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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Dear II,

"I don't want kinds" is probably the most dangerous sentence you could ever say. It's way more dangerous than saying "I'm not gonna change my surname" or "I love you"(which you haven't said yet). You are trying to pull something off that the great Cristina Yang couldn't do! Trust me II, I've seen Cristina go through all stages of not wanting a child with a husband who wanted children and it leaves you with two choices- either you destroy yourselves (including your career) trying to go one way or another (kids or no kids) or, you destroy your relationship. There's no other way. From what I've known about you, you don't have one tenth of the strength that Cristina had! You're not even sure what you want! You get all happy and blushy when he mentions kids! I think you are misinterpreting your fear of 'not having it all' as 'I don't want kids'. If I'm right and you are doing that, please don't. It has the power to destroy you and him beyond repair.

Wings

P.S. Cristina Yang is a famous character from Grey's Anatomy. She's one of my favorite characters.


I totally agree with you. Ishita is not that strong. She is confused and has no clue how to handle this volatile relationship she has on her hands. She wants everything desperately but she doesnt seem to have a clue how to go about it.

She wants to be strong but she isn't (like nisha has mentioned many times, she is vulnerable inside). Well, if this story is gonna last long, I would for one, love to see HER character growth for sure.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi21


That's right! Its fiction afterall!
And she obviously shouldn't share everything on day one or even on day 200!
I just meant that even in fiction this update seemed like Ishita was coming around! Nothing else.

😊

As far as sparks are concerned, I can debate over that but then its your story and prerogative at the end and I love to read this story with all the discrepancies that it comes with and all the loopholes simply cause of the way you have woven it!

And I think that in itself is a brilliant job! Also, I would like to confide in you that I have tried writing many MANY times only to stop at some point cause of lack of motivation and to see you go through this everyday and writing it everyday is very refreshing.

I find it very, very commendable Nisha. 👏


Thank you!!

Maybe because I have a DAY JOB doing something else? Maybe because I am not paid to write this? Maybe because I can stop whenever I want to? Because of all of the above I wnat to keep going and dont want to stop😃

I dont plan to enter it into any contest or competition or seek awards or accolades or hope to retire off of royalty. THAT KEEPS ME GOING. Its like my love for cooking... I may not be the best cook in the world, but who ever has eaten my food has said its the best food they've ever eaten👏😳 That makes me go back to cooking day after day how ever tired I am after work

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Posted: 10 years ago
I hate the laundry wala 😆😆😆
Men usually do not care about their stuff. this is what I been told, generalized about. Yes I do hear of some men being really organised with their stuff and act as if they have OCD 😆😆 rather it appears to the others as though they have it..Okay why I started this is, a little nuance caught my eye..RB gave not only HIS clothes but also HER clothes to laundry! I mean its not something unique or out of the way, but I really liked this part of his. Its more like caring for the other person.
II talks to akka and confides everything in her. She has a best friend in her sister, we all see that. They discuss almost everything under the sun! The part where akka coaxed her to ask HIM about the pills and kids is again directing her to a point where she needs to talk out her concerns. its not that he will magically understand everything she wants to say or everything she has in mind.
So she actually tells him her concern and he does react well..This time he says he needs 3 KIDS not girls 😆😆. She REALLY NEEDS TO SHUT UP 🤣🤣
She wanted to talk kids he logically analysed her words to come to a conclusion that she wants a BOY 😆😆.
These two will open up slowly, like peeling out layers.. I see they will have a strong relationship ahead, with hiccups of course, and yet stay unique 😳😳
Lovely update Nisha!!
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi21


I totally agree with you. Ishita is not that strong. She is confused and has no clue how to handle this volatile relationship she has on her hands. She wants everything desperately but she doesnt seem to have a clue how to go about it.

She wants to be strong but she isn't (like nisha has mentioned many times, she is vulnerable inside). Well, if this story is gonna last long, I would for one, love to see HER character growth for sure.😊


II germinated as an antonym to the MANY/MOST over smart, all knowing, smug, arrogant hegemonious (thats not even a word) charitable, do gooder, noble, selfless, "maids" psychotherapist, psychologist, therapist, "mature grandmas at 20" female leads Ive watched on Desi TV for 20 years.
So yes, II is extremely flawed😆

I have mentioned many many times... this tale is my therapy😆


Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: modernfamily

Aaj dry day hai kya? Nobody around

Right here 😆😆😆
where did u disappear now 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Ladies what do u think of John Kransinki . He is indeed 6.3 and a good actor. Hair kangi s still a concern though 😆😆

he is chubby
Why do I find flaws with whomever you guys try to show as RB 😆😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ashu9

I hate the laundry wala 😆😆😆

Men usually do not care about their stuff. this is what I been told, generalized about. Yes I do hear of some men being really organised with their stuff and act as if they have OCD 😆😆 rather it appears to the others as though they have it..Okay why I started this is, a little nuance caught my eye..RB gave not only HIS clothes but also HER clothes to laundry! I mean its not something unique or out of the way, but I really liked this part of his. Its more like caring for the other person.
II talks to akka and confides everything in her. She has a best friend in her sister, we all see that. They discuss almost everything under the sun! The part where akka coaxed her to ask HIM about the pills and kids is again directing her to a point where she needs to talk out her concerns. its not that he will magically understand everything she wants to say or everything she has in mind.
So she actually tells him her concern and he does react well..This time he says he needs 3 KIDS not girls 😆😆. She REALLY NEEDS TO SHUT UP 🤣🤣
She wanted to talk kids he logically analysed her words to come to a conclusion that she wants a BOY 😆😆.
These two will open up slowly, like peeling out layers.. I see they will have a strong relationship ahead, with hiccups of course, and yet stay unique 😳😳
Lovely update Nisha!!


hey ashu i felt the same things :-)
Edited by Ranu1234 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Daniel Henney... though he is 6ft 2in... ek inch kamm chal jaega na😛



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Posted: 10 years ago
For me, II sharing her feelings about NOT having kids right away is a BIG acheivement. If not for akka's warning, I am damn sure she would have gone on pill without letting him know. Thats II. But no she shared it and THAT according to me is a HUGE sensible and mature step😆
R&B had to go by 4 BUT he didnt. Isnt tht enough?

They love each other. But dont understand the way the other one is. I guess R&B has started understanding her kozhandai nature BUT II seldom wonders about his past or what he must have gone thru when his mom died. In her defence i wud say tht she is too caught up in her own family dillemmas to notice his.

Her comforting him like shravu tells me something about the future. Thrz nt just similarity between appa n R&B. Its between his mom n II too.

Both wil hurt each other. Both will comfort each other. Both will be motherly. Both wil be murderous. I am waiting for the proceedings.😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Ranu1234


hey ashu i felt the same things :-)

Hey Anu!! I did observe...You mentioned all that
You know what..my reviews are quite flawed 😆
Matlab seekh rahi hoon na abhi likhna...I dont concentrate on important stuff like her talking about her career , amma taking care of Shravu, his observation about her taking care of shravu etc...I need to build up more..
You guys are exceptional pa...
Maybe I have too many things in mind and end up writing down only a few

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