Expectation vs Reality - Page 5

Originally posted by: arunabhi

exactly fights are a part of love and a successful married life 😉 ... It was Biwi who once told anger and fight is also an emotion which is expressed towards our loved ones and it was after that bench talk that Shagun started seeing the true side of Shagun, as in she means nothing to him 😆 .. So let's enjoy Puttar n Biwi's argument..
My my Puttar looked so cute n sexy in pink .. My heart is fluttering and butterflies in my stomach ☺️

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Puttar in Gulabi makes me wanna sigh, swoon and twirl. Don't have time to watch the episode but my day isn't complete till I stare at your collages and leave a ridiculous nonsensical comment.

So here is my nonsensical comment of the day! I see the forum erupting over some pheras, I am sure Ishita bashing is gonna continue so as a true Raman-Ishita fan who thinks one isn't complete without the other I am gonna stay away from the forum to preserve my sanity and my maintain my BP in the normal range. 🤣

If Raman is indeed gonna go in circles with Shagun around the fire then I hope he pushes her in the fire at the end of Lohri to burn the evil away. 🤣

For Raman and Shagun impending circle of fire!

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Gan... Aaj ka episode iss track ke liye bahut important tha... Two tracks are slowly converging... Ashok gave up his last weapon but this is not the last chapter... That second hand lecture has some significance because Mihika lost one trump card recently... She must gain another one...soon. Unfortunately, Ashok married Mihika unlike Shagun who was just his girlfriend... Bechara Ashok... That's all that i have got to say now...

Adi...Ma pe gaya hai beta... Another Airhead... He's a small boy who has every right to expect his father to love him but fathers love their wife also which is unfortunately not his biological mother. The sooner he realises this, the better it is for him... Raman holding Ishita's hand making Adi withdraw his hand is another pointer... Let us not go to that now... Let this track unfold...

Ruhi...The GAME CHANGER... She is seeing everything... Understanding everything... Ishima hamesha Ruhi ki ifasat karti hai ab ek beti apni ma ki ifasat karegi... She's the only person who can do it... She'll do it...

Adi is also showing his true colours... Slowly... Shagun is repeating same mistakes... Itna zeher inject kiya ki uske beta ab kaabu mein nahi rehnewala... He's going to dig a grave for her... Jo bhi ho, track is slowly moving towards its high point which will lead to its closure... Its been a month since Shagun came back... Bidaayi ki waqt bhi ho gayi... Sooner or later, it has to happen...

Originally posted by: shalz_123

res...coming back after watching epi...

beautiful quote n collage as usual...

unres...watched the epi... my heart went out to ishita... it is not easy to be in her shoes... looking from the doorway she saw her husband content while playing with his son... if such situation comes where raman has to decide between two... in ishita's place the type of person she is.. dont u think she wud think of sacrifice.. coz it is not hidden from ishita how much adi affects him n how much he yearns to be with him... so ishita will soon be in a fix..That's exactly what's been in my mind since the day Adi came back from the hospital...Ishita noticing and enjoying all these moments where Adi is bonding with the bhallas and especially with Raman and she's been withdrawing from the scene as an outsider...and the FB of his words about her being the eveil step Mom who snatched their happiness away...and even today, she noticed Adi's reaction when Raman reached out for her hand ...that gives a sick feeling in my stomach🤢
.n u dont need to mahaan to be in a fix in situations like this...

that is the only significant thing i saw in the epi.. raman adi bonding...well i can see his happiness.. n m happy for raman.. but...there is a huge BUT... yes that is precisely why I couldn't bring myself to make a collage of the bonding scene as I know the man will be shattered soon and will be forced to be in a position where he will be asked to choose between his two loves...

yes adi is spewing venom quite openly now.. ruhi will surely understand if not others...@ bold...that's what got me excited for the track now..as hopefully the end to this is near 😃

toshiji...well i remembered one dialogue i heard from someone " Boss and Mother-in-law can never be according to ur complete liking" i never supported amma so strongly before today...indeed a storm is heading towards her ishu...

Originally posted by: yshu8

Must say very sensible quote...for the umpteenth time I m writing this in the forum ,loved Raman, truely felt ,as a husband, as a father wat not, wat a commited man...

(loved the father son scene if seen from Raman's POV neglecting that adi was faking,Raman was living his dream,felt happy but one day truth will break him hard...but I guess its necessary)

Wished adi loved Raman just the way ruhi does, unconditional. But again not all can do that

Expected ur views abt Raman adi scene...

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Gan

Ur Title for the episode is so perfect...Loved collages of Raman Bhalla- CEO

Quote simply Lovely so perfectly emoting that unsaid emotion in that hand holding...

this was quite significant in some way (though i think it is but when CV's take U-Turn ab pata nahi when that significance & thought is removed from the Ishu-Raman Moment doesnt know :( )

I Liked the episode...It ws About in different Shades..him As Father.. As CEO Businessman...A Husband...

Like some Perfect Life he is Living where he has everything A wife by his side & Son whom's Love he ws craving For...

I Loved all the shades of this it ws shown...

Ashok-suraj ki Band bajao by Raman ws simply superbb...I ws actually Missing these Office scene so much..this Fun to watch...

somehow this Adi stunt lead to slip of Adi's guardian from Ashok's Hand...

Kuch toh Faida hua In a way...

Raman As Father----

This is Not for Adi but for Raman i liked Raman-Adi moments...these r like moments for Raman Living..For Him it ws Like Living A dream...the son he Loves most his weakness...always wanted these times he gets to spend with his son...were somewhere all Looked dreamy...

i loved the scene father-son together getting ready...raman helping Adi...

everything like Raman waited to spend time with his son...

some-how when reality is going to strike it will be leave raman heart-broken...i guess it will be soon coming...

when Raman will get to understand what actually Adi wants...

For Adi --this boy just like his mother thinks everything revolves around him only...each thought of his is like everything is for him... exactly my thoughts while watching the episode today..he reminded me of Shagun. He's programmed well by shagun to be her mini version...he inherited his mother's narcissistic genes and sense of entitlement..otherwise why would he jump into conclusion the Pooja was for him ?😲

Raman As Husband---

It ws simply worth in the end of the episode..It ws Kind of say a build-up for Raman as father Living a dream...

Adi kept in thought this pooja is for him his father is doing for him...but it ws striking the reality for Adi that his father is someone's husband too that pooja is for her...

when Adi all well prepared his father is going take his hand but Raman called Ishu there...

i loved that moment...

Even Toshiji telling Ishu happily ws something interesting there...tht time she also nt seen what Adi ws thinking for that it ws for all about Raman-Ishu's Life...

found very significant indicator as for atleast this moment when Times come Raman will be choosing Ishu above Adi that what episode started with a question by Mr Iyer..in end of the episode gave its answer...

i somehow felt this is like next phase of this track has started now...As Adi accepting Raman as father its Now Raman's turn will he going to accept his son's conditions...Its For Adi to realize his father is nt going to leave Ishu's side...

Precap ws cute & Interesting when Adi telling Shagun ishu will snatch raman from them..so now he is insecure...In small instance of Episode & in precap snatching the mobile can be seen...this insecure from Ishu & disliking for Ishu will be widening up more ...soon may seen more...

i loved in BG how there small little family spending time together...

Originally posted by: Spero

I'm a bit surprised that you did not make a collage of the father-son veshti scene:) It was a heart-touching scene from Raman's point of view. The moment where he sees his son combing his hair same as him - I was happy for him. the bg score and the thought that Raman's heart will be shattered was lurking in my mind and I couldn't relate to the scene as I did yesterday's Adi-Raman scene.

As for Adi - I know that he's a child, and he's being manipulated by his mother but I see no innocence in him. For me, this child is all about his wants and needs. he's his mom's son alright. I don't see how he's going to get better as a human being when everyone in the Bhalla house is doting on him and none, besides Ishita, seem to have a clue about what's going on in his mind. My little Ru will set this right later, I know.

Your title's very apt. Expectation vs reality.

Adi's expectation that Raman, Shagun, Ruhi and him will form a family.

Shagun's expectation that she will get back her place in Raman's life.

The reality is that Raman loves Ishita and his kids. But he does not love Adi at Ishita's expense. Adi and Ishita are not mutually exclusive in Raman's life. The poor child is unable to understand that. Here, I agree with most articles and comments that Ishita has given him the wrong expectation by celebrating the anniversary and even the forthcoming saat phere ceremony, if that's even true.Exactly the reason I had ranted that day...that was wrong! And it's going to cost Ishita. I hope though she learned from that day and doesn't go the same path.

I loved the fact that we got an amma-appa scene after a while. Amma's every point was valid, and I could relate to all of them. As a woman, I feel Ishita's pain and dilemma. Somewhere, there's even a feeling of injustice which I am feeling on behalf of the character. It's not wrong to be good, but don't be so kind-hearted that people walk all over you. yes Amma was bang on about her gripe about the whole situation...and if anytime I wanted Ishita to fight for herself...it's now! Yes Raman loves Adi...but if having Adi means Shagun as free...then she needs to fight because two of her loved ones : Raman and Ruhi...dont want Shagun.

Toshiji - so wrong and clueless. I'm annoyed with her but at the same time, I understand from where she's coming. But Toshiji, waqt ke saath chalna chahiye! This ghar ka chiraj notion is outdated in today's world. At least at my end of the world it is. I'm an only daughter for my parents and they never made me feel less for that.

Ashok and Suraj are so much fun nowadays. Their roles are kinda redundant but they provide some comic relief, which is much needed at times.

Mihir - a bit over the top today, but still secondhand wala coffee remark was a good one. i loved that line😆

Raman, the CEO's back!!! Finally!:) I love RKB in this kick-ass mode. Whenever the ep centres around RKB, it turns out to be a balanced ep. He was the loving father, the understanding and compassionate husband, and the CEO of our hearts. Just love this guy yaar:) I wonder if CVs are slowly bringing the show to the point where Raman will have to choose between Ishita and Adi. Appa's comment about the future, Adi giving his hand during the ceremony - all indicate that CVs are leaning towards this.

Ishita - CVs seem to have heard us and Maiya Yashoda is taking a backseat during the current track. I don't like using the term Maiya Yashoda for I feel that Ishita is Ruhi's mother in every sense. Ruhi chose Ishita. Ishita finally knows what's going on, but she's keeping it all inside. I wonder when she'll realise that Shagun is behind all this? Ishita loves Raman, but she's unable to talk this out with her husband. that's because all she has heard from Raman since marriage is how much the man yearns for acceptance from his son...and now she can see that happening ..Adi's angst is all directed at her..reat of the bhalla family he's embraced them well...so a person like Ishita, who is selfless would never do anything to jeopardize that, even if that means taking a step back and paving the path for Adi-Raman bonfing

Seems to me like Ishra still have a long way to go. And part of me still can't accept the fact that everyone, including Raman, seem to think that Ishita can give the wrong medicine to Adi by mistake! She's a dentist dude! that's called created convenience for drama 😆

Sorry for the long post, but this is the only place where I can discuss the show. None of the people I know, besides my parents, watch this show. My mum thinks this is a stupid show. Lol.

This show has too many spoilers and OLVs. They tend to ruin the viewing of the current ep at times. I'm really hoping that the Raman-Shagun saat phere news is just a rumour. I don't even want to think about that...Tunnel vision mode on in every aspect of YHM 😊

Originally posted by: geno0309

I am keeping away from watching the OLVs and other segments-but from where I see these two-I'd say fight away-aren't these fights, anger, sadness, guilt followed by overwhelming love & passion the crux that defines their relationship😳 frankly they are getting to be a bit monotonous & mundane-I want to see the passion-so bring it on!!

They are at a point in their relationship where no one & nothing can keep them angry and away from each other for too long:) So yeah am with you two here:)

Originally posted by: SurrealFantasy

I've landed one thread in the DT Note level today, so I'll refrain from ranting idhar.😆

Forwarded through Adi's scenes and saw only the temple part and the contract part. Both of Raman's arrows were right on target - from Ashok's viciousness and stupidity to Ishita's insecurity and pain. Let's hope this RKB is here to stay.

Read in the written update about Adi's outbursts - let's hope it brings out the true colors of the criminal - istic chameleon. If only Ishita would open her mouth - but whatever.

IshRa were good together as usual - but I do want a mini-separation. Not the divorce kind, but rather the Param fiasco kind. So that the Bhallas see both Shagun and Adi for what they are and not the manipulations they cause to hurt Ishita. Especially for Toshiji.

Does that make sense?

P.S. : I wanna add a gif, but my internet is acting spastic.😳