Being a mother is an attitude *Updated*

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

"Being a mother is an attitude, not a biological relation."

Robert A. Heinlein

This quote I had used when I had made the collage of Ishita and Ruhi's 1st meeting... And this applies so perfectly to today's episode too... I couldn't find a better quote to fit.

Loved the episode today ..

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What an episode of bringing forth the stark contrast between a biological mother's indifference to her visibly shaken son's plight and parental instinct of a mother. Kudos to the CVs to delve into the depth of Adi's insecurities...a young pre-teen feeling probably like a fish out of water at his own home opting to rather sleep outside..or wetting his bed or unconsciously embracing Raman in his sleep...he's crying for help for someone to listen to him...his utter loneliness despite having a mother. He tried to reach out to his Mom but she was so busy scheming to ensure her position back n Raman's life, she dismissed his plea repeatedly and instead scared him to death by putting further burden on him that they might become homeless if he's not a 'good boy'.. A young boy so destroyed by his mother's brainwashing...he's caught up in the battle of love and comfort Ishita's embrace provided on one side and his Mom's constant fear mongering on the other side ...Shagun is such a narcissistic b🤬 ! Is it my over-reaction that Shagun was dressed up in Ishita's 'behenji' style?

Loved the little Papa-Adi moment too.

Ishra scene: RKB is feeding big time on Ishita's 'x-Ray' glasses insecurity... Loved the couple's banter...

Note:

So Mihika's now going to avenge Ishita's dishonor at Ashok's bachelor party. I wish she remembers her last plan of outwitting Ashok at his game almost got her raped and eventually married to him.And what's the big deal about photographs that Suraj took with Ashok's camera that the brothers were acting like they lost a business deal.

Overall a good balanced episode

Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago

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K.S.

@K.S.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

well eagerly waiting for ur post..
nice collage as usual..loved the epi..
ishu-adi scene was so nice..his biological mom is manipulating him and his step mom is taking care of dat kid..loved ishu-adi scene..and raman-adi made me cry...after a 7 yrs he is hugging his kid..kudos to dat scene..
adi yelled at ishu..don't liked it but his insecurities came before him..bed wetting..felt bad for him..hope ishu finds it fast..
raman ishu scene for seriouly 2 min..in which angle they looked lik they r acting..they r perfect in any way..same normal real life hubby wife..Hatsoff to KP DT..
BTW..after hall romance..and ishra getting their bedroom...i thought how they will sleep...if she wil sleep on couch.,that will b illogical..so cvs made this mov by adi wil sleep wid his papa for some days nd ishima wid ruhi...ways to stop consummation..so finally cvs used some logic..

Edited by luvabhiya9 - 10 years ago

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Remya

@remya1990

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lovely collage Gan, and wonderful wonderful post...

First of all sorry for being late to update.

"The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother,you are no longer the center of your own universe.You relinquish that position to your children."

-Jessica Lange

Ishita is the mother her, not Shagun and Shagun can never be. As you have quoted, "being a mother is an attitude". Apt quote Gan. I couldn't find an apt quote other than you have quoted.

Ishita became selfless in a complete way when she became a mother to Ruhi...when she felt the tinge of motherhood when Ruhi was around her. Ishita's character itself is a selfless one, but she became more and more selfless when Ruhi came to her life. She for Ruhi, could ask sorry from her Adi and his biological mother.At the time she knew her amma's accident was done by Adi, she could only forgive him...the love for the child was much more to her...

Now as much as Raman yearns for Adi's love, that much she too yearns...

A mother was drinking at night purposefully, to show others that how much is she tensed for her son...in that course of time she din't even mind to peep into the room of Adi...

The mother who was told that to keep a distance with the child as he is not comfortable with her presence couldn't resist herself from looking how is her children sleeping.

The moment the mother came to know her one child is missing and the other is tensed, she consoled her, settled her and without wasting any time she ran searching him. when she found him, she consoled him,brought him to his father, gave him medicines and settled him too. The biological mother dint knew anything...

What a mother Shagun is...Ruhi too is her biological daughter, not a second has she tried to ask her "how are you Ruhi..."

She was busy making her son insecure to make her secure and in that course of explaining, she couldn't even had the patience what Adi was trying to tell her. He was constantly telling her that he did some mistake...but she never asked what was the mistake he had done. Not a second she thought or asked her son what made him to sleep near Raman, because at night he was sleeping in Ruhi's room.

This track is about Adi...Adi getting a new mother, Adi knowing what love is and Adi knowing what is right and what is wrong. Its the time for him to claim his mother...Ishita.

Edited by remya1990 - 10 years ago

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maaloo

@maaloo

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Posted: 10 years ago

What a beautiful collage Gan! Superb! Loved the way you showed Ishita and Shagun - interacting with Adi.👏 The one who didn't give birth to Adi, is trying to protect Adi, and enclose him in love, whereas the one that did give birth to Adi, is trying to protect herself and filling his ears with hatred. What a contrast!! There is more to it than just giving birth and the influence one can have on a growing mind is just mind-blowing. When i look at the fictional character Ishita.. I feel we need more like her in this world!!

I was also touched by the bed-wetting scene. Cant even begin to imagine the confusion and fear and insecurities in the mind of a child like Adi. Adi misbehaving with Ishita and her looking the other way and ignoring it, shows her maturity.. She understands that Adi is behaving like a spoilt child because of the turmoil in him and I am sure if it were Ruhi or Shravan doing the same she would have taken a harsher stand.. 'cos they know that they are loved and wanted and they dont have any other insecurities.

Didnt care of Mihika-Ashok scene.. and didnt understand Ashok-Suraj scene. Mihika acting affronted with that sad background music vowing to revenge for her akka.. fell very flat..I mean she didnt think of her akka when it happened. She was trying to protect and console her bff shagun and now when everything has fallen down around her ears, she is thinking of seeking revenge? Too little, too late perhaps? The cvs have totally ruined her character and its not even believable any more. .Absolutely no sympathies there. I thought they were crocodile tears and wanted to shout at her for trying to garner sympathy votes. And fail to understand how deleted family pix can put the evil-bros' nose out of joint!! Kuch bhi!!!

Ishra.. put the two of them together in a frame and they create magic! Even in the most stupidest situations and given the stupidest dialogues they still manage to create magic!! Logic says that an educated woman, that too a doc, believing in x-ray glasses that can see what you have on underneath is a bit of a far-fetched idea.. but the nok-jhok and the fun that these two bring on the screen enacting it was yummm.. ☺️

Would love to see what happened to the missing gift for Adi..

Edited by maaloo - 10 years ago

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tannvi

@Badtameez_Dil

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Posted: 10 years ago

Gan wow simply wow those collages

i havnt watched the episode but im super excited to watch it now at 11 pm

im so in awe with ur collages another made so more excited as i wrote in ur post yest that precap maybe turn out be a scene b/w ishu giving some motherly treatment to adi

my guessing went in right direction seeing ur collage

above some raman coming into picture too...

rest rant will write after watching episode...

Loved ur updated Gan

it ws so well contrast ur wrote about 2 mother's one side Ishu even nt a biological mother still knws well about the goodwill of a child while Shagun more concern for welfare of herself...for her comforts...

I ws Looking for some little comfort Adi getting from Ishu from yest precap...

Adi needs a comfort zone so someone tells him dont worry they r there for him...shagun has scared him to dearth...he be made scared since past taunt him raman left him...his mind fed with these thought process..

today felt for Adi...

for me Highlight scene ws Adi-Raman it ws favorite scene...Raman craving for moment he gets to spend with his son...

I loved this part how Adi as Lonely child Ishu find him..gave a some affection...bought him close to his father...

i guess that how it is going to be like Adi 1st going to come close to Ishu before he comes close to his father...Ishu will bring Adi close to Raman...

just like it happened with Ruhi...

Raman ka X-ray glasses prank is going to be playout quite well..usko toh chaabi mil gayi hai apni madrasan ko darane ki...😆

It ws a sweet scene biwi helping hubby to get ready...

aur biwi ki suunkar maan le bought santa ki dress...

i hope to c raman's reaction on Biwi wearing bit western clothes...

hope we get some christmas romance too...

Red is colour of Love... :)

Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 10 years ago

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usaonly

@usaonly

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Posted: 10 years ago

Nice collages Gan it is so true what you mention one mother was try to soothing his pain and insecurity and the other side another mother try to burn him inner and put all burden to him.Hope soon he will find the way to come out of this mess and get all happiness he deserve from his family like Ruhi got.Oh I for got to mention other scene look like now Raman so fond in love with the glasses so he can teasing Ishu more.😉 That we can see more hug more touchy touchy and both look comfortable together now.😊

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Angel13

@Angel13

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Posted: 10 years ago

Amazing college
Great post
Loved Ishra scene
Wonder what's with x- Ray glasses
It's been showing quite couple of times
Wonder is it symbolic to something ir just teasing blunter between Ishra

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: luvabhiya9
well eagerly waiting for ur post..
nice collage as usual..loved the epi..
ishu-adi scene was so nice..his biological mom is manipulating him and his step mom is taking care of dat kid..loved ishu-adi scene..and raman-adi made me cry...after a 7 yrs he is hugging his kid..kudos to dat scene..
adi yelled at ishu..don't liked it but his insecurities came before him..bed wetting..felt bad for him..hope ishu finds it fast..
raman ishu scene for seriouly 2 min..in which angle they looked lik they r acting..they r perfect in any way..same normal real life hubby wife..Hatsoff to KP DT..
BTW..after hall romance..and ishra getting their bedroom...i thought how they will sleep...if she wil sleep on couch.,that will b illogical..so cvs made this mov by adi wil sleep wid his papa for some days nd ishima wid ruhi...ways to stop consummation..so finally cvs used some logic..

Thank you.. Yes the episode was good.. It felt logical.. Even Shagun was in character.

I loved that little flashback scene that played.. nice touch..

His yelling was from his defensive action he was ashamed that ishita would find out about his bed-wetting. Brace next week for some Hard times.. I have a feeling Shagun will go all out to prevent any Chance of Adi -Ishima bonding as that would jeopardize her grand plan of becomg Mrs Bhalla by hook or by crook .

I loved that banter...and RKB is enjoying teasing his wife and winning for a change with the x-Ray glasses 'weapon' 😆

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Sunita

@avni_19

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Gan Di... Absolutely Stunning collages👏 Must say, the first one, a total contrast of who is a better mother! One mother who provides all the love she have and the other mother who poisons her own son with insecurities and scaring the little boy. And the second one, the cute banter of Ishra...😳

A lovely episode today.. Enjoyed watching it! loved that cute papa-adi scene, his hug, and their flashbacks!

I hate Shagun to the core.. OMG!! She is not fit to be a mother. Truely Al Mighty did a mistake, atleast seeing yesterday's and today's episode , I felt so.. The way she was pouring poisonious words to Adi, it almost looked like threatening him to be a good boy or else we are kicked out! I was like Shitt!! what a MOM! 🤢 Using her own Son for her Benefits! Yuckk! Disgustinggg!🤬

Coming to Ishima-Ruhi scene, that was so blissful and beautiful. They look so real like real mom-daughter. The way Ishita talks to her , makes her sleep, carries her! I was in Awe seeing their scene! 😳

Getting such a scene after the court fiasco!

I thought you would be making an edit on Ishima-Ruhi! But no pressure😊

I total hated the way Adi spoke to Ishita but poor boy himself doesnt know what he is doing. He has completely lost his sense. Must salute Ishita's patience level. On one end, he is believing his mom and not moving friendly with Ishita and on the other end, he wants to be pampered by all. But at the same time, Felt bad for him for the bed wet and poor boy changing the sheets and washing them!

Last but not the least, IshRa Banter! It was ROFL scene! Raman pareshanofying his biwi with the X-Ray Glasses! 😆😆😆 Bechari Ishita actually believed it!😲😆

Ishita commenting on his petu aage nikal gaya! 🤣 Hilarious.. It was meant for Karan itself and not for Raman!😆😉

They looked so real, I didnt even feel that was scripted! A reel-couple doing the Real-couple banter! It was way too realistic! I loved that approach of Cv's and kamal ke performance by KP and DT👏

I really wonder, does any forum member got a hubby like Raman! hahaha! It would fun if I am not mistaken!😉😆

Gan Di, I totally loved the quote you used here. So apt and fits for Ishita!

I really wonder if women like Ishita existed in this cruel world!

What was with the precap.. Apshagun with her cheap kaand! I really wish if Raman gives her an earful!🤢

Hard weeks coming ahead after IshRa upcoming romance!

Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago