Raman is ALL ALONE at the end of the day - Page 4

Originally posted by: MonalSingh

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I read few posts above and I agree with them that Ishita has low self esteem and no experience of physical intimacy. Despite that fact she was not hesitant to start a married life with Pratik in truest sense. Point to be noted that she was NOT in love with Partik. But here case is very different, she is madly in love with Raman, she herself declared that Raman is her "entire life". Then I don't think these two barriers should work in force anyway. The fact is Ishita has taken Raman for granted.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Mayu

I do agree with u that in reality one person do more than other but in show it's witness thta there is no effort from ishita side and when raman did she mostly back off with her monologue like lecture chhee and kuch bhi word. I don't think so her past has any impact on this matter but she is too much lenient when it comes to Raman and relationship. She needs big jhataka to come out from this. Healing and redeemable track.

Megha

Exactly only show her goddess and great mother and daughter in law and social worker they ignore wife feelings. Only hope is on this new girl

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Mayu

That's why I said na mani track killed ishita character

Before also she was passive in relationship but atleast she was not disaster like mani track.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Jaya .. If you look YHM from beginning IShita was not like this before even she was moving this relationship as well. Examples are:

1) During amma accident- Raman was sleeping on the floor and was struggling to sleep without giving any second thought she gave a shoulder to him and was peaceful sleeping on his shoulder as well.SO there is no "CHee" for her.

2) Waiting for him for dinner late night- again during amma accident

3) Night walk - bench talk.

4) again Bench talk - matured talks..

SO its after amma accident where ishita wife is completely taken back seat or not ready to move this relation in terms of marriage.

After mani entry this ishita character is totally butchered there are thousands example where ishita has ignored her family and has given more importance to other matters. But one such example is

Raman was insisting her to stay with him instead going to MURGLI Party of SHagun but she went saying mihika will feel bad and shagun has come personally and apologised or whatever. THere are times when wife has to lie even with your loved ones to spend time with your life partner and there is nothing wrong in that. SO yes I blame cv for miserably showing ishita has a JM & JJ more than good wife..

Now ishita was ready to marry partik part is concerned - ishita never showed any excitement for that marriage as well. Somewhere ishita was aware that amma wants to get her married and so she was ready. In other words that was again forced marriage.If they got married and am damn sure they would have landed in court for divorces as well because ishita is struggling with a lot insecurities and has very low self esteem.

P.S. again am not justifying ishita's wrong action but blaming cv for creating this JM ishita..

Originally posted by: mnr123

Physical intimacy is CVs problem they sometimes show Ishita trying to lure Raman sometimes chee so as a viewer we get confused with her confusing reactions.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Nope ishita is equally to be blame because she was not majboor or blackmail by mani or anyone but her whole reaction was by her will and as I said in Vyas post there are many factor which makes me hate and disrespect her. She didn't even shown saying sorry or understood raman pain and ignore ruining whole mani track.