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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: leo4ever
actually i fail to understand how it is ishitas tarbyat, ruhi was what when ishita met her? proly 5- 7 yr old right? at this time a kid is already molded pretty much independent so i do think it is more of a forced thing of a mum daughter attachment
yes both love each other but i still find it odd how ishita is credited for tarbyat, she already got a behaved grown up kid , what however i mind is the over smartness of a kid.
she answers back , talks a lot like grown up and was rude earlier too, in a way adi and ruhi are behaving similiar ruhi for ishita and adi for shagun

its not Ishita's fault...its just too rude of Ruhi to say all that...

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582445

Hibernated

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: anjs
havent watched the epi yet...but if she seriously says that, then its rude for a child to backanswer a grown up like that...
didnt Ishita correct her ?

its sad that when we hate Adi back-answering Ishita, we hail ruhi doing the same thing to others...so what if they are vamps...child shouldn't be saying things like that...

For God Sake.. if an elderly person is doing something immoral or unethical should a child keep mum?? Why coz the person is older than her?? - Satyameva Jayate ssn 1 episode no 2 said a very valuable thing - don't respect a person for his/her age but respect for his/her experience, learning & understanding that comes only with age

if Bala's mother is unable to behave like her age how can she expects to receive respect from a child!!

Moreover, if someone's mother is getting verbally abused by someone what a child should do .. keep mum?? cry?? NO she should reply n reply should be strong .. expecting a kid to be remain silent in her mother's insult we are only expecting a kid to grown up as voiceless cowered in future [trust me India is full of them]

Ruhi did it .. n she did it right .. this is not rude .. this is simple straight forward talking

n Don't compare Ruhi with Adi .. Adi behaves rudely not only that he behaves meanly .. running car over a woman or manipulating someone so that she ends up in lockup - these are sign of criminal mind .. there is no comparison of Ruhi n Adi ..

Ruhi don't speaks mean she speaks the truth n truth sounds bitter .. so what .. it is still the best thing in the world

Edited by SayaneeH.Lecter - 10 years ago

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anjali

@nancysa

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: anjs

you have no right to say that...cause its your habit mostly to enter a thread n post negative comments...but then again, i thought you must have learned now, after constant warnings from the moderators...but some things never change 😆

anyways, i never said i dont like Ruhi...i just mention that its rude of her to say that...if you dont like my comment then dont read it...

I have the right to say anything...what ruhi said was apt she didn't use any bad words or call vandu's Mother in law disrespectfully...when elders are wrong, sometimes young people correct them...aur keh te hai baccho mein bhagwan hote hai...

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: anjs

yes its wrong...but Ishita should defend herself...and I would have loved for Raman or Toshi to speak up...Toshi being her mom-in-law, would have been apt to shut Bala's mum up, as Bala's mum wudve been her mom-in-law had she married subbu...

but it coming from Ruhi...not only this, but otherwise also they have given some very grown up dialogues to ruhi, and sometimes rude dialogues too...

while we expect Adi to behave...we should atleast expect Toshi or Ishita or even Mrs Iyer to correct Ruhi next time...atleast in-person later after the offending person has left the scenario...

First of all Bala's mom needs to know she is a guest. Having gone thru the whole baanj thing last year in front of outsiders she is doing the same thing again! Why should ishita bear her humiliation that too in her house? Its not as if ishita has gone to her to get insulted.

After that waht she did with Mr Iyer she deserves much more than what Ruhi said. that woman is another Shagun. Ruhi no matter what always says the right things. Adi is always wrong and playing games and even nearly killed a woman, sent one to prison etc...So you cant weigh both in the same coin. Adi has still not got his punishment for anything that he has doen...

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divka

@divka

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: SayaneeH.Lecter

For God Sake.. if an elderly person is doing something immoral or unethical should a child keep mum?? Why coz the person is older than her?? - Satyameva Jayate ssn 1 episode no 2 said a very valuable thing - don't respect a person for his/her age but respect for his/her experience, learning & understanding that comes only with age

if Bala's mother is unable to behave like her age how can she expects to receive respect from a child!!

Moreover, if someone's mother is getting verbally abused by someone what a child should do .. keep mum?? cry?? NO she should reply n reply should be strong .. expecting a kid to be remain silent in her mother's insult we are only expecting a kid to grown up as voiceless cowered in future [trust me India is full of them]

Ruhi did it .. n she did it right .. this is not rude .. this is simple straight forward talking

n Don't compare Ruhi with Adi .. Adi behaves rudely not only that he behaves meanly .. running car over a woman or manipulating someone so that she ends up in lockup - these are sign of criminal mind .. there is no comparison of Ruhi n Adi ..

Ruhi don't speaks mean she speaks the truth n truth sounds bitter .. so what .. it is still the best thing in the world

I agree with you completely. I shared what I felt regarding the words ruhi said. She's just a kid of 7 years but when it comes to stand for her ishima, she becomes dadiamma.. Ruhi can never be compared to adi. He always speaks rude to everyone except shagun and she never tries to correct him. He's a wicked fellow and has criminal mind. Ruhi on the other side behaves rude when something is wrong. And ishitha always tries to teach her what is right and what is wrong. Bala's mom always tries to taunt ishitha calling her a bhaanj and ruhi already warned her telling that she's her daughter and ishitha is not a childless lady. When ruhi heard her calling ishitha bhaanj again she couldn't bear and uttered those words.

Ishitha already said to Raman that ruhi is there to protect her when it comes to bala's mom.they have showed the same.

Just my POV no bashing please.😊

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anjs

@anjs

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+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sunitas123

First of all Bala's mom needs to know she is a guest. Having gone thru the whole baanj thing last year in front of outsiders she is doing the same thing again! Why should ishita bear her humiliation that too in her house? Its not as if ishita has gone to her to get insulted.

After that waht she did with Mr Iyer she deserves much more than what Ruhi said. that woman is another Shagun. Ruhi no matter what always says the right things. Adi is always wrong and playing games and even nearly killed a woman, sent one to prison etc...So you cant weigh both in the same coin. Adi has still not got his punishment for anything that he has doen...

ofcourse Ishita shouldnt bear the humiliation...my only grudge with the cv's is that instead of Ruhi, Toshi should have done the honor...it wouldve been a perfect reply and also add weightage...

Adi is wrong no doubt...but we should have some cute moments, where Ishita also tells Ruhi to not say such things to elders...you know, we have this saying, that 'badon ke bich bachche baat nahi karte ' thats all i am saying...something like that but typical IShita way me...

though i understand that they need this to create Drama...but you know the way Ruhi spoke during the curfew delivery scene...that was good...innocent yet raising uncomfortable questions...perfect for a sweet girl like Ruhi...the cv's couldve showed something similar here...and later Toshi picks up from her and asks some uncomfortable questions to Bala's mum

Bala's mum was gonna be Ishita's MIL, if Subbu had married Ishita, so Toshi giving some reply would have been a tight slap to Bala's mum...

i hope that makes sense...

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Swapna

@ishra_Fav

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

I can only say one thing, lets forget it and enjoy the scene. Even I started to say something, but I stopped because its just a scene and I didn't want to hurt anyone if they don't agree with my statement or feel offended by it.

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Ishrafan11

@Ishrafan11

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Ruhi was amazing awesome acting by RD.
All the words Ruhi said to bala's mom were right nothing was wrong what she said so what if she is a kid she spoke the truth. Ruhi couldn't just stand there and not say anything when somebody called her ishima a bannj.

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sweetdaffodil04

@sweetdaffodil04

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: anjs
havent watched the epi yet...but if she seriously says that, then its rude for a child to backanswer a grown up like that...
didnt Ishita correct her ?

its sad that when we hate Adi back-answering Ishita, we hail ruhi doing the same thing to others...so what if they are vamps...child shouldn't be saying things like that...

actually kind of disagree with this, yes it's wrong to answer back to your elders, but if the elders are wrong or as rude as Vandu's mother in law, they need a few taunts back at them. The difference when Adi does it is that Adi is doing it purely to hurt someone, and is being instigated by Shagun. So technically even though Adi is right to defend his mother, just like Ruhi is right for defending her mother, it is the context (the bigger picture) which needs to be taken into account. Adi does this so he can defame and get rid of Ishita for his mother. Ruhi does it for her mother's respect. That's the difference.

Indian society is wrong in the sense that the elders can never be wrong. I agree, we need to respect our elders, but they are only human and not all of them have changed with the times. They need to be corrected when they have done something wrong. So in this scenario, I support Ruhi. Vandu's saas needs to constantly be put in her place. In addition, i think after her little "good citizen" stunt, she needs to be boycotted from ever attending any Iyer festivity. Toxic and poisonous people only serve to ruin other people's happiness

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dilshath

@dilshath

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Ruhi is awesome today. Relationship between IshRu something unique. She ever liked her Ishima hurt. Its a sensitive Issue also its a family, if others means it will create as big issue. Ruhi is apt for this. She never compared to Aadhi. She always stands her mother.