...

Ohh so there was no such scene...how could ppl assume that she is just going for 2 days...if that was the case she could have sent Ruhi to Shagun for 2 days..problem kyaa thi.. 😆 .

Well frankly I have no issues If Ishita is shown being Selfish , Insecure ... the Character whom I support is the Biggest Insecured one , Selfish , one who does mistakes ...so yes I understand Ishita's this move ... bt like Ankita mentioned...I have problem with ppl defending this Act of Ishita as Motherly Act...because It is Certainly not .

Well this new angle of Insecured Ihshita Iyer is Fab...sadly her own Fans are not understanding it .

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Well said, let us have a totally selfless Ishita Iyer who gives a damn about Ruhi and hands her over to Shagun, right? Ishita is taking Ruhi away from Shagun for 2 days and not away from the Bhallas forever. If Ruhi was at home, Shagun would have taken her in the morning itself. Ishita is scared that Shagun will take Ruhi anywhere since Shagun is now in a hotel. Last two times during custody she had not panicked so much.

If she was selfish she would not have brought Shagun and Adi home. She is possessive about Ruhi and why not? It was Ruhi who gave her a life, made her a mom. If Ruhi was not there who was Raman?

@Blue: It was never shown that she is taking away Ruhi for 2 days.Not yet at least. Are we assuming much?!...okay, let's assume what are you saying is true, then it looks more bad. That means she lacks in general knowledge and her defenders too who are raising this point. Why? Because after 2 days, when she will show up to the court, the first thing the court will do is to accuse her for kidnapping and the custody of Ruhi would be out of Bhallas' reach even before the start of the case! So, it's a very weak argument to say she's hiding to buy some time!

@Red: Sorry to say, this is a ridiculous argument. Since she's staying in a hotel, she would run away with Ruhi...😆 Well, Shagun simply can't because the case is pending and she is under the scrutiny of the law. No one would dare to do anything so silly when the court matter is involved. And, a cunning lady like Shagun is more aware of it than anybody.

@Green: She was never selfish when it comes to Raman, so bringing Adi and Shagun wasn't very difficult task for her initially. Well, it's not possessiveness or selfishness towards Ruhi, rather it's her own selfishness plus insecurity that forced her to do the running-away thing and I have quite clearly explained it before. "If Ruhi was not there who was Raman?" This is another silly logic. If anyone says "If Raman is not there what's the existence of Ruhi?", what will you say? The main thing is that, it's not about loving Ruhi more than Raman, it's fine if she does that. But it's not okay to discard a relationship because of that. Ruhi can be her first priority but not the only priority.

PS-You always do poke but never reply back. I hope you will do it this time. Unless it becomes very off-putting after writing a detailed reply. 😳

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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: .Ranju.

Then how did you assume that she is taking Ruhi forever?

i have replied to ur this question in my earlier comment, but since u are asking again, here it goes...

for starters, she emptied her and Ruhi's closet...why wud she do that if she is going for only two days...

secondly her mental state isnt such that she will plan to leave for two days n then come back when court re-opens...she is insecure and she just wants ruhi with her...she doesnt care about anything else at the moment...hence she is running away permanently

thirdly, if she had planned to leave for the weekend she wudve left a note to Raman n the family to not take stress...she knows Toshi is already not well, with high b.p. issue...she being a doctor knows very well how extra stress can land toshi in hospital...wud she take the risk if she is just going for two days...no ways...

she isnt thinking right now...her act is of a desperate woman who wants Ruhi with her at any cost...how long, she isnt thinking...she isnt worrying bt Raman n Bhalla;s...not bt Toshi;s health...not bt her parents too...

and not even about Ruhi...and her emotions...she thinks that Ruhi cannot leave without her, which is true...but at the same time Ruhi wants her family too, which she is ignoring...

she just wants Ruhi with her...period...thats why i said that this act is showing that Ruhi is like an object for her...cause at the moment she isnt caring bt Ruhi's need for her family... you will disagree which is fine with me...but this is my POV...

and hence i think she is running away permanently...