Bhalla and their double standards - Page 6

Originally posted by: CharmGal

I blame both Raman and Ishita 😆 since they both have made silly assumptions therefore are facing the consequences of their actions.

For instance, Ishita had brought Shagun home twice and did not consider others viewpoint. The first time she brought Shagun home, her husband was not in favour and yet she didn't consider his feelings which was strange. Secondly Ishita had brought Shagun home with Adi which Raman too was at fault since he didn't object the idea. On that day when Shagun was drunk and Ishra had decided to bring her home I can understand and don't agree with it. However after that, both Raman and Ishita should have made alternative arrangements for Shagun and explain Adi that he can stay but his mother cannot as she had no right due to the divorce between his parents. If Adi object then they should let him go it's called tough love and in time when things are not working out for him he will be back to Ishra.

Raman was wrong to make Ishita, adi's mother but she is not his mother. Ishita is not expected to take responsibility for Adi or love him more than anything. This only apply to the child's real parents therefore Raman does need to learn the difference between his wife and the mother of his kids as they are two different women. Ishita is at fault too since she always interfere between Raman and Shagun issues and their kids matters making assumptions, giving out advices ad more importantly she stupidly took actions for them when it's not her place to do it. So no wonder, Raman is confused about her part or job description when coming to deal with his kids.