Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine
Relax ... some of it wasn't as bad.
We tend to get riled up when we see things we don't wanna see.
But YHM has been a bit true to life - even in the negative characters. Believe me when I saw I've seen two individuals just like Shagun, in real life.
And what she's doing to Adi - I've seen that happen more than twice. Her belief that her marriage-which-isn't should be celebrated, ludicrous and incredible as it is, is also unfortunately one of the things sick ppl do today. And there are a lot of sick ppl in this world ...
Honestly, I feel Shagun's character is more believable these days than Ishita's.
BUT
Ishita is doing all this to make Raman happy as she knows Adi is Raman's weakness.
Now - she just needs to remind herself that it's the same Raman who agreed to send Adi to jail, or to stand up against him when Adi sent Ishita to jail, as Raman knew that was the right thing to do.
What Ishita doesn't realize is that in trying to molly coddle Adi, she may be taking him down the path of this fake family, which, when comes to a dead end will hurt him more than the truth will hurt himt oday.
BUT
I can understand that when in the thick of the situation, these things aren't as obvious.
I still say that barring some crazy incidents, YHM is going down the 'reality' and close to real life path. These things happen.
The 'crazy' I mention is the ex and the current living under one roof, playing happy family. Out of all of the folks in that house, Ishita should be the one feeling the most uncomfortable. They should show her struggling with it, and overcoming it,, if they want to go the mahaan Ishita route. But she SHOULD get insecure, she SHOULD get jealous, she SHOULD get angry and frustrated, she SHOULD cry. AND then they should show her getting over it, if they want to do that.
Also - a few of these times, she should end up taking it out on RamaIn. That's also normal. When we're mad, we take it out on those we count on, some times. Remember the time she was mad at Raman during the Sanjana phase? And he got mad right back at her - I loved those days. We can get more of that.
I know this will seem odd - but for me too much lovey dovey b/w these two isn't Raman/Ishita and YHM. It's Raman's one liners, Ishita's resilience through them, her bugging him. His bugging her.
Lately, it's been too heavy. Which is fine once in a while, b/w these two. But I wanna see the anger, the fights, etc. Maybe this will spark it.
Maybe Raman will go to his room tonight and tell her to pack up and get the real Ishita back. Or tell her to pack his stuff so he can leave. And then the Jhansi ki Rani will be back ...
may be ...
-S
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