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Posted: 10 years ago
My finger and toe nails are like Rakshasan /Ravan's sister Shoorpanakha's
I DON'T WANT TO BE Rakshasan's SISTER

i am gonna go get groomed

See u girlies, after the primping and glossing
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

And oh!

I could very well write a part where R&B is all mushy and gushy... stays up and pines for her and writes love notes on every piece of paper, forgets to eat sleep and do his job



But that would be boring...

I will just let him be inscrutable until the very end... with little glimpses into what he did on a certain day or at a certain time...

Little nuggets like how she discovered hes similar to Manny thrown in here and there... nuggets like that and the comment from Sam "One R&B is enough"




I wouldn't like that either. Him thinking about her and pining.. that'd be creepy! I just wanna know him. I want info so that I can at least know if I can like him or not.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire



I wouldn't like that either. Him thinking about her and pining.. that'd be creepy! I just wanna know him. I want info so that I can at least know if I can like him or not.


You ALREADY KNOW so much about him

Hes an introvert
Hes is NOT expressive, errmm.. except in bed
Hes DEEPLY attached to his sisters
Hes HONEST and straight foward
He has a temper
He is resentful of his Dad
He is AS attracted to her as she is
He LOVES his job
He doesnt have 100 friends
He doesn't live by the norms of the society, his girlfriend was FRENCH and 6 years OLDER
He runs away sometimes from problems
Hes not depressed or suicidal
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire



Okay, so I'm going to explain my problems, be prepared! I find both the situations terrifying. Some people might call me a chicken for admitting this, which I actually am in this case but the concept of falling in love just like that or agreeing to an arrange marriage just bits the living hell out of me! I am a control freak. I like to know things. I like to understand a situation based on the things I know. But both love and arrange marriage is such an act of heroism (I find it heroic, I know it sounds stupid) an act of faith, that I'm just afraid of it. I mean, you meet a guy and you like him, but you don't know if he's gonna be compatible with you- if you fall for him it doesn't matter what happens next, chances are your heart is gonna get broken one way or another. And then comes arrange marriage where you don't know much about the person and you agree on it because you trust your parents judgement. But the problem is, I believe that everyone judges a person based on how they are themselves. For example, my parent are very lovely people and I know they judge everyone to be good until they prove otherwise. So the concept of arrange marriage for me is an act of leap of faith. And I'm not brave enough to take it!

(Basically I'm screwed! My mom has started praying to god that someday I'd wanna get married!😆 The rest of my family and friends have given up!😆)



That's the story of my life. I can't make myself believe in the institution of marriage. My family can't stop emotionally blackmailing me. I think you just have to be lucky, which only a few of us are. With marriages comes a perpetual fear attached, what if he is not the right one.😕
Edited by modernfamily - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


You ALREADY KNOW so much about him

Hes an introvert
Hes is NOT expressive, errmm.. except in bed
Hes DEEPLY attached to his sisters (friends in my case since I've got no sister!)
Hes HONEST and straight foward
He has a temper
He is resentful of his Dad
He is AS attracted to her as she is
He LOVES his job
He doesnt have 100 friends
He doesn't live by the norms of the society, his girlfriend was FRENCH and 6 years OLDER
He runs away sometimes from problems
Hes not depressed or suicidal



That's the problem!! He is like me in the highlighted points and I know how complicated I am! I've got this feeling he's a nightmare dressed like a day dream!
Edited by Wings-of-Fire - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


You ALREADY KNOW so much about him

Hes an introvert
Hes is NOT expressive, errmm.. except in bed
Hes DEEPLY attached to his sisters
Hes HONEST and straight foward
He has a temper
He is resentful of his Dad
He is AS attracted to her as she is
He LOVES his job
He doesnt have 100 friends
He doesn't live by the norms of the society, his girlfriend was FRENCH and 6 years OLDER
He runs away sometimes from problems
Hes not depressed or suicidal


Though I appreciate everything about this Raman, even I would like to get to know him better. Not in the way that he doesn't like chocolates or makes an exception for them only if it has sprinklers! 😛

I would like to get to know Raman in the way that we get to know what he thinks about Ishita, her family,about her, her looks, what does he like best about her (except her nose ring), does he appreciate her intellect, does he know she has a relative who is bed ridden at home, her favourite color.

Raman's thoughts about what is he going to do now that they have reached that point, if he wants to share this with his sisters, or if he ever thinks about his dad or thinks about sharing his problems with Ishita!

I know abovesaid are all serious stuff and you dont want that, but all this can be incorporated in a line or two in his thoughts.

Just saying😊

I love Baldev-Ishita as friends 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: modernfamily


That's the story of my life. I can't make myself believe in the institution of marriage. My family can't stop emotionally blackmailing me. I think you just have to be lucky, which only a few of us are. With marriages comes a perpetual fear attached, what if he is not the right one.😕



Sudhi

STRICTLY MY OPINION

MANY, or MOST go in with the fear THESE DAYS that "IT MAY NOT BE the right one"
Thats the biggest difference u know

There is a LOT of pessimism associated with arranged marriages as if "falling in love" Jab we Met style is the ONLY perfect way?
Maybe...

I married my husband with the thought "THIS IS IT HES THE ONE"

Not every man is a wife beater, or a abuser or a jerk or a lazy pig or a Mamma's boy
In fact 99% of them are EXACTLY like women

EAGER and SINCERE

U JUST HAVE TO BELIEVE😃

Sorry if I sound preachy
Didnt mean to😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
"MUJHE jhel paana BAHUT mushkil hai" SOUNDS romantic for a love story...
Will we SAY THAT at a workplace? We spend 10-12 hours a day at the office😃

Will we talk to our hiring managers like that?

We dont correct?

How come WE ARE ALL ABLE to be in our BEST CONGENIAL, CORDIAL COLLABORATIVE behavior at the work place but NOT in a marriage?


Being WILLING and WANTING to change is what marriage is all about... I am not saying women should be sacrificial doormats like a certain someone... or be Gloria Steinem like
There is a balance... for every man & woman its different... its somewhere between the 40th and 70th...😃

Those that cannot do it should stay single... its not the India of my parents times... heck its not even the India of 20 years ago...

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
No not preachy but practical. I'm a self-proclaimed romantic and romantics tend to be pessimistic. I thing marriage changes you. I've seen friends change and I imagine stepping into their shoes and don't feel it's worth it. Like I said, some people are plain lucky. You are one of them. If a person brings out the best in you then it's worth your while. Otherwise it's a nightmare and trust me I've seen those also around me. Just not a fan of marriages. So much so that I can't congratulate people who get hitched unless I'm forced to. The best I can say to them is "all the best"
Sorry for the rant
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Posted: 10 years ago
awesome as always...chalo kisi ko toh II ne apna raaz bataya...n she was so scared...true love...n she imagining baby with R&B in previous update was so cute...n u just showed brilliantly how relation with subbu was just bound to fail...there were distinct signs but II didn't care then...

would love to see hiw will they get married.. who will propose.. wat will be the circumstances... arghhh...just waiting for that

n plz dont stop...write about their life after marriage.. plzzz

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