SS 8--Transfer of Power on 123 - Page 79

Originally posted by: swathi1990

haha... It would be great if you come here..would love to meet you 😛

but for now lets do online dharna in IF itself... 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

EXACTLY!!!

WHAT A BRILLIANT SHARE Poorna!! Thank you so much

Maybe I was married nearly two decades ago, yes I got chocolates and perfumes also, but it was all about trying to discover what the other person wants and needs and trying to make it happen. (with no job and not a dime in my pocket,😆 I was a stay at home wife for the first couple years)

On a serious note, THATS EXACTLY IT. Bringing back a refrigerator magnet could be it...

In fact I was talking to a coworker today about another coworker who may be tying the knot with her man friend 9 months after "dating" him. My friend said "ITS TOO SOON.
I was dumbfounded

I am thinking

Sex-Check
Food habits Check
Snoring Check
Job Check
Savings Check
Credit Report Check
Criminal record check
Good with kids? Check
Gourmet cook-Check
VP at a company-Check

I am thinking WHY is it "too soon"😕
WHAT else must Kristina want to know about her man? She doesnt know already?

I asked my friend J, she goes "Oh! some things you can only know in years, for example if he is a bum, if he is lazy and sits around and watches TV, if he does his laundry help out with house work etc"

I am thinking this list will NEVER END😲😲😲
WHEN will you be satisfied?

Wont the charm wear off if you collect 100 terabytes of data on the guy?
I WILL NEVER GET IT, NEVER

Originally posted by: SA1234

Again ..goes without saying that the last few chapters have been amazing..it feels like I have been inside a crowded marriage hall..whenever I am reading SoSy I am so completely engrossed that once I am done reading coming back to reality is tough...its like watching a movie thats so very unpredictable..

Apart from wat happens between II & R&B, I love the conversation and chemistry between the other characters..like Sam & Vandu..how their friendship has developed so beautifully..like how R&B has warmed up to Vandu..his affection for her cannot go unnoticed..its sweet and subtle..takes a good writer to bring out these nuances and take the story forward..

Many thanks for sharing this story with us..

Now coming to the heated discussion here abt the real deal between R&B and II..I don't know abt love ..they have mutual respect and admiration..that's a good start..and like everybody else I am tired of the word love..if there is attraction, acceptance ,trust and respect..its good enough for me..and yeah I am tired of all this roses and cards stories..they still have that going on television..the guy insults the girl in front of everyone and then decorates the room with roses and the girl forgets all abt it..its sickening..

OK i'l stop ranting..More power to you & keep writing!

Originally posted by: taara113

Aree im so sad no one like the word I love you...i like it...

I mean it totally when I say it that I love RB and the story...

I love kuch kuch hota hai anjali...

Bade bade shehro me choti choti bate...

The out of the blue couples dancing in n rain(i pray to god i get to do this)

I love you is nice, specially in movies, books, television... Its a dramatic moment... It just depends if its a part of ur character...

I knw ppl mushy enough to say love you to der gf everytime they call...its like evn aftr a fight they sign off ...bye love ya... Some ppl are like and that and happy, kya bura hai...

But RB se naa ho paega :)

Originally posted by: ashu9

Swati, after having lived half my life in TN, I had fluently picked up the language in my childhood...But as I reached high school, I lost touch with it completely...Again I had started picking it up during under grad, thanks to a few IYER friends...And now SoSy has completely had me talking good again...

I have no idea of the dialects of the language..I use words commonly learnt by me...I have no clue if I use the words in appropriate sense sometimes

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Thats sooo sweeet. I have no tamil friends here. Everyone is a northie.. SO I really really miss speaking tamil... that too when u said 'aathula' it just reminded me home 😊 😊. The same way, I can relate to every scene with vandu appa and amma...I can imagine being at home and my parents in the scene which I absolutely love..