Software Symph 7 'Not too long' 147 - Page 93

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Sooo touching update Nish !!! Can totally relate to the dynamics of appa and amma... Just like it would be in my house... Its been 2 years since I am living alone in US. But mom will never leave dad and come here... My dad cant manage for a single day without my mom... Even if she leaves for a day, she has to keep everything like this... Sooo sooo true when it comes to our parent's generation..

Why do I feel that this update is for Anu... She is going to gush reading this...

Originally posted by: swathi1990

It is sooo cute of II to feel this way. Coming from a close knit family, she expects the same here..But I feel that she misjudges here... This split is not because they are wealthy.. It is not always the case that wealthy people are uncaring. Infact it was a fully functional family before the scandal. A totally loving mom who cooks for her son, a supportive dad who plays tennis and golf with his son... All this happened after the scandal...

Today we might see a bhalla who is regretting and II might feel the sympathy. But I wont expect it from R&B or sam or manny. If I was in the same position will I be able to accept ranjan after the scandal.. The answer would be a BIG NO! Infidelity is something I can't take...NEVER... You could fall out of love...sure..But you should atleast respect the person enuf to get a divorce first...instead being unfaithful demeans the other person. So however you try to portray Ranjan in a grey shade and however much he regrets or loves his wife noe I just couldnt sympathize for him. I know that others who read this story may not like this but my stand will not change.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

See thats another can of worms Swathi

Guilty until proven innocent

OR

Innocent until proven guilty

She IMO is allowed to be caring and compassionate because she does not know the facts of the case, an intelligent smart girl like her will never say "Oh MERE PATI unki izzat nahi karte main bhi nahi karoongi" (My husband doesnt respect him so I wont)

So until the truth comes out she can be caring

If it exonerates him then she can continue if it implicates him then she can decide what her heart tells her

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Very true Nish ! I never blame II here... She is in general very compassionate and she has always seen only the caring side of Ranjan and the ranjan who loves his wife. She doesnt know fully about the scandal. Tomorrow even if she finds that it was true, she might still forgive him because he regrets it now. Even then I would not blame II because she has never been with savitha either before or after the scandal.

But she judging the family or R&B or sam is what I can't accept. The amount of misery they had to go through, the pain they saw their mother go through and finally the death of their mom can never allow them to forgive Ranjan. Sure even if sam's and manny's equation with ranjan has become better, it doesnt mean that they don't have that feeling in the corner of their heart.