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--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

@Natkhat angel I agree to u that such kids grow up fast- for them priorities being to be with people they love rather than icecream or PS4.

I wonder sometimes how wud Ruhi be reacting to Ishra relationship 😕 .

She looks at her mom n dad most of the times Fighting , sad mn unhappy with each other. During Mani track it was so bad that Toshiji had to shift her somewhere else.

I find her going all OTT when she mouths dialogues like Toshiji, n believe me those dialogues r really heavy even for a child from broken home. I too have seen such children. 😕

Other thing baffles me is Ruhi disrespects her parents by saying Oyee khote etc n none f her parents stop her from using that language, agreed she learns from her Daadi but still.

No wonder the judge wanted to review this case somewhere Ishra (both of them) r at fault for not being Parents to Ruhi n not solving their personal misunderstandings n giving her a Happy n safe environment.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
I notice yet another contrast...
Earlier at the custody trial Ishita was HONEST
She admitted being drawn to the girl and loving her and feeling a connection to her

Today Ishita made it all about the family and the childs future and emotional well being clap trap

WHY CANT TV FEMALE LEADS BE SELFISH AND yet be loving?

What wud be so wrong if she admitted she loves the child and wud never part with her?

I suspect even with Raman she will never admit how much she desires him
She will let him go if she realizes shagun wants him back

See Nisha here I disagree I understand now ishita stands in more roles than just one of a single woman who feels a deep connect to the child. She is now part of a family and she does not see herself Seperate from it. I don't agree that she will leave raman becos he wants to go to shagun in fact that would have been the case before but not now

It's now that she is selfish becos she wants it all.

Dunno if I am makin sense ???

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Raina

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
NA
Thank you for sharing your story
I stand corrected

I SOMEHOW get a very uncomfortable feeling every time Ruhi mouths adult lines

I know of many divorced parents in my city
their kids are friends with mine
but Ruhi seems a lil OTT in emotional scenes

Thanks for sharing

They've of course shown both the ends of the spectrum - emotionally grown-up Ruhi and insecure Adi. Fruits of the respective mothers.

I have luckily been a member of a nuclear family and my parents are still teens at heart. But I have seen my cousins - lived next door so almost siblings - be ground to dust midst their parents. I also know people who live together only because of their kids, which is not so much better either.

I wasn't talking about my cousins though - I was talking about my college room mate and her little brother. She was of age when they divorced but her brother was merely a little kid. I met him when he was nine, but he acted more mature than me. Sort of eye opening. I love that kid to death - so I get a little hyper when broken families are talked about. He actually went into foster care because his parents were not able to care for him while being miffed at each other. He's in college today - never talks about his parents - only his sister. Which is heart wrenching. Which is also why I like Ishita; for all her faults, she behaves well with Ruhi.

Ruhi isn't just a seven year old, she's a kid who's been to court twice about which parent she gets to live with, and last time Ashok manipulated her to choose Shagun. No wonder she doesn't want to go anywhere.

The tying together thing - I've actually done that.😆 Tied my father's leg to mine so that he wouldn't leave for his job (which was transferable) I was a very smart kid🤣

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--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Nisha,

I might be complaining but whatever 😆

I find Ishita's reactions to Ruhi case good- selfish n believable any mother in her place wud feel so. Her yelling Raman was gud too, but it wud have been believable if she wud hv given Raman hopes to fight this situation after her outburst. Raman says u r my strength to Ishita but her cries n pleas yesterday I guess was about herself only. She as a parent needs to understand that Raman too is losing his child n he too needs emotional support. Atleast one fleeting sec f dialogue from Ishita ki "hum milkar iska saamna karenge" wud hv been more believable. 😕 Or was it there?

Ruhi being grown up more than her age explained in my last post.

I dunno y did they hurry so much with custody drama? Again i have a feeling they will get custody for sometime than permenant custody coz no way the judge can give it to Raman whom she has seen the way he behaves infront f Ruhi.

Ashok testifying against Shagun might be used against her during Adi custody lets see.

I kinda feel sad for Adi more now, Shagun's marriage broke she is a mess n Adi is confused as ever.

Where is Bala in this mess? I thought Ashok made a deal with mihika that he will testify against Shagun if she marries(Mihika) him. They might show in flashback.

Suraj n alien 😆😛

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Raina

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
I notice yet another contrast...
Earlier at the custody trial Ishita was HONEST
She admitted being drawn to the girl and loving her and feeling a connection to her

Today Ishita made it all about the family and the childs future and emotional well being clap trap

WHY CANT TV FEMALE LEADS BE SELFISH AND yet be loving?

What wud be so wrong if she admitted she loves the child and wud never part with her?

I suspect even with Raman she will never admit how much she desires him
She will let him go if she realizes shagun wants him back

Earlier, she wasn't Ruhi's mother. She knew her as a kid from the neighborhood whose father didn't care for her and bonded with her as a motherly figure.

Now she knows that Raman and his family actually love her. She's not being selfless, but she knows that she isn't the only reason Ruhi should be allowed to stay with the Bhallas. She has already admitted that she wants her daughter to stay with her. She was extremely clear about it when she shouted at Raman yesterday. "Meri Beti kahin nahi jaayegi. Main nahi jaane dungi." Everyone called her selfish and knucklehead when she did that. 😆

And I think she is a little possessive when it comes to her things. Whether it be Ruhi or Raman. So I don't think she'll let go of Raman so easily if the time comes.

Edited by natkhat_angel - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Ishra not being Good parents - when one is a parent not just u have responsibility towards ur child but also towards ur partner.

How u behave with ur spouse/ partner also affects child psyche?

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Raina

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: mnr123
Nisha,
I might be complaining but whatever 😆

I find Ishita's reactions to Ruhi case good- selfish n believable any mother in her place wud feel so. Her yelling Raman was gud too, but it wud have been believable if she wud hv given Raman hopes to fight this situation after her outburst. Raman says u r my strength to Ishita but her cries n pleas yesterday I guess was about herself only. She as a parent needs to understand that Raman too is losing his child n he too needs emotional support. Atleast one fleeting sec f dialogue from Ishita ki "hum milkar iska saamna karenge" wud hv been more believable. 😕 Or was it there?

Ruhi being grown up more than her age explained in my last post.

I dunno y did they hurry so much with custody drama? Again i have a feeling they will get custody for sometime than permenant custody coz no way the judge can give it to Raman whom she has seen the way he behaves infront f Ruhi.

Ashok testifying against Shagun might be used against her during Adi custody lets see.

I kinda feel sad for Adi more now, Shagun's marriage broke she is a mess n Adi is confused as ever.

Where is Bala in this mess? I thought Ashok made a deal with mihika that he will testify against Shagun if she marries(Mihika) him. They might show in flashback.

Suraj n alien 😆😛

@Bold: I hate him as a character because his mind is a devil's workshop, but I understand why. Shagun is very fickle - the child has no stability. Ruhi has an entire family to scold her father when something goes wrong, but he has no one. So, he thinks his mother is always right.

@Red: I don't think so. Mihika was shown partying it up with the Bhallas after the custody drama. But who knows?! I don't want it to happen though - no wrong weddings in at least on serial, please!

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--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

@Bold: I hate him as a character because his mind is a devil's workshop, but I understand why. Shagun is very fickle - the child has no stability. Ruhi has an entire family to scold her father when something goes wrong, but he has no one. So, he thinks his mother is always right.

@Red: I don't think so. Mihika was shown partying it up with the Bhallas after the custody drama. But who knows?! I don't want it to happen though - no wrong weddings in at least on serial, please!

I dont hate anyone except Mani in YHM. 🤣 Well What u said is true that Adi has no one to guide him Right n Wrong n he looks at his mother crying etc he tnks somebody else is doing Wrong with her.

Mihika might not finally marry Ashok (its only Shagun acc to me 😛) but i think she will temporarily agree to marry him so that Mihir is not affected because of her scandal. 😕

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Raina

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: mnr123

I dont hate anyone except Mani in YHM. 🤣 Well What u said is true that Adi has no one to guide him Right n Wrong n he looks at his mother crying etc he tnks somebody else is doing Wrong with her.

Mihika might not finally marry Ashok (its only Shagun acc to me 😛) but i think she will temporarily agree to marry him so that Mihir is not affected because of her scandal. 😕

I don't hate Mani. Useless character, but not a threat to anyone.😆 He was never a a competition for Raman. So, who cares?!

Adi on the other hand is the biggest problem. I feel like Raman will have to choose between Ruhi and Adi in the distant future. Gut feeling.😕

Yeah. I wouldn't care what happens, as long as Mihika and Mihir get married. They've been wanting to get married for ages. Poor kids.🤣

I want Ashok and Shagun to end up together. As long as that happens, nothing with affect anyone in the Bhallas.

YMH has shown the right side winning continuously so far. Positive endings to all the tracks, so let's hope Ekta keeps it up that way.