Personal Life

There is so much talk about respecting the personal lives of actors, not intruding upon their privacy, not advising them about their personal life , so on and so forth. It certainly makes sense.But not pragmatic.In the sense when they evince so much interest about them selves in public life.And many of them let the public know through so many ways about their childhood, school, college,likes,dislikes,how they celebrate festivals,their views on certain matters of public interest , sometimes info about their parents etc etc. Also frank admissions about relationships.Then in such a case specially those actors who are in the lime light are going to get all sorts of responses. When actor's popularity wanes these issues become non- issues for at the end of the day public memory is very short. So viewers ,fans ,others and actors should not take it so personally. Let us all temper our comments with moderation.Whether we are the aggrieved party or not. Nobody wishes anybody ill.It is just that we all have our favourites and sometimes get carried away. I really feel it should not reach a stage whereby feelings are hurt.A little restraint on part of actors and people commenting about them would resolve the issue. Spice and gossip help to keep people in public eye.Well then if that is not liked then public figures should be very wary about giving information about them selves. All this is easier said than done.A tacit understanding to keep a certain distance is the only way out for both actors and those commenting about them.

It is a two way traffic. The actors gain popularity, earn big amounts of money because of the fans. Their success is because of the fans. Actors lead a public life most of the time. They use fans for their own needs. And they expect fans to dance to their tunes. All these come with the territory of entertainment world. When their project is on air, they remain under scrutiny every minute. Once the project is over, they fade away. Hence if they do not want their fans to criticise them, they should also take the responsibility of behaving with decorum in the public..they can do whatever they want in house. Fans will not intrude. But if actors conduct inappropriately in the middle of a public area, they should not expect mercy from the fans. This goes for all the actors/actresses in the entertainment industry all over the world. Amen.

great post!

someone post this at twitter so tht they all can see n realise it ...

I am reading all these offscreen drama since from few days.. I wonder how these actors took Twitter and Instagram to complain their fans behaviour.. I agree that everyone has personal choices to dealing with the matters but being in limelight u should get ready for all sort of situations.. No one is speared in this entertainment industry from Hollywood to bollywood and even in this tv industry.. If u r popular then ur gossip is even more popular.. U r a D grade actor ur gossip is D grade as well.. There r all sort of news from all sort of people..u go and read about a particular celebrity there is all sort of news about him or her.. Good and bad.. U just can not stop this.. If u r a shahrukh ..u r not any God to spare the criticism.. U need to get ready for more popular gossip from his life...all to take the situations under control is u should not give a damn about these gossips.. These r the same fans made u their fav..if u r not liking their behaviour ignore.. They will be normal after few days.. And after ur show is over I bet no one gives a damn.. atleast I Don't give a damn..

👍🏼true both fans and actors are responsible for creating so called war on twitter or insta. Like i said earlier as well for every action there is equal and opposite reaction. Actors should not provide any action scenes😉 then they will not get any reaction from fans as well.

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Originally posted by: ashu9

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exactly...i too think if actors can publicize their personal life for their popularity or to be famous then why they r telling that fans should keep themselves away from their personal life. Isn't it double standard?? After all they r doing parties with their friends or they r choosing their life partners by their own -- but they r worried about dictation from fans!! I mean when did they follow us...i think fans follow them. If u r a actor then u should accept bashing simply. And stop accusing fans for anything...fans loves u and thats why they discuss about u. The moment fans will stop it actors will loose their position & thats why actors never left any chance to publicize. So genuinely actors are ready to publicize anything, anywhere - it doesn't matter how cheap it could be(PS - not for all)...but let me clear if u r making ur personal life public then their will be so many criticism where some will love u blindly or some will hate u blindly. Actually both is responsible for bashing...nobody is interfering anywhere unnecessarily .

if somebody in on Insta or twitter, it is my humble request please post this .. the actors should realize that they cannot insult fans for their own "inappropriate" behavior. At the end of the day, fans do not need actors to survive. But actors need fans to survive. Without fans, actors are big ZERO. AMITABH BACHCHAN, GEROGE CLOONEY ,MADHURI, MERYL STREEP, SRK would be NOTHING without their fans.