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ashat123

@ashat123

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Posted: 11 years ago

#81

i don feel bad abt this track... and raman even if he did not confess or get a chance to confess there will be no o back to shagun ... 1st ruhi... only ishita can take care of her... 2nd this as romi get into accident raman and ishita will have some time in hospital na... and most important how much ever he hide as much as i know ramans character he will burst out... wot do u guys think...

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 11 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: ashat123
i don feel bad abt this track... and raman even if he did not confess or get a chance to confess there will be no o back to shagun ... 1st ruhi... only ishita can take care of her... 2nd this as romi get into accident raman and ishita will have some time in hospital na... and most important how much ever he hide as much as i know ramans character he will burst out... wot do u guys think...

A very good idea.
Lots says there will be no confession due to Romi accident but now I also second you here why not in the hospital while they both are alone and Romi also afterwhile must say how Ishita and Mani were trying to help him Sarika and Raman from Ashok plan.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#83

It is obvious that when you win the Asia Head post, you are expected to thank your wife in your speech...but then Raman deviated from that and took Shagun's name instead. I dont know if anybody noticed this or not, but when Ishita saw Raman standing in a corner and talking to the other guys around, she wanted to make a beeline for him...go straight to him..but that didnt happen, coz of Mani, of course! THAT man is ALWAYS hovering around her. It's like he's a hound who can smell Ishita's presence a mile away, and mysteriously drops right in front of her. Alright, you said 'hi' to her, but then since its Raman's BIG DAY and all, let her be with her husband...what's the need to have a prolonged chit-chat even THERE man??!! yeh fool asli hain ki nakli hain...sungh ke dekho..wat shit...NOW, the timing when Raman turned around and saw them both chit-chatting away to glory, especially when by that time Iishita hadnt even met him once, again jabbed at his heart..

I dont know if anybody really sees that, but each time he looks around for her (albeit, in an angry manner), he is giving himself and her a small chance..anything that could negate WHATEVER he saw the day he went to pick her up from the Taekwondo classes...but UNFORTUNATELY, this idiot MANI tapkofies EVERYWHERE...so yeah, if the CVs really want to make a perfect headway for something concrete, they REALLY need to get this dumbo Mani out of this show..atleast for a few days, atleast till the problems between IshRa reach a conclusion and are thoroughly sorted out.

AGAIN, Raman taking Shagun's name was expected. He is burning hot these days, raging, in fact...naturally if he is hurting he would hurt back. It's nothing to do with how MEN behave...its a general human reaction...and if you see it from a TECHNICAL perspective, he hasnt really INSULTED his wife..rather, by personally talking to Shagun and saying, 'tumne mujhe chhoda nai hota toh..." he has INSULTED HER and Ashok (in one way). The expectation Ishita had was again unfounded...did she ever mention to him she was fighting tooth and nail for his post with Mani, behind his back all these days?? No...but yeah, she did expect a cursory acknowledgement ..you know in a very general "har aadmi ki kamyaabi ke peeche ek aurat ka haath hota hai..meri kamyaabi ka sara shrey meri biwi Ishita ko jata hai" which I guess every wife expects.

In today's episode he has bashed Shagun left, right and centre..AND shown her, her place.

Not only that, doing this he has ALSO managed to hurt Ishita badly without making it about HER. It's still a very private emotion between them..a private moment..the moment of shock on Ishita's face..and the moment of avenged hurt on Raman's face after he finished his speech and saw Ishita's face...

I think the scene was totally justified...it might pay for raman to see that Ishita gets terribly affected by his words, and genuinely loves him. But then, Ishita ALSO needs to bring in an element of total privacy between her and Raman to facilitate SOME conversation b/w them. MANI hovering around her 24*7 WILL NOT fetch her Raman's love or trust AT ALL, imo. So yeah, if they have a spat, let it be private, with a lot of anger and tears and throwing around stuff but NOT MANI ...Mani will again chant his "Ishu Shagun nai" b.s. and Raman will lose no chance of telling him HOW much of Shagun he saw in Ishita the day he saw them all huggy-huggy ilu ilu types..

really..only then there will be SOME redemption in this show.

I want Romi to say how Mani was giving him fantabulous ideas of getting him a job in HIS company, and work with him and how this brilliant idea of giving Sarika's baache ko apna naam was MANI's. And I really want Simmi to give a piece of her mind to MANI and tell him to buzz off from family matters. And its high time Toshi responds to her son's behaviour and understand the root problem. If you see, EVERYBODY's got to contribute in his own way for IshRa to come together and get all sorted. And BHALLA ji for ONCE, can afford to be man of the house and BAN Mani from invading their family space and chipkoing with Ishita...

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navstar8

@navstar8

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Posted: 11 years ago

#84

I am going to go against the grain here and say that I can't blame Raman one bit. What self respecting wife even jokes about leaving her husband and kid to another man (even if that man is a friend). I have male friends I would never tell them I love them (married or not) because it can start/send the wrong message.

You say Raman was not fair humiliating the women in public but what of Ishita constantly sl*gging Raman off to whoever she sees fit, if its not her sister then its Mani or the whole family. Family/ public makes no difference. I would be furious if my husband spoken ill of me in the way Ishita has done to family or friends. There is no respect in that.

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PADMA VARANASI

@padmavar

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
Why Raman who's suspecting his wife who is not 100% sure about exactly Ishita having an extra marital affair with Mani goes in public with his sarcastic comments to shoot Indirectly to Ishita...
He did not try to talk about it with Ishita..
This could not be done at home privately or is it to encourage Shagun to get back to him...

It is not Raman's fault, it is the cvs and writer's. They are making Raman into a pathetic being and a not having enough guts to confront Ishita or Mani. They are making him wallow in self pity.

Edited by padmavar - 11 years ago

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Venkata

@venkata

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#86

My personal opinion of targeting wife in public place is very much like killing a person. She also have a self respect and any husband does not have right to tore it.

Now coming to serial point of view Raman is correct. We all viewers know that Ishita does not love mani but Raman whatever he saw he believed that Ishita loves mani and she is going to leave him.. The reason for all this is because of his past experience and his current wife stupidity and nagamani jaap. See this things happen in real life also. I have a personal experience. I had a failure in one work. Every time i try to start that i always fear of failure. So here Raman is not at fault.

Edited by venkata - 11 years ago

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#87

@venkata..

but nobody knows he was targeting ISHITA no??

Instead, the way he personally took Shagun's name, it seemed her was targeting her instead. Yea, it might have seemed odd for a few seconds where he was supposed to thank his current wife but took his ex-wife's name. But then eventually when you look at technically, he was kind of insulting and mocking SHAGUN. The fact that Ishita was hurt and it shocked her remains with her and her family members. MANI, who is such a god and such a keen observer of things, SOMEHOW hasnt managed to YET understand that he is the root cause of this problem.

It is very unreal of ISHITA or for that matter, ANY wife to expect her husband is going to publicly applaud her, when she has been ignoring him all this while in favour of her male bestie. To RAMAN, who is a man, that picture has been there before him for quite some time now..so its natural he is going to believe that.

Plus, why are we talking only about Ishita's self-respect?? EVen raman has a self-respect which, clearly Ishita has violated by behaving the way she has been with mani, for this long now. According to him, she is doing the same thing which Shagun did, and in this case, I would say Ishita had full responsibility to tone down her interactions with MANI and not behave like a college-going adolescent, which she didnt effectively fulfill. Despite his attempts at trying to clear the air, trying to believe in his wife, giving her all the freedom and be cool with it, he is STILL presented with circumstances which ANYBODY would take at face value. If a grown woman like Ishita is acting stupid and saying stupid stuff like she shud leave her husband and child and run off with her male bestie, AND the concerned male bestie is full-on lattoo on her (which the husband knows)..this will be a typical reaction. It's not about guts or anything. It's also about self-respect of the man who was betrayed and left behind by an ex-wife and who sees the same thing happening with his current wife, and decides its better to keep to himself rather than destroy his self-esteem by asking her about something, which he already knows the answer to.

But Ishita is acting super selfish...all these days, she didnt even bother so much about her husband's moods and all, and now, it hits her fair and square in the face. She needs some sense.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#88

Raman has given Ishita countless hints of the fact that he does NOT like MANI. Is Ishita so thick in her head, this doesnt penetrate her senses? Why should he confront her? Two nights ago, when he told them both that MANI wrecked his home, wasnt it logical for Ishita to at least put SOME thought into it? Ok, dont doubt your own character but try and understand why your husband said those words, why he was shoving your best frnd..why he was this pained and angry...nahin, she wont..and its quite sad that she paints such a pure picture of herself, because not even ONCE have the CVs shown Ishita feeling ANY guilt whatsoever in lying to raman and meeting mani, all these days...

This isnt the Ishita we know. The fact that your spouse may or may not come to know about it is diff. The point is - how do you feel lying to ur spouse and hiding things from him?? Are you that casual that you can make jokes about it and still feel you're a Sita spouted from the earth or something? Surely, it must make you cringe a lil bit, atleast. The fact that it doesnt in Ishita's case, is very sad...In her mind, she is justified doing watever she feels like, whatever the means are, without her actions having any bearing on her husband;s behaviour watsoever...if intentions were the only things that mattered, people wouldnt be getting jailed for homicide for accidentally bumping off people on the road ...so yeah, watever she is getting now is the result of watever she was doing till this point.

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Colt.Pixy

@Colt.Pixy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: gravity23
@venkata..
but nobody knows he was targeting ISHITA no??

Instead, the way he personally took Shagun's name, it seemed her was targeting her instead. Yea, it might have seemed odd for a few seconds where he was supposed to thank his current wife but took his ex-wife's name. But then eventually when you look at technically, he was kind of insulting and mocking SHAGUN. The fact that Ishita was hurt and it shocked her remains with her and her family members. MANI, who is such a god and such a keen observer of things, SOMEHOW hasnt managed to YET understand that he is the root cause of this problem.

It is very unreal of ISHITA or for that matter, ANY wife to expect her husband is going to publicly applaud her, when she has been ignoring him all this while in favour of her male bestie. To RAMAN, who is a man, that picture has been there before him for quite some time now..so its natural he is going to believe that.

Plus, why are we talking only about Ishita's self-respect?? EVen raman has a self-respect which, clearly Ishita has violated by behaving the way she has been with mani, for this long now. According to him, she is doing the same thing which Shagun did, and in this case, I would say Ishita had full responsibility to tone down her interactions with MANI and not behave like a college-going adolescent, which she didnt effectively fulfill. Despite his attempts at trying to clear the air, trying to believe in his wife, giving her all the freedom and be cool with it, he is STILL presented with circumstances which ANYBODY would take at face value. If a grown woman like Ishita is acting stupid and saying stupid stuff like she shud leave her husband and child and run off with her male bestie, AND the concerned male bestie is full-on lattoo on her (which the husband knows)..this will be a typical reaction. It's not about guts or anything. It's also about self-respect of the man who was betrayed and left behind by an ex-wife and who sees the same thing happening with his current wife, and decides its better to keep to himself rather than destroy his self-esteem by asking her about something, which he already knows the answer to.

But Ishita is acting super selfish...all these days, she didnt even bother so much about her husband's moods and all, and now, it hits her fair and square in the face. She needs some sense.

well said akangsha

@bold: word !!!

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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Posted: 11 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: sobha
As I said it was too much..isitha never embarrases him in public and he keeps on doing 🤢

if am nt. wrong their first fight begin in public only. press conference mein jaha ishita ne raman ki class li regarding kidnapping her daughter...its nt the first time actually...