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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Nivi

You can look at it TWO ways:

1. Tipping point, maybe being caught with dishes is the sink was the first tipping point?
2. Baldev is safe enough for her to STILL CONTINUE lying to family?😃 U know what are the odds that Amma Appa will meet Baldev? If she gets his "buy in" then she is "all good"😈


Gotcha. Makes sense both ways. 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SunshineBliss

Interesting that it was Bally who was first let in onto this. Actually liked the way it all seamlessly kind of steered that way. I guess it's very real like situation to use an office colleague for a cover up rather than a personal one. She believed with her clouded R&B vision that Bally cover up would last longer... or come to think of it I don't think II is thinking at all... She is just so in R&B world. That is what makes her so real

And her equation with Bally - fantastic. Perhaps the fact that I share a very similar camaraderie with my desi co-worker who sits across my desk ; makes me endear to their relation all the more.

Love the way you are taking your story forward.

THANK YOU😃
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: nividances

Baldev is quite something all together. If I may ask, is he inspired at all from someone you interact with in your own life or is he just a figment of your imagination? Just curious.

II telling Baldev to stop watching saas bahu dramas was totally fitting given all of the crazy theories he was coming up with. 😆
Honestly, the fact that II confessed about her "affair" (if we can call it that) to Baldev was a bit of a surprise to me. I seriously thought that Akka would manage to put all the pieces together first. But oh well, at least the cat is out of the bag now, even if it is only Baldev that knows about it.
The fact that II thinks Baldev's last question is a trivial one is just 🤔
I liked the last bit about Subbu, especially seeing the Subbu-II relationship from Amma's perspective.

Eager to see what you have planned for us next, particularly now that you have divulged the important fact that you find arranged marriages to be so romantic. 😉😃


Baldev is inspired from ME I think😭

I am the shoulder to lean on for many of my hubby's guy friends... he will say "Basss, ab iski advice lee na tumne ab to PAKKA ho chuki tumhari shaadi😆, u will either find urself thrice divorced and twice bankrupt😆 or will forever be brahmachaari"🤣

YET THEY FLOCK TO ME😛😉




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Posted: 10 years ago
I'm up😊. Anything coming up?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Baldev is inspired from ME I think😭

I am the shoulder to lean on for many of my hubby's guy friends... he will say "Basss, ab iski advice lee na tumne ab to PAKKA ho chuki tumhari shaadi😆, u will either find urself thrice divorced and twice bankrupt😆 or will forever be brahmachaari"🤣

YET THEY FLOCK TO ME😛😉


That's hilarious! 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
It's time to go to work Nisha😭. Kuch ho sakta hai??😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
Heyy Nisha, was very busy with the real world so could not comment but nevertheless read them whenever got time. Just want to say you are an awesome writer. Read about your convo on arranged marriage, I also had an arranged marriage. Got married at 22 and came to this country and after 26 years and two daughters can only say, he is the best thing to have happened to me. There is no recipe of a successful marriage. Every persons situation is different, what may be rite for one person may not be rite for another. Can only say this don't be a door mat but on the the other hand be flexible. Give space to each other and take the other person as he is, don't try to change him. - shivani
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Posted: 10 years ago
Unexpected visits from friends... sorry
Next part in 10 mins

Aaj naukri par aane mein late
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Posted: 10 years ago
Waiting waiting waiting waiting... Need more R$B n II in dis part.. No Srikanth guy.. He can fall off a cliff.. I wont minf 😭 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

"MUJHE jhel paana BAHUT mushkil hai" SOUNDS romantic for a love story...

Will we SAY THAT at a workplace? We spend 10-12 hours a day at the office😃

Will we talk to our hiring managers like that?

We dont correct?

How come WE ARE ALL ABLE to be in our BEST CONGENIAL, CORDIAL COLLABORATIVE behavior at the work place but NOT in a marriage?


Being WILLING and WANTING to change is what marriage is all about... I am not saying women should be sacrificial doormats like a certain someone... or be Gloria Steinem like
There is a balance... for every man & woman its different... its somewhere between the 40th and 70th...😃

Those that cannot do it should stay single... its not the India of my parents times... heck its not even the India of 20 years ago...



So this is probably going to be a rant, a question mark or maybe I just need to write my thoughts out. I am in the same position as Wind and a couple others. In that whole confusion of marriage and where it will take you. Yes i do want marriage and yes I do know it takes time to establish a good marriage but how long. Is there a time frame?? And I love that you compared a marriage to a job. But here is the thing, there is always a big difference between a job you do for just the money and the job you do for your passion or for yourself..the job you do for just the money is always going to be something that you can never feel internally satisfied with. So then shouldn't that be the case with marriage too?
To be in a marriage for the sake of keeping a marriage is not the best thing either..you want a marriage with a person that you can see something with..that's the marriage you will fight and tooth and nail for.. And all of this rant down to just one question.. How the hell do you ever know?

Hope this make sense...

Though on another note, I met a guy today who did have a beard and I am so obsessed with your story that I honestly wondered if his beard would cause the same kind of rash that II gets with rb. Needless to say my friends thougt I was really weird..hehehe

Can't be wait for more..
Edited by hemanshi - 10 years ago

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