what happened with meehika is RAPE..

gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

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On one hand we have Crime Patrol and Savdhaan India, warning women of the possible atrocities than can be inflicted on them..and asking them to be careful at every step.

On the other hand, we have these ridiculous shows, claiming women be to be modern and smart,and yet portraying their actions in such foolish manner!!

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momb24

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Very thought provoking posts on here. It is the perfect opportunity for justice and correcting the wrong done by the cvs by getting both ishita and mihika put in a complaint against param,Ashok and surag and get them arrested.

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begumparaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Miracle_lover

Very logical and well put ! Yes, I don't think rape took place. She herself went and seduced him, anyone may think that after being surrounded by "chutkus" like Mihir and Raman, she was physically attracted to a tall and handsome stud like Ashok.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: begumparaa

Very logical and well put ! Yes, I don't think rape took place. She herself went and seduced him, anyone may think that after being surrounded by "chutkus" like Mihir and Raman, she was physically attracted to a tall and handsome stud like Ashok.

After reading these posts, one thing that is clear to me is that this country desperately needs consent education. in schools, colleges, workplaces, everywhere.

@ red: no she didn't consent to it. she was unconscious so there never was consent as she was not capable of giving it.

therefore, what ashok did after she was unconscious constitutes abuse/rape/molestation.

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anwesha rath

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Posted: 10 years ago

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How are we saying she consented to sleeping with ashok? She was unconscious for crying out loud..yes she was stupid enugh to go to tht room but stupidity is not a justification to get raped..if she were conscious and consented it wud have been diff, noone wud have argued..but here it is definitely rape..its the same as a date rape with use of sedatives and amnesia causing drugs..

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Wel..we are still not quite sure if it is rape, you know...Ashok, being the jackass he is, might just have removed her clothes bt not done anything..but then, if he did remove her stuff, he wouldnt let go of the opportunity to have his share od fun..

i disagree..Mihika nowhere consented to it..she didnt even have it in her mind that sex would be brought up in this appalling way..but then, why shud she be so at ease with Ashok, is what I wonder? I mean granted, you want to save ur nanad's life, go do that..but please...do not assume her wud-be-fiance wud spare you in a honeymoon suite, goddamnit!

I just feel sorry for her...we all saw it coming...it wasnt that easy..ths stupid plan wasnt worth getting raped for, atleast!

I hate Param, that slime...who gets slapped around even in ADHY (Like Ok), coz he is busy kissing and groping married women there as well...he needs to be kicked hard..Ashok wudnt dare do all this nonsense if he didnt have the prime backing of this sleazeball..and of course, his dear brother Sun. ridiculous!

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Posted: 10 years ago

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About the rape we cant e sure. Ashok may have just taken off her clothes and made her lie in that compromising state 🤢 But say it was rape what evidence does Mihika have to prove her point? She may have done all that to expose Ashok but there is no denying that she tried to seduce him. She should have planned the whole thing better rather than go about it dumbly. I wish I can feel sorry for her but right now I am mad at her 😵 Just saw a flash of her wimping before Shagun yesterday and I felt like throwing whatever I got in my hand at her 🤢 Disgusting! She is trying to plead her case before a woman blindfolded in her greed and stupidity. Shagun was shameless enough to walk out on her husband and lil Ruhi to spend her life with a spineless coward like Ashok. Even Mani tried to show her his real face Shagun was in denial. How much more pathetic can it get? Since when did Mihika start caring so much for Shagun? A woman who left no stone unturned to ruin her sister's happiness 🤢 Sorry to say this but I am certainly not sorry for Mihika. Maybe I am feeling bad for the woman inside her but no point feeling so much for a person who dug her own grave.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Yeah, I'm actually pretty pissed about the entire situation.

Mihika was raped! Ashok straight up drugged her and took advantage.

All those saying the don't feel bad for Mihika are such misogynists and women-haters. They've been brainwashed by the patriarchy to think that a women can ever "Dig her own grave" when it comes to rape. Seriusly.

A man always has a choice. If he violates a woman, the woman is NOT at fault.

I'm going to stop watching the show if they show Mihika marrying Ashok/ Ashok getting off scot-free.

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About the rape we cant e sure. Ashok may have just taken off her clothes and made her lie in that compromising state 🤢 But say it was rape what evidence does Mihika have to prove her point? She may have done all that to expose Ashok but there is no denying that she tried to seduce him. She should have planned the whole thing better rather than go about it dumbly. I wish I can feel sorry for her but right now I am mad at her 😵 Just saw a flash of her wimping before Shagun yesterday and I felt like throwing whatever I got in my hand at her 🤢 Disgusting! She is trying to plead her case before a woman blindfolded in her greed and stupidity. Shagun was shameless enough to walk out on her husband and lil Ruhi to spend her life with a spineless coward like Ashok. Even Mani tried to show her his real face Shagun was in denial. How much more pathetic can it get? Since when did Mihika start caring so much for Shagun? A woman who left no stone unturned to ruin her sister's happiness 🤢 Sorry to say this but I am certainly not sorry for Mihika. Maybe I am feeling bad for the woman inside her but no point feeling so much for a person who dug her own grave.[/QUOTE]

sooo sooo sooo agree!

Yes, am taking turns feeling sorry for her and wanting to slap her for behaving like a wimp in front of Shagun. Shagun, that greedy, undignified callous woman who deserves to actually be with Ashok. I mean, if a woman is okay with marrying a man who is marrying her only for the sake of a stupid contract, after living in with her for six goddamn years, well...wat can be expected of such a troll???

I have understood one thing out of this whole mess- No matter what, Shagun will not leave Ashok. And that in a way, serves that creep right who wanted to wriggle out of her clutches..lol

I'm really not worried about that crazy woman. I am worried about the impact on MiMi and IshRa relationship. Is Shagun such a deserving person who warrants such sincerity and loyalty from Mihika? Why does she have to risk her respect in line for that mad woman?? Itna pyaar achanak se uske liye kahaan se aaya??? And I'm really, really, sorry..but her loyalties have wavered to a point of no return...her stupid callous favourist attitude has landed Ishita in sooo much trouble in the last few episodes...why so much Shagun rant? just coz she is Mihir's sister, when he himself wants to do nothing with her...?? It is unacceptable to me. Really. This so-called modern woman was begging Shagun to "leave Ashok, understand her'...is it soo goddamn important...I felt the same nausea and feeling of hatred when I saw Mihika barging into Ishitas's room and complaining about the stupid gown that Shagun so desperately wanted...i felt like whacking her in the face...when you knw ur Akka is so emotional, why make her go thru the route??

And despite Shagun behaving like a third grade, cheap, hollering woman out of her senses, I agree with one line she shouted out loud "kaunsi aurat apni saut ke liye itna kuch karti hai?" as a response to Raman's celebration of Ishita's Devi Maiyya attitude...god, that's wat we've been wondering about all these days? Which wife does that?

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: lovely_lady
Yeah, I'm actually pretty pissed about the entire situation.

Mihika was raped! Ashok straight up drugged her and took advantage.

All those saying the don't feel bad for Mihika are such misogynists and women-haters. They've been brainwashed by the patriarchy to think that a women can ever "Dig her own grave" when it comes to rape. Seriusly.

A man always has a choice. If he violates a woman, the woman is NOT at fault.

I'm going to stop watching the show if they show Mihika marrying Ashok/ Ashok getting off scot-free.

Ashok, the man here, did have a choice you know. But think for a minute, did they meet up in the honeymoon suite accidentally? Was it a by-the-way kind of conversation? Was Ashok a trustworthy, decent man? Did his past behaviour show he could be trusted not to have his way around women? Why then would Mihika collect all the weak points from every factor and go right in the middle of the lion's cage??? Feeling bad for Mihika will not change the fact that she indeed, took up a very very risky mission..without informing a single soul about it..

I would have even believed had it been a work-related project these two were working on, for which they had to be in the same room together and spend considerable amount of time...but having a botched up idea of hidden cameras, recording shit, seduction and then outright defamation of the creep...I dont think any woman shud implicitly trust men to do her snooping work (like dumb Mihika trusted and relied on the creep technician) who anyway backed out on her, without having a few good supporters and a solid back up plan on her side...never ever! And worst of all, she chose the wedding day for all this nonsense! Saying Ashok should have just remained content in calling out her bluff and not physically doing anythin to her, is like going into the swamp and asking the crocodile not to tear your flesh apart...you cannot change people's nature so easily, you got to simply be more careful..

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