Why are we differentiating ourselves? - Page 3

@OP - I understand what you mean but sometimes people lose control because they're so passionate about their opinions. So it's likely to result in fights. Sometimes people understand others even if their opinions don't match but sometimes to get their own point across, people are willing to be hateful. And when it comes to "outsiders" starting fights then thats way too spiteful and people need to be more respectful. But you can't just blame people for having different opinions and not agreeing with each other,

Originally posted by: ankitasen

It's because Ishita has made some serious mistakes for last three or four months starting from bringing Param back in her house. We may overlook these "mistakes" but in real if anyone does so it will cost his/her marriage.

She brought her attempted rapist back in her house, brought Shagun to her own bed (that cancelled MiMi court marriage), happily attended her molester's wedding just after a day of incident, gave her husband's gift (blue gown) to her saut, told her husband a bucket of lies during Mani track and enjoyed his insecurity but remained oblivious why her husband was behaving differently, forced her husband to celebrate a marriage anniversary for a divorced couple, gave false hopes to Adi and again gave Raman's gift & most importantly ancestral earrings to an outsider saying it's just an earring...!!

All are some pathetic steps taken by Ishita. Still some people in this forum are defending Ishita vehemently no matter what. I was a big admirer of Ishita before but I could not relate to her anymore. Ishita and her mahanta seem fake now, it's NOT real.

The thing is if Ishita had not done the "mistakes" that you just listed, it would have been very out of character on her part. She always sees the best in people so although we may see it as wrong, we have to understand that her nature is to help everyone.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

@OP - I understand what you mean but sometimes people lose control because they're so passionate about their opinions. So it's likely to result in fights. Sometimes people understand others even if their opinions don't match but sometimes to get their own point across, people are willing to be hateful. And when it comes to "outsiders" starting fights then thats way too spiteful and people need to be more respectful. But you can't just blame people for having different opinions and not agreeing with each other,

Originally posted by: Nichuss

bang on the post vikas...

the same thing im trying to say from days...

wen we support raman's views then termed as ishu haters...

if ishu is supported on her view n raman is questioned... then JM lovers...

else its something or another... meh... i dont knw...

the thing everyone forgetting is its YHM... its ISHRA nt any individual...

wen any one is wrong its wrong... u can debate it with ur povs... but dont

insult the member with pov...

it hurts really...

Great post. The introduction of the serial itself states it to be different and touching areas not usually discussed. We hsd some preconceived notions in our minds and cvs did too. We may not agree with their manner of thinking but lets enjoy ishra and enjoy the forum also.
Completely agree with you.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

The thing is if Ishita had not done the "mistakes" that you just listed, it would have been very out of character on her part. She always sees the best in people so although we may see it as wrong, we have to understand that her nature is to help everyone.

Is it? Don't think so.
Is it the same Ishita who was jealous when she thought Shagun accompanied Raman while he selected western dresses for him? Is it the same Ishita who cried her heart out when Raman proposed a day out for him and Ruhi with Shagun and Adi? Point to be noted she was not even in love with Raman at that time yet she behaved like a wife, not like some selfless saint. Is it the same Ishita who stood up against her molester going against her in-laws? Is it the same Ishita who resisted Shagun thinking she was the culprit for Mrs.Iyer's accident? Why wasn't she so selfless then? Was that bad? No, she was real with right amount of goodness in her heart. The Ishita we see now is a mere shadow of that old Ishita whose only mission is to be selfless, just like any prime-time typical daily soap does and thinks whatever she does is right.

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

Yup this discussions are going out of box.

We ourselves started branding others calling groups.

Previously also discussion hapened and went serios but we never called ourselves by any brands..

Which is to be avoided.

Else it would be not good for our forum.