Software Symphonies 5--Spice Route on 148 - Page 6

Prior to the marriage setting we all wondered if R&B loved her or was just attracted. After the marriage setting we wonder that why a guy like R&B would fall for a girl like II. The whole series can be divided into these two sections. The former being answered in the previous 5 threads. I am sure that no reader has an iota of doubt that R&B doesnt love her. What starts next is the journey of the latter section. Yes thats how I see it. I know he is in love with her and also every other thing that accompanies her, be it tantrums or her singing BUT I dont know what went on in his mind when he realised that she is THE ONE.

Smug bas***d V/s Brat🤣

I do not understand the need to be overly critical , pat your bk every 3rd post, SoSY is intelligent, others r less kind of feedbks.

It's ok for people to like "the not so intelligent" stuff shown in the "idiot box"(the box does not become idiot suddenly in 2 months,it's rather u , who chose to be deaddicted )and still like to be in the symphony pages. Well, who can stop them from doing both??. May be that's why there r so many , reading and not commemting, cos they sort of feel , less "privileged" to be in the "intelligent" company . I understand that, even if I don't watch.

U talk of cliques, but there's a separate 'marketing thread' to push software symphonies. Is it a no no?That's people's choice too . There is no right or wrong thing and things r more easier that way, I feel.

I am done commenting here which , I loved and will look bk fondly. A good book , as long it is available to be read, I will read, any day. Who said, it's neccessary to engage , while u r at it. No law, right.? I exercise my choice to take out my gain and move on.

@taara, @ashu, @sunshine bliss, @hsp, @nividances, @modern ,@ swaram, @blue sky, @ad Mumbai,@RCF,@ranu I've enjoyed reading your posts.Thank you all. Did not feel right, to step off without saying this.

@wings of fire, hats off, lady.

@luks28 , thank u for liking what I posted, almost every single time . You did not hv to do that.

And Thank you, N. Signing off but not hopping out of the train. This journey is mine too.

Best wishes always,
KG.


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Originally posted by: Ranu1234

Omg kithna ladthey hai 😆 a simple walk can actually move from Madurai, clothes to fight on the street to u are marrying me for sex to I will never tell you my problems to I don't care amazing 😃

Like hsp mentioned the difference in class is going to become more apparent . I think the bhallas soon may have to appoint all their security on just the lady of the house and I think she is going to go mad and drive them crazy 😭.

Also if I remember delhi had a spate of kidnapping of industrialist kids right at some point? Could explain the Bhallas Behaving this way..

Gosh these two have so much to learn about each other !

Originally posted by: nividances

WW5...Loved it!!! 😃

Will add more later.

*Edited*

To II-R&B:

"Sometimes the greatest relationships are the ones you never expected to be in. The ones that sweep you off your feet and challenge every view you've ever had." - Author Unknown

I borrow the words of others because I'm not eloquent enough to come up with such insightful stuff myself. The words are completely fitting for the couple at hand though.

She could never have imagined that she would fall so hard for a guy who has probably been in more relationships than the number of crushes she has had. A guy who her parents (read appa) would hate. A guy who probably speaks as many words in an entire day as she speaks in a minute. A guy who will pack up a few clothes and head off to any corner of the world without a moment's notice. A guy who will (probably) never see eye-to-eye with her on the professional front. A guy who...ok I think you get the point. 😆

As for him, he (and the rest of his family) never expected that he would ever even consider marriage. Let alone to an vegetarian Iyer firecracker who (in your words) can "send him from 0 to 200"...in a matter of seconds...with just one phrase. A girl who...you know how she is, so fill in the rest as you wish 😉

As you wrote so aptly, "EVERYTHING was different about them"

The more they talk, the more their differences come to the surface...and the more this marriage seems like its doomed before it even happens. She is a mature, professional, working woman with extremely ambitious goals, but she has a childish, insecure side that comes as a part of the package. I question if he is ready to handle the entire package. He is making these grand plans for permanently heading off to Paris after the AGM and keeping her completely in the dark about this. I question if she is ready to handle his quiet, mysterious, off-the-radar type nomadic personality.

That ended up coming out longer than I thought it would...😛😳

There's more I have to say, but I'll save it for another day. 😉 😃

My trail of thought was disrupted by my kiddo, who is having recurring nightmares of his truck being chased by a monster in spite me telling him that u can't drive till u are 16 years, so stop driving and the monster will also stop.😆😆

Marriage is a big step for R&B as he sees II as his soul mate, saying that he needs to understand that he needs to open his soul to her, I am not saying he needs to talk about his insecurities right away, but he needs to open his soul, express little bit of his thoughts and keep II abreast of everything. (And he is not use to sharing his thoughts) He is also wondering somewhere in his head why II is becoming so relevant for his existence. Remember sex is not a big deal and he has plenty of experience. And he can easily manipulate II should he want. He sees II as his other half, his soul, he wants to bind her forever. He is processing II emotional needs, He is type a personality and views things in an analytical manner. He is coming to grips or rather still processing this emotional stuff. And II need of family & friends to that extend. He is still numb from what happened to his mom. II needs to understand that why he is such a basket case about emotional stuff. But R&B needs to know one thing for sure II will always need his attention (that's what all women want in the right way).

And for a successful relation one has to let go many things to find harmony, and that doesn't mean woman let go for career etc. or the man has to become joru ka gulam. It's all about talking and resolving the issues, and believe me most of the time men just don't express...which is very annoying but we as women who are more mentally strong can understand the undercurrents. II needs to overcome many things as well. She has to think about R&B and where is he coming from, when u marry an elite, you have to follow some of the norms, II kids will never play the street cricket or with the neighborhood kids. There always be a guard in the background. She has to forget his past experiences. She too has too let go for some of stubbornness. I think I need to stop being Dr Phil for now

They are destined to be together, they have all things going for them they have chemistry, they are intelligent and they compliment each other and😳😳

Nisha is doing a great jobs at showing different facets of a relationship, which most authors skip. People meet fall in love and just get married and everyone lives happily ever after. Thanks Nisha for showing there is more to relationship then just chemistry.👏👏👏