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Originally posted by: swathi1990

The word love is just overrated ashu ! couples always saying I love you for evrything every minute is sooo cheesy teenage type. Neither of them are that.. Ofcourse they will know the importance of each other over time. According to me it has already started. She knows that she wants him and he knows that he wants her... As they start living together and face more bigger issues that are going to come, they will start feeling it more. and I dont feel R&B outwardly realising 'OH I LOVE HER' ... that is sooo not R&B. His love will be shown where he wont leave her and instead adjust life with her...

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

OK Ashu please explain what kind of "love" you want to see between them

I dont understand it at all. I only read stuff in Hallmark Cards... its vague poetry about rainbows and kittens and teddy bears...

HAI kya cheez yeh love

Zara batana to

Dont you see respect?
Dont you see care for each other?
Dont you see admiration of each others' sense of humor and intellect?
Dont you see consideration for each others' families?
Dont u see them be compassionate?

Yeh LOVE kya cheez hai...

SAYING IT EVERY MINUTE? U mean?
I JUST DONT GET IT
Even the shows I watch people clamor for it
"I wish they would say ILU?

Theek hai keh diya? Did US sign a peace treaty with Iran because of that? Did they establish a human colony in Mars? WHAT happens then? In Ekta Kapoor's show Kasam Se, Raam's character declares undying love for Prachi's takes her to bed has sex

and the next day sleeps with Prachi's sister

WHAT IS LOVE?

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

OK Ashu please explain what kind of "love" you want to see between them

I dont understand it at all. I only read stuff in Hallmark Cards... its vague poetry about rainbows and kittens and teddy bears...

HAI kya cheez yeh love

Zara batana to

Dont you see respect?
Dont you see care for each other?
Dont you see admiration of each others' sense of humor and intellect?
Dont you see consideration for each others' families?
Dont u see them be compassionate?

Yeh LOVE kya cheez hai...

SAYING IT EVERY MINUTE? U mean?
I JUST DONT GET IT
Even the shows I watch people clamor for it
"I wish they would say ILU?

Theek hai keh diya? Did US sign a peace treaty with Iran because of that? Did they establish a human colony in Mars? WHAT happens then? In Ekta Kapoor's show Kasam Se, Raam's character declares undying love for Prachi's takes her to bed has sex

and the next day sleeps with Prachi's sister

WHAT IS LOVE?

Originally posted by: ashu9

We talk of not acknowledging and not showing love...Seriously ? Did u never? Did you never think of your crush as your love ? Now we talk mature because we know what it is all about. Would you never really think ?

I dont know..I am in two minds..I did think like a teenager..I did..I wont deny..I would want something special to be done by that someone special..I will sit and self talk if ever I had to know what that emotion is for me!!! I will...I dont know how many of you here wont..

I will ensure myself, I will self acknowledge...Why not ?? Whats wrong in it.. I wont go out declaring love to anybody..I would not expect the significant other also but, for myself I would want it...

Again..EACH TO HIS/HER OWN HERE..Nothing personal

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yes Swathi,
THATS EXACTLY IT

R&B wont swear undying love, book a hotel room with swaying curtains, decorate with roses and heart shaped pillows and the next day go off to bed with another woman because he loves II. Thats mighty screwed up. I dont understand it I am too old to buy into that logic.

Its just MO I think the West has influenced us in all the wrong ways... (right for many people), u know, "Did he pop the question yet?"
"Did he say ILU" "Saying ILU IS EVERYTHING". OK he did... What changes suddenly? Are u guaranteed pension when u retire? Is your house suddenly paid off?


why are divorces SO common then, since the guy swore ILU shouldnt it be for 10 janam? Why divorce? I JUST DONT GET THAT. I ask why, I am told "Oh! we fell OUT of love"

AREY! YEH KYA BAAT HUI? To phir itna mar kyon rahe the ki ILU nahi bola?😆

I am not saying men that dont say ILU dont cheat, but the ones that declare it from rooftops do it more (atleast based on the country I live in)

Originally posted by: ashu9

We talk of not acknowledging and not showing love...Seriously ? Did u never? Did you never think of your crush as your love ? Now we talk mature because we know what it is all about. Would you never really think ?

I dont know..I am in two minds..I did think like a teenager..I did..I wont deny..I would want something special to be done by that someone special..I will sit and self talk if ever I had to know what that emotion is for me!!! I will...I dont know how many of you here wont..

I will ensure myself, I will self acknowledge...Why not ?? Whats wrong in it.. I wont go out declaring love to anybody..I would not expect the significant other also but, for myself I would want it...

Again..EACH TO HIS/HER OWN HERE..Nothing personal

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Ashu I FULLY understand and appreciate it, GIVE HIM A CHANCE GIVE HER A CHANCE Yaar

They BOTH will do things that will amaze you they both are GOOD PEOPLE just NOT CONVENTIONAL

Yes there will be plenty of romantic cutesy things not cheesy or Ekta Kapoor like but nevertheless good things... PLEASE DONT GIVE UP ON THEM