To cry or to bAwl my eyes out... That is the question.
Logged on to watch the slap-a-thon but what I got instead was the OTT drama that leads to the slap-a-thon. Completely forgot that Shagun's exit should also be dramatic and she just can't go away in a puff.. it has to be nonsensical, illogical OTT with drum-rolls to kick her out too..
The other day I was cribbing about how the kids are not part of the wedding and that they are not shown.. today I am glad that the kids are nowhere in the vicinity.. good thing they decided to give their bua's shaadi a miss.. nahi tho kya kya dekhna padtha!
Amrita makes a BW style entry screaming Nahi, with a smirking Shagun right behind her. Amrita, shows all concerned the necessary docs to prove her case, which is checked and verified by Mr. & Mrs. Raman Kumar Bhalla. Phir dulhe ki dhulaai, and dulha's bidhaai to the nearest police station along with his 3 and a half family which forms the dulha's entourage. Enter Shagun with her vitriol of screaming, screeching, all-roads-lead-to-Ishita blaming spree.
Many social messages were delivered today.. kudos to cvs..some nayi soch?
1. Ensure that proper background check is done before arranging marriages (I thought we all knew it, but whatever).
Just because dulha is from phoren and happens to be your best friend's nephew doesn't mean a thing. Don't come under any pressure from the said best friend and aim for a quickie shaadi cos, yeah as the saying goes, you get to repent in leisure.
2. When doing the said background check, ensure that some reliable sources are used; not the daughter-in-law's junior- at -college-can't-even-call-as-a-friend who "happens" to be a friend of the groom and "happens" to live in the same country as the said groom.
3. When marriages don't take place please ensure the party to be blamed is the right one, the one who defaulted and NOT the girl. Everything that goes bad cannot be attributed to the girl / bride and just because her marriage is halted doesn't mean she doesn't get a fair chance at life.. [This is really a good message .. bravo👏]
4. Bachelors beware about attending a wedding. You could be the "chosen one: and end up being the groom if the original dulha defaults or bails out!!
5. On second thoughts bachelors go dressed up... it just might be your day [sic] And you wanna look good in your wedding pix.
6. DIL's don't mind your MIL going ballistic; keep your calm and shed a few tears. After all they are like a pendulum; they might strike you when they swing out but they will always swing back towards you. Patience..
7. Men's role in a family is SSOOO Overrated. They usually are stunned by the turn of events that they all are like statues - or rather like a deer caught in the headlights. They twitch or act affronted but at the end of the day they are silent spectators. They usually are standing around wondering - to speak or not to speak and how do i get out alive from a naari-samaaj-free-for-all?
8. Miya biwi raazi ho ya na ho, it just doesn't matter... kyonki shaadi honi chahiye.
9. Kaafi hai na? ya aur boloon?😕
And a few general remarks:
Shagun not only twitched her eyebrows but also had her eyes open during her dialog delivery! (its also known as screeching really, but in her dictionary and that of the CVs, that is dialog delivery and that there is acting too. If you don't believe me try to screech with your eyes open.. nahi hoga na? I told ya.. that's great acting!)😕
When Ishita was walking towards Mihir the back ground music was almost "divine" (I use the word, as this is the kind of BG score in devotional movies when GOD is about to strike.) Sahi hai, after all Ishita is the Savior of Bhallas , so I guess they got that right. She takes a decision and its all for the good.. no need to ask anybody else.
Tomorrow, I guess we are in for more screeching and Romi's entry accusing Shagun of the drama and Shagun's possible kick out.
Mihir's rationale for agreeing to marry Rinki, probably is that his asli sister was the cause of all evils to the bhalla family- the family that he holds dear and considers his family. So I guess, he would do anything to protect his adopted family's honor (whatever that means).
Don't know why they showed Mihika looking aghast at Mihir's upcoming marriage. She didn't expect him to stay unmarried all his life waiting for her, and as far as Mihir is concerned and from what Mihir knows about Mihika's wedding and her pregnancy, he is history.
Aur kya kya dikhaoge CVs? Kaash, you had used a little bit of brain and not done the Mihika-Ashok kaand.. it would all have been ok. Anyways, the logic boat has sailed away, lets see how you can manage to stay afloat..
Peace out.
Kumkum Bhagya
