YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #40 - Page 99

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

uurrghh Sorry internet vanished for a bit!!!

Anku 🤗 u should also start making posts u know..😳 I completely agree with most of what u say! But then im looking at it from another point of view.. In Raman's own words - he said its not in his fitrat to let go! And much as i understand that pyaar mein aur pyaar ke liye ppl are ready to go that extra mile, i still want to have doubts on Raman letting go of Ishita!! IMHO its too big a step and too too critical/crucial for him to take! This man when he loathed her completely was willing to get married to her for his daughter's sake! The daughter he couldnt as much as look at straight face! And then again another day he told his mom he would become the father his daughter always wanted and would do anything ne evrything o keep her happy! And how much ever hes started loving Ishita now and her happiness matters to her, He cant forget Ruhi's happiness! That goes so against every basis of the show!! So i think i'll remain optimistic!

But yes.. I agree that he may consider it and she may stop him much before it goes any farther than their bedroom!! 😳

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I would make, but everyone else says what I want to in better words and ways. So what's the point 😆

He doesn't want to let go, he isn't letting go. He wants to give her the choice to have a better lie. He isn't the one to abandon relations and knows it more than anyone the importance of a happy marriage. He has borne that pain when everything was on his shoulders in his first marriage. He was giving everything in it, giving away a part of himself only to get hurt. And he knows where it landed him. He's just going by his past experiences here too, and assuming it could do the same to Ishita. He's worried for her, because he sees the ealier Raman Bhalla in her, who thinks of everyone but himself.

Ruhi is purposely being ignored here. Yes this relation was for her, they got married for her. But now that isn't the only base of this marriage. I agree he'll be neglecting her in this and that would be wrong. But then how will the 'Ruhi ke liye' cease to exist. This is the last lap before they finally say it in clear words that this marriage isn't only for Ruhi and the last lap before he finally learns how to live in his today.

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Ishita does realise dont u think? And maybe everyone does - but what can they do about it? Atleast what can the Bhallas do? Agreed Raman was at fault but restraining orders ke baad his family obviously has to keep quiet na.. And with a spoilt/manipulated kid - no amount of force or strictness will work anyway.. Ishita's calm and composed nature is the only way to deal with it... The more u try and control him by anger the more he'll rebel.. Best is to give rope and hold tight at the right time!!

And Param tho is a different level yaar! He realises everything much much before anyone else does - he was the first one to see sparks between ishita raman, he was the first one to understand ashok's mihika gameplan, he knew of romi-sarika too 😆 he is omniscient!! 😉

The great Param jeee😃

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

waah waah.. ab itna clearly bol diya tho how can i differ or object! 😳

Big jhappi for this one 🤗

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Had seen most of the epi courtesy BTS am glad though they didnt give away the Raman Adi Scenes or the scenes with Mihir though.

Raman realizing how he too has a part to play in this fiasco was quite good; Shagun cannot be alone blamed no matter what cause when it comes to a child the parents - both of them are equally responsible for their upbringing yes Raman has been way too soft towards Adi always, he took a firmer stand immediately tonight, something which he should have done during the accident track as well. He allowed his son to believe I can get away with murder if I want to so long as I have daddy dearest backing me. Tonight he caved as he got that not only did mommy dearest see a crack - something which I had been surprised by; which is what he was relying on as well. Should dear dad come at him he would hide behind mama but when even she didnt come to his aid, he came down like a house of cards. For a kid who is diabolical - yeah he is - he is also just a kid, nothing could have made it clearer. After all you make mistakes as a kid and while you may lie your way out of them you know this could come back to bite you and that scares any and every kid - especially if you know you did wrong.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Had seen most of the epi courtesy BTS am glad though they didnt give away the Raman Adi Scenes or the scenes with Mihir though.

Raman realizing how he too has a part to play in this fiasco was quite good; Shagun cannot be alone blamed no matter what cause when it comes to a child the parents - both of them are equally responsible for their upbringing yes Raman has been way too soft towards Adi always, he took a firmer stand immediately tonight, something which he should have done during the accident track as well. He allowed his son to believe I can get away with murder if I want to so long as I have daddy dearest backing me. Tonight he caved as he got that not only did mommy dearest see a crack - something which I had been surprised by; which is what he was relying on as well. Should dear dad come at him he would hide behind mama but when even she didnt come to his aid, he came down like a house of cards. For a kid who is diabolical - yeah he is - he is also just a kid, nothing could have made it clearer. After all you make mistakes as a kid and while you may lie your way out of them you know this could come back to bite you and that scares any and every kid - especially if you know you did wrong.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Bhu

exactly Raman thought that if a child is secure than there would be no need to fear the worst; it made him realize the need to make Adi feel secure but with this event he would learn Adi just doesnt need security he needs guidance as well as a firm hand at times too. He cant allow his child to stray on a wrong path and be too lenient with him too...love of a parent is vital but it shouldnt make a child an OOC brat too.

As for Ishu she is a sweetheart - the reason I cant actually see her acts as Mahaanta like many heroines' comes off is because she is such a sorted individual and as a doc - even if she is a dentist - she realizes that a child behaves the way he/she does because of xyz factors - today she said he doesnt have anyone who pscyhologically understands him.

Also a moment of importance - when the inspector asked if they wanna press charges against Adi under the juvy act - Ishu was the one to reply while Raman was mum Adi may not have shown a reaction tonight - director' fault completely - but it would be an important moment when this kid ponders over things - Param painted her as a witch but this is the second time she pardoned him for something so grave...the kid will be forced to wonder someday about his stepmom

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Hello Liashna ji.. aagayi aap? Ab tabiyat kaisi hai aapki?