Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 53

Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

Hello everyone! Koi nai tazi?

Originally posted by: StunningS

I didn't want to bring Mani track in my post but someone brought it hence I replied. If Ishita's sole decision making attitude is objectionable then why does not Raman voice it out? He told her not to interfere with Shagun after Mani's house warming party, Ishita did oblige and never looked back. Now what or rather who is stopping Raman?

Originally posted by: StunningS

I am not biased because I don't endorse Ishita's at times stupidity but many people here think only they are right. Raman as a character is specialized in drinking and whining tbh. Almost in every track he got drank and shouted at Ishita. He very rarely could give any solution to a problem, he always needed Ishita for that.

Oh really ? I agree raman was not sugery sweet but he never backed off from his responsibilities before he did all the right things when occasions demanded like

putting sister's husband in jail

putting son in community service though wife was ready to take case back

taking responsibility of whole family

being there for wife's family in hospitalization

dropping ex wife who ruined his life home in curfew by keeping personal emotions aside

standing up for her when she is expected to behave like an escort service girl to please his business partners by her current live in bf

Ishita actually understood that behind his camoflauge of rudeness and a dont care attitude , lay a good heart with strong values.

The problem never was his rudeness , she even fondly called him Ravan Kumar.

The problem was Mani . Her going overboard with his praise , regarding him as THE Mr Perfect and rubbing it on Raman's face all the time. To this date no one has told her that she did too much . Her sasural smiled and accepted it , her maika joined her in her bhajans. Actually sasural looks with raised eyebrows when bahu praises male friend so much ...and mother chides her daughter in private to focus on her marraige. Here it was all ulta. A Mani bhajan mandali was formed and Raman walked in night and day to find loud bhajans being sung everywhere ...in his family , in hers, in the bedroom , everywhere . Suddenly he was the bad guy , his wife was nowadays constantly irritated with him or making fun of him and nobody understood him .

Now please , this is strictly my opinion , and i would not even agree with anyone who said that cannot a wife have male friends etc , coz thats not the issue here . I am simply stating what was shown and this WAS shown .

Now there are many who will compare Shagun's presence in Raman's life with Mani's presence in Ishita's and say he deserved it and that Shagun too was rubbed in Ishita's face..

I disagree.

Shagun was Raman's divorced wife , an inevitable ugly past . Mother of his children.

Mani was nobody , just waltzed in from the blue as a 'best friend'.

Raman never talked about her , praised her . Hell , he even hid Mihir's relation with her , so much he hated her topic. He cut Ishita angrily whenever she foolishly tried to bring up her topic , he hated it when she put Shagun in their bedroom and he , the owner of that bedroom was forced to sleep out on the sofa. Like Shagun would have ever given up her bedroom with Ashok for Raman . He drank the dose of humiliation that Ishita forced him to take under the reason of helping a woman grudgingly , for her sake .

Ishita however constantttly talked of Mani . Mani Mani Mani , Mani this and Mani that . Ishita praised Mani . Ishita liked his topic. Her fandom surprised Raman . If he had brought in a girl friend saying he looked cute going with her to school , she in her pigtails and he in his muddy uniform and that she knew everything about him , more than his wife who constantly bugged him , i am sure he would be hated more than Ashok . Shagun is accepted indulgently as all know how much Raman hates her and because there is security for ISHRA relationship in that hate .

Even Ishita's sisters never had a heart to heart with her on the Mani jaap . They never had any individual opinions , were part of a mindless bhajan mandali . The mother surprised me the most , mothers r so perceptive and guide their daughters on the right path .

A marraige that was just taking off never took off because of Mani . Who gave this Mani importance ? Ishita.

However this is no blame on her . I am just saying that it would be nice to see a few scenes for a change where one would show Ishita the other side of the coin too .Why each time slaps only for Romi ? Raman slaps , Ishita slaps , Mr Bhalla slaps , how boring? Why not show Ishita getting a stern lecture , from Madhu or Vandita the sane sister as Mihika has changed bhajan mandalis nowadays and is in Shagun bhajan mandali ? By no means am i saying she should be slapped . Just a dose ?

If Ishita is SO wrong why Raman is silent? Why isn't he saying anything to her? It's related to her most precious criminal son after all.

Mani is Ishita's childhood best friend and she shared everything with him that she didn't even share with her parents. So it was quite understandable that she got carried away for some time. so you are justifying her actions where was her best friend when she was getting rejections from whole society ? where was he when subu rejected her if he is so much of her best friend ??

But she never disrespect Raman, in fact most of the times she talked about Raman only when she was with Mani
😲😲 Oh really ? who said : jalta he to jalne do??? who called mani hero ? haan, putting husband in front of best friend is not insult of him , it s respect 😆😆

she could hear all insult and taunting of mani to raman in hospital. aah again i will not buy reason of she was on bed, because she could thank mani for bringing ruhi she could at least show "dislike" expressions but she din care at all what is happening with her husband

The ignorance part was Raman's imagination and due to Ishita's white lies.

haan, wife ignores husband s pain even when he calls shani as home wrecker ?? 😲

aah I will not buy reason of she ignored him because he was drunk,because she got true intentions of ashok in his drunk status only.

I don't like rather I hate Ishita's act of changing Mani's name in the call list. But this silly mistake made her pay more severely.
Did she regret of her mistake? forget about redemption, did she even realize about it ??

Raman reprimanded her at KC night, humiliated her openly at AB party and almost tried to do what was most heinous act. Still you guys are blaming Ishita?

yes i blame her because she is only reason for this mess. it s her only who brought shani in between them. it was never raman.

Does a woman deserve to get ...(Im not naming it as many of you dont like the word associated with Raman but that is a FACT) for that? As I said Raman can only drink and whine, in Mani track he did the same. If only once he confronted Ishita or ask for any explanation, she would definitely clear all his doubt.

he asked, she was not giving explanation but she even din let mani to give explaination. so raman is not wrong even here.

But when you tried to ...someone and then demand an explanation, how could you expect an answer? He is your wife but that doesn't give you right to do whatever you want to do.

Sorry for not replying to each one, consider it my combined reply coz as a newbie can't post more than 10 in 24 hrs.

Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

JM apney agey kisi ko bolney deti hai .. Jab se vo ishita ka raman bana hai he is just a decoration piece to admire his wife chup chap. Uski chabbi ishu ke haath main hai 🤢😆

Bechara 😭😆

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Stunning: Don't give any explanation for Raman' actions and whether mani is right or wrong?

Think whatever you feel like and as per your own brain capacity.

But definitely like to praise you for coming here - and asking questions to us when you are very well aware of that most of us are not in favour of ishita's and mani actions.

You are brave girl and confident young girl.😃

P.S. No hard feelings for you dear.. God bless .. Stay like this be confident in whatever you are doing. Very few people has this quality.😊

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Zener- You are taking my post of " A person who writes long essay " 😭😡