what happened with meehika is RAPE..

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@avyarima

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
Mihir's, Mihiku went deliberately with Shagun, Ashok baby in the bedroom so it can't be described as rape.
i don't watch the show anymore but read your post.

EXCUSE ME!!!!! YOU DIDNT JUST WRITE THESE WORDS. I ALWAYS RESPECTED YOUR POST UNTIL TODAY.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOURSELF IF YOU CAN BECAUSE I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOUR DEFINITION OF RAPE!!!!

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radhika_2001

@radhika_2001

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

hope the cameras that were installed will bring out the truth what really happened..other than that i dont think mihika has done the right thing by hiding the truth from Ishita-Raman and Mihir..She should have carried out the plan with them so that they could back her up if anything goes wrong!

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shivamala

@shivamala

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Mihika had a good intention to save Shagun but she gets trapped. Which is sad. Knowing Ashok character she should have been more careful.

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Raz2012

@Raz2012

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

I can't believe the amount of ppl here saying that mihika actually deserved what happened to her,& that it wasn't rape! I'm not justifying mihika's actions,it was a stupid move. It was also extremely foolish of her to drink anything ashok gave her, but she did. But the fact is she was drugged therefor she did not consent to having sex with him. Her ways were wrong but her intentions weren't. No matter what,if a women doesn't willingly comply, it's rape. It doesn't matter even if it is your husband that has sex with you!! If a women says no then it's no!(or even a man,cos rape can happen both ways). But the point is someone trying to seduce & gather info to expose someone isn't asking to be raped.
But drugging someone & having sex them is!!

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hiba

@mriara13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I know mihika took this step very irresponsibly, she should have confined in mihir, bala, or at least opened up to ishu. But alas yeh tu hona hi tha. And I feel terrible. No woman and I mean no woman how ever dumb, stupid, or annoying deserves this. I hope she receives the justice that she deserves. After that hopefully we well get our Ishra confession ;)

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Supneetkk
Wise women who sometimes have sex with their boyfriends who promise to marry them, if those men don't marry them - it's rape. Many many case laws are there. d

Actually, rape has nothing to do with marriage. Rape is non-consensual sex. If a woman has sex with a man willingly, then it's sex. It doesn't become rape just because he doesn't marry her.

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

No one knows if Mihika was even raped. Ashok could have staged the whole thing to show her in a bad light. Let's wait for tomorrow's episode before deciding that it was rape.

Also, I'm sorry if my post made it seem like I support rape. I definitely do not, but sorry to say, I find myself having zero sympathy for Mihika. This whole track has portrayed Mihika as a very dumb character who responded to Ashok's advances on several occasions just to show Shagun he was a leech. I'm not saying she deserved rape (if it did happen), but her stupidity makes it very hard to sympathize with her. I don't think anyone should respond to a man's advances if they are not comfortable with them. It's plain wrong. I agree it was not Mihika's fault that Ashok drugged her, but allowing herself to enter his room and flirt with him was very wrong of Mihika. Everyone suffers the consequence of their actions, and unfortunately Mihika is too. Does she deserve it? No. But did she have it coming? Unfortunately, yes. You can't compare Mihika's actions to a woman walking the roads of Delhi at night. Although it is dangerous for a woman to walk out at night, it's not direct danger. There is still a high chance she'll make it home safely. Whereas entering the room of a pervert and flirting with him is like walking directly into a lion's den. There's no chance of a safe escape. A woman who is raped walking the streets at night has done nothing irresponsible. She has a right to freedom and walk where she wants at any time of the day. Whereas a woman like Mihika who flirts with a pervert and enters his room with him knowing what he's capable of is downright irresponsible. NEITHER deserve rape, but one is more responsible than the other.

I never said and never will say Mihika deserved what she got. There's a difference between deserving something and being irresponsible. I don't sympathize with Mihika because of her irresponsibility. Does that mean she deserves what she got? No. If she was raped, then definitely she should get justice and have Ashok properly punished. But that doesn't change the fact that her character has become highly irritating and dumb. You can't blame viewers for banging their heads on the TV screen whenever she's on.

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jennifer

@Miracle_lover

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..
No one knows if Mihika was even raped. Ashok could have staged the whole thing to show her in a bad light. Let's wait for tomorrow's episode before deciding that it was rape.

Also, I'm sorry if my post made it seem like I support rape. I definitely do not, but sorry to say, I find myself having zero sympathy for Mihika. This whole track has portrayed Mihika as a very dumb character who responded to Ashok's advances on several occasions just to show Shagun he was a leech. I'm not saying she deserved rape (if it did happen), but her stupidity makes it very hard to sympathize with her. I don't think anyone should respond to a man's advances if they are not comfortable with them. It's plain wrong. I agree it was not Mihika's fault that Ashok drugged her, but allowing herself to enter his room and flirt with him was very wrong of Mihika. Everyone suffers the consequence of their actions, and unfortunately Mihika is too. Does she deserve it? No. But did she have it coming? Unfortunately, yes. You can't compare Mihika's actions to a woman walking the roads of Delhi at night. Although it is dangerous for a woman to walk out at night, it's not direct danger. There is still a high chance she'll make it home safely. Whereas entering the room of a pervert and flirting with him is like walking directly into a lion's den. There's no chance of a safe escape. A woman who is raped walking the streets at night has done nothing irresponsible. She has a right to freedom and walk where she wants at any time of the day. Whereas a woman like Mihika who flirts with a pervert and enters his room with him knowing what he's capable of is downright irresponsible. NEITHER deserve rape, but one is more responsible than the other.

I never said and never will say Mihika deserved what she got. There's a difference between deserving something and being irresponsible. I don't sympathize with Mihika because of her irresponsibility. Does that mean she deserves what she got? No. If she was raped, then definitely she should get justice and have Ashok properly punished. But that doesn't change the fact that her character has become highly irritating and dumb. You can't blame viewers for banging their heads on the TV screen whenever she's on.

Thank you ! you just saved me from saying all those things ! This is a discussion forum and I believe we are all entitled to express our different opinions. We don't mean to offend anyone with our thoughts and different ways of viewing things than the majority.

Edited by Miracle_lover - 10 years ago

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jennifer

@Miracle_lover

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: avyarima

sorry, but even a paid prostitute does not deserve to be raped. By saying you dont feel sorry for a good girl who is raped due to her mistake means you believe Mihika deserve to be rape by Ashok.
I HOPE FOR THE LOVE SO GOD YOU DONT MEAN THAT IF THE VICTIM ACTS STUPID, THEN ITS OK. SHE IS AT FAULT??? REALLY?????

K just to point out no where in my post its says "Mihika deserves to be rape by Ashok". What I said is that I don't feel bad for her as in I DO NOT SYMPATHIZE for her situation. Why ? because she knew that there is a possible that things might turn ugly if her plan does not wok out. Hence she was worried and scared the night before !

And like it or not YES SHE WAS AT FAULT and let me be clear with what I mean by that. I don't mean she is at fault because she got raped/assaulted by Ashok ! I said she is at fault because she acted stupidly. She went into the lion's den when she knew about the consequences. If a woman/man knows that by going to a particular location can cause them harm but they still go to that place then who's fault is it ? Mihika's situation is different then your regular rape victims. Mihika knew that Ashok was not good from day one and he even continuously harassed her at work.