Originally posted by: mayu1982
Nisha
After reading so many comments related Ruhi talking like an adult- Like to express on my views on that- Yes kids become mature very early totally agree usually if they brought up by single parent. When my mama expired at age of 28 , my mami was just 25 with 6 months baby girl in hand. I have observed that kid that she mature before her age, sensible as compared to other kids of same age. But never ever she talks like an adult. In fact she was very caring, never demanding , smiling. But she never give fundas of life to us nor to her mom like this... SO maturity doesn;t means u need to talk an adult. I disagree. Matured Kids are not demanding in nature , adjust in any environment, show very less tantrums. In fact i have observed kids having prefectly normal parents talks like adult because they over pampered in family.Sorry being mother of 2 kids even I can't understand and likes kid talking like an adult. So every has different experience in this matter so i respect and understand fully if someone is having different views on this matter.
@ Megha: Even yesterday someone said to me that was ishita's motherly reaction towards raman. SO for me that was half motherly reaction. Just keeping aside my personal views on ishita character for a minute. If I place myself on ishita position , my first reaction - Like to know real reason for my husband' anger in school . Secondly I will go to mihika place , then take her right, left and centre class for creating this mess. I would literally tell her - NO RELATION IN BETWEEN US FROM ONWARDS. Because mihika gave very stupid reason for not telling them this truth because she don't want any problem in IShRa marriage. A motherly reaction doesn't understand any right or wrong thing nor any relation. Even if mother have to go against her own parents she will go against them as well. So for me atleast it is half motherly reaction. Somewhere they don't want to show ishita as human because human being is very selfish and does a lot of mistakesss. And above all she didn't said things which u describe in your to raman .. So for me ishita is not right and it was only to glorify ishita's pain only.
As far as episode part is concerned- Only thing which i like is suraj bandage and ashok testimony against shagun darling . Again shagun slapping him. I think even anita likes to do bajofy sangram 😆heehhe rest it was bit superficial emotional episode😉..Sorry not able to connect with these character emotionally.
P.S. No intentions to hurt or disrespect anyone feeling. Just expressing my pov.
I partly agree with you, but only to an extent.
No. Ishita was not wrong in shouting at Raman at that point in time. I don't think otherwise at all! She was severely in character when she asked Raman about his anger. As a normal person, even I wouldn't care about the reasons behind his actions at that point, because the ultimate consequence is going to be her daughter's future. I don't care if it's about Mihika or Shagun - he lost his temper and the result was the custody debacle all over again.
But, a huge but, the entire rant was a suspended moment in a huge tumultuous event. Ishita was seen consoling Ruhi with her platitudes about her father yesterday. That is her rational side.
Justifying a television character is nearly impossible; however these are flawed characters! I don't mean to glorify Ishita's rationale in any manner, but her reaction in shouting at Raman is entirely justified to me and I support it wholeheartedly. She was being selfish and I respect that as a person. Irrational is another word for emotions in TV shows 😆
You have to understand that she doesn't have any legal rights on Ruhi if they rose her custody. Raman does, but she doesn't. So her reaction was twice as huge. It doesn't define her or her view on Raman's relationship with Ruhi.
As far as Mihika goes, I don't think it's that easy to let go of your siblings. My grandmother brought up my uncle (father's first cousin) when his mother died and his father remarried. (His father is my grandmother's brother). The stepmother is a biatch - that doesn't mean we cut off all relations with their family. And Mihika was responsible for all her troubles - but Ashok was the main instigator. It's human nature to blame people not related to you, before you start on your own blood. Human Psyche 101. It was first shown on Mrs. Bhalla and now here.
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