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Posted: 10 years ago
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"Sometimes, the most meaningful things are found through silence. "~Unknown

"... listening to the silence together. If there's any. I truly believe not so. I have never heard a silence. Have you? The world is filled with unspoken words. And that's something different isn't it." ~Anna Jae

G I can never get enough of praising your collages. They truly make the scenes even more epic. I cant wait to see your upcoming collages.

My biggest pet peeve about this couple is there lack of communication. This couple should get the title communication less couple. When problems arise in a relationship,it is lack of communication between the couple. I really wish they would stop hiding problems from one another. I never understand why Raman's hides stuff related to Adi. Is because he doesn't trust Ishita or is because he thinks Ishita will never love Adi as much as Ruhi. Whatever the reason it, Ishita has proven enough times to the whole Bhalla clan, she is more of a mother to Adi then Shagun. She has always forgive his wrong doings and encourages him to good. She slowly is enlisting values in this kid. Because of Raman hiding Adi's custody, he is on the verge of loosing both his children. He should have known how Shagun is and let the courts handle Adi's case. It would have been a guarantee his win.

Coming to the Ishra scene. It was so sweet. There fight was like a husband-wife and today to find common ground, they both wrote notes to finally start talking to another. I know we are talking about selective amnesia and the CVs are experts in that but sometimes in a relationship you have to forgive one another to make a relationship work. Both of them have a great understanding of one another so I guess it was easily forgiven.

For the Ishra scene, I delicate this poem by Rumi.

"Go back,

go back to sleep.

Yes, you are allowed.

You who have no Love in your heart,

you can go back to sleep.

The power of Love

is exclusive to us,

you can go back to sleep.

I have been burnt

by the fire of Love.

You who have no such yearning in your heart,

go back to sleep.

The path of Love,

has seventy-two folds and countless facets.

Your love and religion

is all about deceit, control and hypocrisy,

go back to sleep.

I have torn to pieces my robe of speech,

and have let go of the desire to converse.

You who are not naked yet,

you can go back to sleep."

~Rumi,

Hush, Don't Say Anything to God: Passionate Poems of Rumi

Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just finished watching the epi.
Awww... the collage is so cute G & so was this scene 😳. Reminded me of the old YHM where even romance was done with difference. While making a cup of tea/coffee or while doing tooth surgery.

Of course old times are waylaid by a lot of "Nayi Soch" quirks, so there was of course no reason for a couple to talk things out.

Conclusion -- Bekaar mein forum was raising their BP past 3 days over Raman's harsh words. One trip, fall,catch and Ishita forgot everything 😛


Kostin of the Day:


Shagun is not suffering from terminal illness & not planning to die in a few months. Just how in the world is Raman going to manage a payout of 4 lacs per month for the rest of their lives?

Edited by paru_rox - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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IshRalicious Episode!!!!😳

Kabhi khatti, kabhi meethi...kabhi pyaar, kabhi takraar.. Yeh Hai Mohabbetein "Defines IshRa today"

Starting cute moments, then slowly started fighting, phir wapis Ishita rut gayi (last scene)

I liked that... but CVs are rushing soo fast as if they got to catch a train next after airing the episode! No proper ending...!!!

Gan Di, beautiful and tooo cuteee collegee!! Im drooling on it... 😳

I loved the way they communicated through notes...breaking the cold silence.. chalo.. atleast ek koshish toh kia Ishita ne. Puttar will never start, Ego lekar ghoom rahe na!
I felt thoda bahut similarity to real.

Once the silence broke off, I seriously expected a proper meaningful conversation that happened 3 days before. Uff!!! Instead of that CVs gave us IshRa lollipop scene...Koi nahi... Preparing us for tomorrow's Holi-Mini-Sex!😳

Chalo.. Puttar's dialouge.."baj gayi" was extremely funny.. KP's spontaneous oneliner I believe! Phone baji ya na baji, par DIL toh definitely baj gayi hogi Puttar ka!😳

Raman get ready to hear theen ya chaar lambe pages of lectures from ur JKR! Hiding all the important matters will surely backfire you even if u won ur case! Biwi maaf nahi karenge asaani se!

And that legal document should be read by the client line-by-line and not the client's lawyer and its also the lawyer's duty to point out any abnormality in the agreement, if any. Haad hai Puttar... Abhishek padh liye and you signed!😡

Chalo, ab kal romance aur uske baad heavy rona-dhona... Let's enjoy the drama!😆

Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The CVs play their trump card whenever sh** hits the fan and as usual they reel me back in yet again.. I refrained from posting the last couple of days, 'cos for one, I just read the written updates and 2, I could not verbalize the feelings.. it was all over the place.
Not that its not all over the place right now, but the two leads on the screen doing their thing.. and My oh my I am once again in Ishra land.

It was very clear from the very first scene, that he had forgotten his words and actions of the day before and was in the "why the heck is she acting so pricey? I wont talk if she doesn't" mode. In other words, he had very conveniently shoved the whole words, actions, issue right beneath the carpet (where they so totally do not belong😕) and was making it out to be her issue for not talking to him. I guess thats a typical male behavior or at least Raman behavior.
She let it be, and made the first move to bridge the gap and then started the post-it notes ki kissa..
That was cute and the way it ended was even cuter.. Until then I was seething, thinking why the hell can't he realize and apologize to her for being so hurtful.. and then..he held her hands.. and with a slight smirk and softening of his gaze tells her.. "mm ..hmm.. karke dikhaaonga" and I was yet again back to forgetting everything he said or did and adoring the pair .. with a lovesick look.
Scorecard: CVs - 1 .. Malu - a big fat 0 .. again..

These two can scorch the screen and the most normal conversations turn into steamy ones.. the way they fall on the bed, the gentle but firm way he squeezes her arm and tries to close the gap before saying "bajgayi.. phone ki ghanti.. hato.. " hailaa.. the rewind button on the player surely will get over used..In a scene that probably lasted all of 1 minute, the two went from anger, to forget-whatever-happened-lets-move-on, to teasing, to passion, to teasing and ended up with each giving the other "loaded" looks .. All those emotions!! God!! What a powerhouse of talent these two are..

Thats the gushing part.. The underlying problems still are housed firmly under the carpet - Their non-conversation.. or should I say, in this kaand, Raman's secrecy.

If you are planning to give 4 lakh to your ex-wife for whatever reason, your current one should know about it.. its not an unimportant one.

If you are trying to gain custody of your son, your current wife should know it.. its not an unimportant one.

If you have started working for your sworn enemy to make ends meet, your wife should know it.. its not an unimportant one.

If your ex-boss has cancelled the lease on your apartments, then your wife should know it.. its not an unimportant one.

If you are taking a loan, then your wife should know it.. its not an unimportant one.

Because if your partner does the same to you, acts the same way in a similar situation without any explanation, then you wouldn't like it, one little bit..

When these secrets come out (and burst out, they will) Mr. Raman Kumar Bhalla will not be coming out of it smelling of roses. .. thats for sure. He chose to keep all this from Ishita, even though he knew from past experience that it wan't a wise move. If I were in Ishita's shoes, i would be hopping mad and go berserk.. but then in YHM land, may be the CVs may just yet again turn a blind eye to the emotional havoc that it leads to and just carry on again merrily with another romantic scene, conveniently embracing amnesia..

And this is where the cvs falter.. in showing progress in a character.. it cannot be one tiny step forward and three giant steps backward all the time and play the trump card when the going gets tough. When they do that so often, (I as) a viewer, lose interest in the story and watch the proceedings with a blase attitude, just watching the romantic scenes between the leads and switching off the rest, which is sad, because I fell in love with the entire package and am not watching it just for the leads.

Barring the holi-scene, which promises to be another steamy one, lets brace ourselves up for the emotional roller-coaster ride..

A mother who puts a price for her son's custody vs. a mother who would rather kill herself than give up her child.

As long as I have control over the remote.. aal iss well.. 😛



Edited by maaloo - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Will go watch and come back.

PS. It's 3.00 am. I either have insomnia or I am insane, it's a bit difficult to assess right now. 😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Will reply in detail about the lack of communication which frankly was expected, as I mentioned to Payal that the subtlety and maturity of YHM is never to return so hoping that these two will talk and sort things out is like hoping to find a needle in hay.
Having said that, fangirl mode activated especially old soul grandma fangirl...OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG

They are passing notes! Grandma soul is elated beyond belief.
#Faint
#I can't even
#Power of the pen
#Wanna jump puttar

I always knew puttar had it in him to be romantic and write notes, now i don't feel stupid making him write notes back and forth to wifey in my OS. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Will reply in detail about the lack of communication which frankly was expected, as I mentioned to Payal that the subtlety and maturity of YHM is never to return so hoping that these two will talk and sort things out is like hoping to find a needle in hay.

Having said that, fangirl mode activated especially old soul grandma fangirl...OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG

They are passing notes! Grandma soul is elated beyond belief.
#Faint
#I can't even
#Power of the pen
#Wanna jump puttar

I always knew puttar had it in him to be romantic and write notes, now i don't feel stupid making him write notes back and forth to wifey in my OS. 😳


Doc you wrote an OS??? Kahan??? Link do na please 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh and G,that collage, goosebumps 😳 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

U know G at times I think this selective amnesia is realistic in households so that peace is maintained in a relationship. It often happens between two people in a relationship where one says something extremely rude n hurting yet the other partner swallows the words without shouting as she or he knows that the other partner will finally realise his or her mistake and make up for it. M talking about relationships n people who realise their mistakes (like raman does) n tries to make up for it. Some people have an ego big enough to not to even apologise.


I get it on Ishita's part... But Raman needed to take the initiative or show some regret on the stuff he told her in front of the family the other day... That felt odd considering Raman's character.. Raman has never been shown to hesitate to apologize when he's wrong .. That's where my issue lies.

This was more a Creatives' choice than Raman's 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veeann


Doc you wrote an OS??? Kahan??? Link do na please 😃


Bohot pehle likha tha, wrote it because wasn't happy with the airport scene and lack of conversation that followed. Here is the link: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ye-hai-mohabbatein/4256095/os-divorce-a-novel-of-love

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