When will this happen ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ishita to Toshiji :


... It's about time.
  • It's about time the bahus of the house put a stop on sacrificing themselves for the 'greater cause' a.k.a. Keep everyone in her sasural happy .. Else she's a bitch
  • It's about time Toshiji learns respect is a two way street.
  • It's about time someone asks who Ruhi wants as her racing companion or better yet just ask what Ruhi wants
  • It's about time the Cv's need to stop recycling similar situations in a new backdrop
Sorry the Precap ... The continued torture of GKC obsession just made me forget what happened in the episode 😡


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yea its high time that CVS need to understand that there should be some logic behind scenes and continuity in the characters..they should realise that whatever the crap they show will not be acceptable by the audience..😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Same thoughts G di! 🤬
My reaction after the precap :

Toshi! Enough of this crap! Will you jump off a well to keep your GKC happy?!! Oh no wait, you'll force Ishita to do that coz she's the bahu who never says no!

Sorry abt the rant
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Posted: 10 years ago
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RES...Because JKR is making her presence felt and I can't wait for her RKB to join her!

---EDIT---

G- love the GIF! Karen Walker can snark like nobody's business... she snarks like I wish I could- and I love you for using her!

The episode: JKR was ON today and I am very happy... thus far in their encounters before SHADHI moved in Shagun got a small taste of the lectures and waning Ishu can dole out... today she got a glimpse of the real deal. And she thinks she can take her on? Does she know the saying about waking a sleeping lion(ess)?



As for Shagun's 'points' about Raman not saying ILY and her so called trump card..



Shagun's biggest weakness has always been her huge ego and the many., many ways in which she underestimates Raman. Does she really think that the words make it 'real'? Of course ISHRA are craving to create that perfect moment- but that doesn't mean that they don't know. That they aren't secure in the knowledge of the other's love. Adhi may be Raman's weakness but as we saw two days ago Raman is no longer ignorant of the manipulative power of that love and what it does to him. He is past 'Adhi ke liye'... Raman recognized now where he is and who he is in terms of Adhi ... he is just trying to smoothly transition into becoming who he wants to be for the sake of Adhi, ISHRU and their future together. RKB is no longer weakened by that love .. he has found the strength to get through the weakness and past the shackles that it holds on him and is well on his way to becoming indomitable once again. And knowing that ISHRU are paying the price for his weakness- that will be the trigger for him to finally shake free of said shackles.

But I suppose someone with the mental capacity of a gnat can't understand such complex emotional processes.

As for the precap..

I don't even know what to say to this.. ridiculous. Regressive, archaic 'I know it exists but do you all have to take it this far' B/S.

Toshi needs a wake up call. But Ishita is not the person that should give it to her.

All she needs to say is :


And move on.

We all know this is happening because Toshi is counting on the same factor that Shagun is ... Ishu's goodness. Because she would certainly never be able to even think about asking the same of her daughters if they were in said situation. Ishita needs to take a firm stand and say no and leave. No simpering or coddling - just No. "She is my daughter , she asked me, the only reason she is in this home is because of me, the only reason she is in your life is because of me... so No." And leave.

The only reason I don't want a big JKR style reckoning to shower down on Toshi is because I think that should come from Raman. This actually goes back to a discussion I had with my best friend regarding how they handle parental conflicts in her relationship- basically when it comes to each other's parents and issues of conflict the child is the one that deals with their parents, lest it becomes a 'who are you to talk to me like that' conversation/ thought process.

And I subscribe to that avenue of thought. Irrespective of this issue Ishita & Toshi have a good relationship and I feel like if Ishita went on full JKR mode it could turn that relationship on its head somewhat...especially considering Toshi's head space right now. So Raman is the one that needs to give his mom a wake up call. He needs to spell out all the mistakes in her way of thinking, how it's affecting Ru, how it's affecting him and his relationship with his girls and the future he envisions with both his kids.

This kind d of 'crash landing to reality' speech needs to come from Raman...once he finds out. Til then though Ishita has to take a soft but firm stand... to find that happy medium between JKR and Ishita and make her voice heard. Because Toshi already has a snake and her spawn whispering in her ears and the voices are overtaking her common sense! 😡

Having said all that:




#12 regular episodes until ISHRAnniversary ... and all I want is for ISHRA to fund a mini vacation for SHADI & Toshi in one room!🤢
Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Divya1503

Same thoughts G di! 🤬

My reaction after the precap :

Toshi! Enough of this crap! Will you jump off a well to keep your GKC happy?!! Oh no wait, you'll force Ishita to do that coz she's the bahu who never says no!

Sorry abt the rant

Ya she may ask anything??? Hate ttoshiji
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Same for me Gan, feeling really disgusting. Ruhi's happiness doesn't matter to Toshi ji. The girl publically couldn't stand her father standing beside her biological mother. How come that girl will be happily comfortable with the mother whom she addresses as the one who left her for years. Giving a son his home here is actually taking away the family of the daugher. What the hell is that?

Res
Edited by remya1990 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I would rather study mind numbing Neurology than watch this regressive shit, thanks but no thanks.

What is that the writers are trying to achieve with Toshi's character? Do they want Raman to put her in her place and tell her the importance of Ishita and Ruhi in his life? Do they want Mr. Bhalla to do so? Rome? Rinki? Simmi? Or is her character supposed to say regressive crap to bring out the double standards that all members of the Bhalla household harbor by remaining silent?

Toshi tomorrow Ananya grows up and asks her mother to be with her father because of her 'happiness', how will that fly with you? Okay that's comparing apples to oranges because Ananya is a girl so her wishes don't matter, you should just stop feeding her now because clearly you are wasting food on someone who doesn't have a penis. Let's compare apples to apples, tomorrow Adi feels like param uncle needs a family and he can't see his param uncle in distress (after all an asshole can feel another asshole's pain), so he wants Simmi bua to live with Param uncle, will you allow your daughter to live with Param for Adi's happiness?



Whatevs I am telling myself to let it go, and enjoy the Friday so I can get boozed up! Let's all let it go, and hope this regressive crap ends soon.

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It not only ishita need to say to ballahs family enough but also the audianese to YHM cvs enough is enough with this sick track
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today's precap...


Do these people not understand what actual parenting is? No wonder Romi is a spoiled, entitled brat. It's going to take a lot for Toshi-ji to bounce back from this narrow-minded selfish behavior. It's in her character so I can't say it's a total character assassination - it's just a tad overboard. Before she was a sherni for Ruhi but now she's being a selfish, backwards thinking woman for Adi.

Why can't anyone in the house shut her up? This is a situation where Ruhi acting out would make sense...

However, as we know, we can't always judge precaps on face value, but I just needed to get that off my chest to feel better! lol

Because I don't like totally negative/ranting posts...here are my quick perks from today:
  • Ishita owning Shagun verbally - now it's time for Ishita to live up to her words. Because the CVs have now openly turned this track into Ishita vs. Shagun (with supposedly 'no need' for Raman to intervene as of now), I want a good fight.
  • This is the 6th consecutive episode that doesn't have OTT drama. The confrontation & even the precap wasn't totally OTT in my opinion, which is comforting. They aren't relying on just cheap gimmicks to progress the plot but instead using the complexities of human relations to progress the story like before. Keep it up CVs.
Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree G!. the Ghar ka Crap is really irritating now.
We should feel for the kid but here we are so irritated with this idiocy

Also Didnt toshiji hear Ruhis outburst on Lohri. Yet she is making such a demand.

She was the one who used to warn Ishita that people will take advantage of your sweet and considerate nature. What is she doing now!!!

And whats with the bloopers. If Raman was sitting at home and gloating about some mail on Adi, why did he cut short the date
Nothing is going right!!



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